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After Action Report #49

#13 trending · Health & Fitness

What's in the duffel bag? On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?

Oct 2
20 min

Savage Love Episode 1038

#6 trending · Sexuality

We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing? A

Sep 29
58 min

After Action Report #48

Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this

Sep 25
15 min

Savage Love Episode 1037

#38 trending · Sexuality

Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently! A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical c

Sep 22
49 min

After Action Report #47

No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN b

Sep 18
17 min

Savage Love Episode 1036

Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they ca

Sep 15
45 min

After Action Report #46

Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits Consent Form Waste bag How did it go? You'll find out. Send us

Sep 11
19 min

Savage Love Episode 1035

A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home

Sep 8
57 min

After Action Report #45

Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for pr

Sep 4
16 min

Savage Lovecast Episode 1034

Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. Ho

Sep 1
53 min

After Action Report #44

Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event." What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here

Aug 28
18 min

Savage Love Episode 1033

A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continu

Aug 25
51 min

After Action Report #43

After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time. Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story. And how she feels a

Aug 21
17 min

Savage Lovecast Episode 1032

As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck.

Aug 18
59 min

After Action Report #42

Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really? It’s a journey… Tell us all ab

Aug 14
20 min

Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46

Sex & Politics #46 Can we really change? Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson Coll

Aug 13
45 min

Savage Love Episode 1031

A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner? A wo

Aug 11
51 min

After Action Report #41

What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out… Tell us about your brave excursion. Write about your experience and send it to

Aug 7
15 min

Savage Lovecast Episode 1030

Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up? A woman with super-high libido

Aug 4
52 min

After Action Report #40

“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…” Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply

Jul 31
16 min

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Chart positions

Where Savage Lovecast ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Oct 3, 2026).

#68 ▲ 2 Health & Fitness US

#5 — Sexuality US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I’ve listened to the podcast for 10+ years after reading Dan’s column in our local Pitch weekly newspaper for years before that. I may not always agree with him, but I will always appreciate his efforts to de-mystify sex and relationships. I also love his advocacy for the LGBTQ community! All this and his show is STILL so enjoyable to listen to! Thanks, Dan!

Kon Krypton · Jul 2026

This podcast is absolutely phenomenal! It’s therapeutic, extremely educational, and diverse! I honestly never thought a podcast could have such a profound impact on my life! Dan Savage himself, his guest speakers, and callers share and give incredibly level headed advice aided with empathy and compassion!

Kjudson · May 2025

So much more than sex advice, it’s life advice! Funny, opinionated, and always thoughtful—Dan’s perspective can help anyone live and love better.

DickeyDonnely · Sep 2023

Re: Bonus Episode on April 1st Long-time listener here. I get that you may have done this episode as a “practical joke” on this occasion for April Fool’s but if so, there was literally nothing funny about it. I decided to stop listening after listening to Dan’s responses to the first three calls because the diatribe of condescension just because too much. This podcast is supposed to be informative and entertaining, right? Not voyeurism of Dan Savage punishing listener for what he seems to deem stupid questions.Not only were his responses entirely unhelpful and patronizing but the pattern of condescension to some listener calls over time has become cringe worthy and honestly feels like an embarrassing glimpse into Dan’s misplaced sense of superiority and the ugliness living inside of his mind. Treating so many of these listener calls as if the callers were stupid, especially in such a public way, speaks volumes about Dan rather than embarrassing the callers as he seems to intend to do when “roasting them.” It’s just gotten dark, Dan. I know you’re going through it with your injured shoulder but cope, my man. Or don’t record the episode at all if you’re going to be this vicious to some of your callers. Or just pick different listener calls to answer where you’re actually answering the question and not just cutting the person down to size. Honest feedback, man. It’s not healthy to be this vicious to people, let alone so publicly. And I’m not just talking about this particular episode. I hope you give it some sincere thought and don’t just discard this as criticism. All the best.

all the nicknames are taken009 · Apr 2023

Dan once cut through sexual myths with common sense. Now he suggests the government tolerates contaminated lettuce because diarrhea keeps Americans from voting, then advertises dubious “bigger load” supplements that cannot reliably deliver what they promise. He has become the credulous crank he used to mock and tries to monetize on his listener’s insecurities. One star for the old Dan, one for the occasional moment when he resurfaces.

Dmagen · Aug 2026

Why list the magnum guest when it’s not in the actual podcast? I listened to an episode waiting for the interview with the guest I was interested in. A half hour in I find out that’s a separate subscription thing. I thought it was misleading, there’s no mention in the into that the gusts listed aren’t actually on the show here. I was disappointed I wasted my time and didn’t even enjoy the 33 minutes of show i heard

Epiphany>! · Aug 2023

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