Front Porch Swingers

Episode 416: If We Had a Time Machine...

We discuss what we would change about our lifestyle journey if we had a time machine and could go back 8 1/2 years... Spoiler alert, we have very different answers! Plus,

Episode 415: You Can Love Them AND Ask for More

We've all seen it in the lifestyle: The dreaded "steering wheel couple," where one half is SIGNIFICANTLY better put together than the other. And it has us wondering: Don'

Episode 414: A Mixed Bag in Atlanta

We took Better Bedroom Body to a hotel takeover in Atlanta recently. The experience was WILDLY successful for us from a professional perspective, but personally, we were

Episode 413: Get That Skin Lobbed Off!

A recent consultation with a plastic surgeon has led to some very interesting conversations between the two of us about "vanity" in the lifestyle, and when it makes sense

Episode 412: Couples Who Get Fit Together...

After being on vastly different pages with our health and wellness for YEARS, we discuss what it's now like to be on the same page. We also delve into an interesting phen

Episode 411: How Weight Loss Can Affect Your ENM Journey

As someone who herself lost 100 lbs while in the ENM lifestyle, Brenna shares the ups and downs of a major weight loss. We discuss the "dad bod" phenomenon, the importanc

Episode 410: Better Bedroom Body

After much soul searching and discussions, we came to one important realization: It's time for us to share the things we are most passionate about with the lifestyle! Tha

Episode 409: Intentionality Versus Expectations

We have learned several times recently that there is a HUGE difference between having specific expectations at a lifestyle event versus setting intentions before going. W

Episode 408: Your Lifestyle Weekend Doesn't Have to Wreck Your Health

Going to a hotel takeover or other multi-day lifestyle event can completely throw you off your normal health and wellness game. But it doesn't have to! We share our tips

Episode 407: The Cost of Caring What Others Think

Everyone knows someone in the lifestyle who is TERRIFIED of their friends or family finding out about their non-monogamous world. We discuss how this can often be more of

Episode 406: No Glove, No Love

An INSANE forum conversation has us once again questioning the rise of raw play... We share recent stats on STI rates with and without condoms, and our theories on why so

Episode 405: The Ultimate Imposter Syndrome

We went to this year's Hotwife  Palooza in Tucson! And the event itself was amazing! Great staff, friendly attendees, well organized. Yet we found ourselves questioning,

Episode 404: Does Non-Monogamy Make You Hotter?

Is getting into the lifestyler a motivator for people to work on their health and fitness? We share our personal and anecdotal experiences. Plus, why is nobody talking ab

Episode 403: Cliques, Gatekeeping, and Social Politics in the Lifestyle

If we've heard it once, we've heard it a million times: "Cliques in the lifestyle are a problem!" Is that the case? As two self-proclaimed non-joiners, we dissect the wor

Episode 402: Are We Still Lifestylers?

After several months of no play in the lifestyle, we have started to ponder one important question: Are we even still in the lifestyle? We discuss what it means to take a

Episode 401: Men Have Standards... Until They Don't!

Men online love to talk a big game about their standards and preferences when it comes to whom they will engage with sexually. But from hosting hundreds of lifestyle even

Episode 400: Our Old Podcast Episodes Aged....Poorly

As a special treat for Episode 400, we thought it would be soooo fun to each go back and listen to one of our episodes from years past. But the little social experiment w

Episode 399: Escapism in the Lifestyle

For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of distraction and escapism. In t

Episode 398: Predators in the Playrooms

As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and consensual for all, other instanc

Episode 397: Hot People as a Marketing Strategy

We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this still ethical in the