We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?
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Episode 162: Where Non-monogamy Intersects with Real Life
Non-monogamy can be about much more than sex with other people. For us, it has enriched our relationship, created meaningful friendships, and changed the way we move thro
Sep 9 1 h 08 min
Episode 161: How Feelings Make Us Feel
Emotions are having a moment—and they're affecting everything from our broader culture to our most intimate relationships. In this episode, Kel from Expansive Connection
Aug 29 1 h 28 min
Episode 160: More Than Monogamy Documentary- An Interview with the Creators
Sexuality is complex. Sexuality is diverse. Sexuality is More Than Monogamy.
More Than Monogamy is a feature-length documentary film about non-monogamy, polyamory, open
Aug 12 1 h 07 min
Episode 159: So You Think You Want to Kink?
Kink is often misunderstood, wrapped in myths, stereotypes, and cultural taboos that obscure what it's really about. In this episode, we unpack what kink is—and just as i
Jul 31 1 h 26 min
Episode 158: Taking One for the Team
The phrase "taking one for the team" is often treated as a hard boundary in ethical non-monogamy, but we think the reality is far more nuanced. For us, attraction is rare
Jul 22 1 h 06 min
Episode 157: Erotic Compatibility and Non-Monogamy
What if the key to greater pleasure, connection, and fulfillment is understanding your unique erotic wiring? In this episode, we explore the Erotic Blueprints™, a framewo
Jun 24 1 h 33 min
Episode 156: Opening the Circle
In this episode, Dr Mitch from Expansive Connection joins us as we explore the powerful idea of "Opening the Circle" — the human need to feel welcomed, included, and conn
May 26 1 h 35 min
Episode 155: Redefining the Swinging Lifestyle
In this episode we are reframing the traditional concept of "swinging" by moving away from labels that feel intimidating or misleading and instead embracing the broader c
May 18 1 h 07 min
Episode 154: Why Comparison is the Thief of Joy
In this episode, Kel from Expansive Connection discusses the pervasive issue of comparison, its roots in human evolution, and practical tools to manage it. The conversati
May 1 1 h 12 min
Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue
We've talked about jealousy, we've talked about body image. We've discussed learning to flirt and being corageous in the lifestyle. But beneath the surface we all have in
Apr 16 1 h 01 min
Episode 152: Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle
There are no shortage of lifestyle sitiuations that will cause us some anxiety! Visiting a club for the first time, going on a first date, being rejected by others, wonde
Apr 1 53 min
Episode 151: The Resort- A Gateway to Ethical Non-Monogamy
In this episode we review our trip to 'The Resort' which was first introduced by George in episode 137. The Resort is a new opportunity to step into ethical non-monogamy
Mar 19 1 h 00 min
Episode 150: Is the Lifestyle Addictive?
Can the lifestyle become an addiction? Well, it can if we don't recognize what's going on in our brains. In this episode with Catherine from Expansive Connection, we brea
Mar 5 1 h 12 min
Episode 149: How to Be a Power Couple in the Lifestyle
What does it take to be 'successful' as a couple in the world of non-monogamy? In this episode we discuss waht we believe to be the four most important characteristics of
Feb 11 1 h 10 min
Episode 148: Reframing Christian Faith and the Lifestyle
Do you struggle with your understanding of how non-monogamy reconciles with a life of faith? Join us for a thought provoking conversation with Dr Mitch G, the newest memb
Jan 28 1 h 24 min
Episode 147: Safer Sex with STD Hero
One of the most common concerns for those in the lifestyle or considering non-monogamy is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection or disease. We invited
Jan 16 1 h 29 min
Episode 146: How Relationships Change Over Time
We all know that all relationships, monogamous and non-monogamous, will change over time. Many of those changes will lead to the relationship ending. But does it have to
Dec 30 2025 1 h 15 min
Episode 145: Ask Us (And Our Friends) Anything
This 'ask us anything' episode was recorded live at our 9th annual group trip to Desire Pearl. Not only did we answer questions but our friends helped us out by contribut
Dec 16 2025 1 h 23 min
Episode 144: Lifestyle Coaching in the Aftermath of Loss
As a follow up to our episode 142, we hear from Catherine about how the ending of her marriage is affecting her coaching business at Expansive Connection. Will her client
Nov 26 2025 1 h 05 min
Episode 143: Swinging & Polyamory- Are We More Alike than We Think?
We are joined by Dedeker, Emily and Jase from the Multiamory* podcast to discuss the similarities and differences between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory! We also ta
Nov 12 2025 1 h 29 min
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Lifestyle podcasts have been getting better and better lately, but this one is now the best. Mr. and Mrs. Jones are smart, engaging, funny, fun, sexy, and thoughtful. More importantly, they are not afraid to go deep and really explore and express their feelings on a topic. This means you feel like you know them (even though they remind you that you don't) and are that much more engaged in the topic, making you think yourself about your values and relationships. And while there is nothing more important than that, they don't take themselves too seriously.
We'd probably listen to them if it was a podcast on their experiences with running, they are that charming and positive and so clearly in love. That said, we would certainly miss the super hot "snapshots" from their lifestyle adventures!
12OC · Dec 2016
An open, honest look on various topics of the lifestyle. Mr and Mrs Jones are very educational, and open in sharing their experiences. I have especially liked the episodes of learning, mistakes, and their own way of navigating throughout the lifestyle. They are consistent in posting which makes it even better!
Jumpmaster98 · Dec 2016
During each episode, you will find something that relates to your present situation. This was our first swinger podcast. Liked it from day one, and the Jones's continue to deliver. Actually, I think they are getting better. Well thought out, organized, sounds like professional production. My only suggestion would be to make each episode a little shorter, we often have to break up an episode several times to get through it. But we always want to finish. Enjoy!
Suzukiman99 · Dec 2016
While recovering from surgery this summer I finished binge watching Game of Thrones and Orange is the New Black. A quick iTunes search later and I was binge listening to We Gotta Thing. I've been hooked ever since! The Jones's provide a sophisticated, entertaining, and practical look into the realities of navigating the lifestyle. I have learned quite a few things along the way and have been able to refer LS friends to specific episodes to help with issues such as boundaries, jealousy, and LS travel. I'm grateful for their real life approach and will be a loyal listener as long as they keep putting out content!
TDD2121 · Dec 2016
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