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Mental Health · Felicia Keller Boyle & Kristie Plantinga

What Your Therapist Thinks

by Felicia Keller Boyle & Kristie Plantinga

A mental health show where actual, licensed therapists open up about what they’re really thinking, while answering the internet’s most burning mental health questions. And by burning mental health questions, we mean the stuff you’re posting about anonymously on Reddit in the middle of the night. These therapists aren’t holding back. They’re telling you what they really think including the things they’d never actually say in session. Each week, you’ll hear from expert therapists to break it all down: from emotional numbness and trauma, to self-worth and healing. What Your Therapist Thinks is a weekly, limited run podcast hosted by Kristie Plantinga, founder of Best Therapists, and Felicia Keller Boyle, a licensed somatic therapist in private practice. Brought to you by BestTherapists.com—a directory that vets mental health professionals so therapy-seekers can focus on fit, not quality. Produced by PodVision. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts or watch full video episodes on the “What Your Therapist Thinks” YouTube channel. https://www.youtube.com/@WhatYourTherapistThinks

Latest episodes

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How Can Mother-Daughter Relationships Heal? Building a Deeper and Healthier Connection

Brittney Scott, licensed therapist, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the dynamics of mother-daughter relationships ahead of Mother’s Day. They discuss everything from

May 8
46 min

How Can We Get The Spark Back? Strategies for Long-Term Relationship Intimacy

Dr. Lindsay Cavanagh, psychologist and marriage expert, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the strategies for long-term intimacy. They discuss the emotional aspect of de

Apr 15
55 min

How Do I Regulate My Nervous System? Resetting Your System & Managing Stress

Therapists Julie Goldberg joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the mechanics of nervous system regulation and offer a practical, somatic perspective on mental health. They

Apr 8
1 h 00 min

Why Am I Anxious About Money? Healing Your Financial Psychology

Financial therapist Lindsay Bryan-Podvin joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the psychological roots of our bank accounts. They center the conversation on the emotional l

Apr 1
58 min

Talking in Therapy isn’t Enough? Reprocessing Trauma with EMDR

Erica Bonham, LPC, MA joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify EMDR therapy and how it actually works to heal the brain. They explore how bilateral stimulation mimics REM s

Mar 25
56 min

How Do I Get Over Someone? The Science of Heartbreak with Colette J. Fehr

Relationship expert Colette J. Fehr joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the messy, neurological reality of moving on. They explore why breakups feel less like a simple go

Mar 18
59 min

Why Am I So Messy? Reasons You’re Messy with KC Davis

Author and counselor KC Davis, LPC joins Kristie and Felicia to break down the shame often associated with a messy home. They unpack the life-changing mindset of moral ne

Mar 11
58 min

How Can I Enjoy Dating? Dating Advice From Therapy Jeff

Jeff Guenther, LPC, also known as TherapyJeff, joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on modern romance. They break down the dating world as a space that requires

Mar 4
58 min

Do I Have ADHD? What ADHD Looks Like In Women

Dr. Rebeccah Lyle, a psychiatric nurse practitioner, joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the nuanced reality of ADHD in women and AFAB individuals. Together, they break

Feb 25
53 min

Season 2 is here!

Welcome to Season 2 of What Your Therapist Thinks. We were absolutely mind-blown by all the love we got from you in season 1 and so after some life changes like Kristie h

Feb 11
2 min

Why Did We Start a Mental Health Podcast? Felicia & Kristie's Origin Story

In this special episode, hosts Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle share their own mental health journeys and what led them to create "What Your Therapist Thinks".

Jan 14
49 min

How Do I Set Boundaries With Family? A Guide To Surviving The Holidays

In this special holiday episode, Katrina Mautner, a queer trauma-informed therapist, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on setting boundaries with family. Drawi

Dec 10 2025
46 min

How Do I Overcome Performance Anxiety? The Fear Behind Performance

Shelly Qualter, an expert counselor, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on performance anxiety. Drawing from Shelly’s experience as an expert counselor, they br

Nov 19 2025
1 h 05 min

What Type Of Trauma Do I Have? Understanding Trauma

Jon Lee LMFT, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on trauma and recovery. Drawing from Jon’s specialized niche in dissociative disorders, they break down trauma

Nov 12 2025
1 h 09 min

Why Do People Cheat? Understanding the Psychology of Infidelity

Certified sex therapist Amalia Miralrio joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything cheating. Drawing from her psychoanalytic expertise, Amalia breaks down infidelity as

Nov 5 2025
1 h 01 min

Am I Just “Nice,” Or Am I A People Pleaser? Signs You’re People Pleasing

Somatic trauma therapist Chloe Bean joins Felicia and Kristie to talk everything people-pleasing. Drawing from her expertise in high-functioning anxiety, Chloe breaks dow

Oct 29 2025
1 h 06 min

What Does Contempt In Relationships Look Like? How To Keep Your Relationship Contempt-Free

Licensed clinical social worker Kenny Levine joins Kristie and Felicia to explore the destructive power of contempt in relationships. Drawing from the Gottman method, Ken

Oct 22 2025
1 h 02 min

What is Coregulation & Parenting? How Coregulation Helps Build The Best Child-Parent Relationships

Licensed marriage and family therapist Dr. Cassidy Freitas joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack everything on co-regulation in parenting. Dr. Freitas breaks down advice li

Oct 15 2025
1 h 00 min

What Should I Talk About During Ketamine Therapy? How to Get The Most Out Of A Session

Ketamine specialist Shannon York joins Kristie and Felicia to chat about the transformative world of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). Shannon breaks down how it’s d

Oct 8 2025
59 min

Are My Intrusive Thoughts "Normal" Or Do I Have OCD?

Licensed and multi-certified therapist Kathryn Wood joins Kristie and Felicia to demystify Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and intrusive thoughts. They break down wha

Oct 1 2025
1 h 10 min

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Chart positions

Where What Your Therapist Thinks ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 16, 2026).

#109 ▲ 21 Mental Health US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I like the concept of the podcast and I will keep listening, but sometimes it seems like the hosts don’t prep their guests. Moreover the hosts already have scripted ideas of how they would respond to their own questions. So when a guest responds to their question, they can come back and give an even more refined response to their own question that tops the guest. Why have someone on if you’re not going to give them the lead in sharing ideas? Try to have an actual conversation.I suggest giving guests the questions beforehand so they aren’t sounding so blindsided.

-racer- · Dec 2025

I liked the podcast but find it interesting how being ageist is an accepted ‘ism’—especially by therapists. The boomer comments and older people references garnered groans and giggles which I personally find offensive. You would be the first to be sensitive to other attitudes related to race, gender or identity, but seem to have no issue with age.

fraudpatrol · Dec 2025

Insightful podcast that explores potential root causes and provides thoughtful potential opportunities to deal with mental health blind spots using real world examples.

Victoria Lola 11 · Nov 2025

The subject matter experts the select for each episode have a lot to offer. Wish the hosts would let the guest be the main speaker…there are episodes where the guest speaks for what seems like 15% of the time. Hosts need to develop a more generous interview structure for the guest expert.

momo sj · Nov 2025

*What Your Therapist Thinks* is comforting if your experience fits the hosts’ frame. But if your suffering is tied to systems of power, racism, displacement, or generational poverty, it cannot reach you. Therapy without cultural literacy becomes another form of erasure dressed up as self-care. The podcast wants to make therapy more human, yet forgets that humanity is plural. Cultural competence is not optional; it is the baseline for ethical healing. Without it, this is compassion that cannot see who is missing from the room.

Welchsu · Nov 2025

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