The Slumflower Hour

LIVING WITH A MAN?

Do you live with a man? Has he started showing signs of becoming comfortable? Does his existence disgust you? Well in this episode, join Chidera as she discusses ways yo

PRICE HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE

Does money make you feel uncomfortable? Are men taking advantage of your nervousness to ask them for stuff? Is it too daunting to make a man feel like he needs to be mate

PASSIVE MEN

Is that man still loitering even though you rejected him? Does he seem to conflate debating with flirting? Are you getting the vibe he's trying to throw subtle jabs? In

HE'S JEALOUS OF YOU

These men secretly want to be us so bad. Watch out for men who will seek your hand in courtship just to COMPETE with you... In this episode, join The Slumflower as she d

REALISING YOU WERE TOO GOOD FOR HIM

Why do we always realise we were too good for these men after things end? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the post-breakup clarity we all need to

PUNISH HIM

When was the last time you punished a man and why was it so long ago? What can women do to gain and hold more leverage in their relationships with men? And what can women

THE UNMARRIABLE WOMAN

There are just some women in this world who are far too complex, untameable and powerful to be confined to the limitations of 'wife'. The power that comes from embracing

PROTECT YOUR VULNERABILITY

Do you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve? Do you often find yourself giving more than you get from men? Is your vulnerability something that is often rough-handled a

GIRL, SLOW DOWN...

Do you have a tendency to rush things with men? Do you find that things tend to start intensely then burn out fast? Does long distance really deserve the bad rep it gets?

THE MALE EGO

In a world that is governed by men's weak egos, what steps are you taking to make the world a tougher place for them? In a world where men select women based on the prais

TRAIN HIM!

Did you know that men are a breed of dog? Did you also know that it's your responsibility to dictate how you deserve to be treated in a world where men already feel entit

DATING AS A MAN HATER?

Is it possible to hate men and still date them? Yes, just like men are misogynists who still relentlessly chase the comfort, warmth and love of women! Sarcasm aside, in a

THE WOMAN WHO IS WILLING TO WALK

Have you finally had enough? Have you finally developed the backbone to leave these men behind? Does your ability to walk away scare men? This episode is most certainly f

THE PERFORMATIVE MAN

Is that man wearing allyship like a costume? Does he suddenly become a 'feminist' when the bill comes? Is he selective with your empowerment whilst being threatened by yo

OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE

Let's talk about making dating work for you in an already terrible dating pool! Are you utilising the men in your life properly? Are you open to the idea of a roster and

THE ALPHA WOMAN

Do you fear your own power? Do you 'naturally' feel inclined to defer to men? Does the idea of a powerful woman who makes men question themselves entice you or does it ma

BECAUSE OF A MAN

The things women do for men...are they even worth it? Of course not but alas, here we are! In this episode, join Chidera as we talk about the sacrifices and leaps women t

YOU ARE IN DENIAL

How long will you keep lying to yourself? Is it finally time to interfere with the story you've been telling yourself? Are there certain delusions keeping you bound to th

MAINTAINING COMPOSURE

How do you manage when someone puts you on the spot and tries to bully you? Or if you're caught in a situation where you have to stand up for yourself without bursting in

FEMALE RAGE

Do you allow yourself to be angry or do you repress it? In a society where women's rage is stifled and suppressed, it's time we have a conversation about allowing ourselv