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The Kink Consultant

by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant

Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.

Latest episodes

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What Working Out, Binge-Eating, and Kink Have In Common with Fitrix Carmilla Vess

Fitrix, personal trainer, and OnlyFans creator Carmilla Vess joins the podcast to discuss how kink and fitness intersect, why butt plugs can teach you to squat, and how t

Sep 17
49 min

Life-Changing Kink Stories: What Happens When You Finally Listen to Your Kink?

Four real people, four very different kink journeys, and a whole lot of proof that listening to your kink can actually change your life.  Book A Consult Call with Amanda

Sep 10
1 h 14 min

How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Deepest Fantasies with Dr. Stacy Friedman

Clinical sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman joins the podcast to discuss how to talk to your partner about your deepest fantasies, navigate midlife desire, and advocate for yo

Sep 3
49 min

Psychedelics, Kink, and Coming Home to Your Body with Allana Pratt

Emotional intimacy coach Allana Pratt joins the podcast to discuss psychedelics, kink, and coming home to your body through healing trauma and somatic integration work.

Aug 27
55 min

Why Dismantling the Patriarchy Will Give You Better Sex with Samia Mounts

Samia Mounts returns for a deep conversation on dismantling the patriarchy, polyamory, and how we can all break free from the systems that hold us back.  Book A Consult

Aug 20
59 min

on Female Desire, Mental Load, and Mismatched Libido with Caroline Hood

Licensed clinician and author Caroline Hood joins the podcast to discuss the truth about female desire, the impact of mental load, and how to navigate mismatched libido i

Aug 13
59 min

ADHD, Kink, and Neurodivergent Relationships with Catieosaurus

Cate Osborn aka Catieosaurus returns to discuss ADHD, kink, neurodivergent relationships, and how to build sustainable dynamics that work with your brain. Book A Consult

Aug 6
44 min

A Guide to Setting Boundaries in Kink with Melancholy Ghost

Melancholy Ghost, Missouri title holder and boundaries educator, joins the podcast to discuss how to set, communicate, and protect boundaries in kink. Book A Consult Cal

Jul 30
1 h 08 min

How to Navigate a 24/7 Dynamic: A Conversation on Boundaries and Communication with My Dom

Amanda and her dom sit down for an honest conversation about how they navigate boundaries, fear, and communication in their 24/7 dynamic. Book A Consult Call with Amanda

Jul 23
34 min

Hot Girl Energy: How to Date Without Losing Yourself with Kristen Aut

Kristen Aut returns to discuss how to date without losing yourself, break free from obsessive patterns, and step into your Hot Girl Energy this summer. Sign-up for the H

Jul 13
41 min

How to Tell Your Partner About Your Fetish with Miz Darling

Miz Darling returns to discuss how to tell your partner about your fetish, navigate shame and fear, and build healthy relationships around kink. Book A Consult Call with

Jul 9
51 min

Kinky Cruises, Chastity Cages, and Social Media Bans with Larah Sky

Book A Consult Call with Amanda⁠ ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult⁠Larah Sky is back for another unfiltered conversation covering social media frustrations, kin

Jul 2
1 h 19 min

Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas

Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think. This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simone Milasas, glob

Jun 25
41 min

Emotional Masculinity: Breaking Down Toxic Masculinity, the Manosphere, and Real Intimacy with Matt Salis

Why does the word "masculinity" feel so loaded? I went looking for answers, and found the perfect person to break it down. In this episode, I sit down with Matt Salis, a

Jun 18
42 min

Finding Your Kinky Match: A Conversation with Kink Matchmaker Shea Primus

Finding your perfect match is already hard enough. Now try finding one who also matches you in the kink department. In this episode, I sit down with Shea Primus, CEO and

Jun 11
54 min

How to Be Kinky as a Parent: Raising A Child Without Losing Your Dynamic with Athena Gale

Ever wondered what life looks like when you have a 24/7 kink dynamic, a career in the sex space, and a child to raise? Get seated because Athena Gale is giving us a sneak

Jun 4
1 h 01 min

A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, Fetishes, and BDSM: An Interview with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander

I was invited onto the podcast Couples Therapy in 7 Words with Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander, two proudly vanilla people who sat down with me to ask the exact ques

May 28
1 h 02 min

How to Bring Up Kink Without Sounding Creepy with Connell Barrett

Dating coach, Connell Barrett returns to the podcast and this time we’re diving into one of the biggest questions people struggle with in dating: how the hell do you actu

May 21
48 min

Dating Advice for Men & Women: Flirting, Confidence and Attraction with Connell Barrett

Flirting is supposed to be fun, not complicated.  In this episode, I’m joined by dating coach and author Connell Barrett for a conversation about flirting, confidence, d

May 14
59 min

Answering Your Most Common Kink Questions

I have combined my most popular solo episodes to answer your most asked questions about kink, BDSM, dom/sub dynamics, and relationships.  In this episode, we talk about

May 8
44 min

Chart trend

Position in the Sexuality chart (US), last 90 days.

#24
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43
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Chart positions

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#28 ▲ 13 Sexuality US

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As someone who is a professional dom of sorts and lives a kinky lifestyle, this podcast is phenomenal! I highly encourage others to listen to it for sure. I will be recommending this podcast to friends, clients, and others in between. I always consider myself some sort of kink consultant or therapist of sorts, glad that you feel the same way as it is so accurate. Keep up the good work, can’t wait to see where the podcast takes me! 😈

Ryan Centofanti · Dec 2024

The Kink Consultant is an amazing host and the guests/topics each week are fantastic! Aside from her being a tremendous story teller, her humor and genuineness is unparalleled.

Chimping91 · Nov 2024

Open and vulnerable but still super informative by someone who knows.

ThrashDriveshaft · Oct 2024

Love the Kink Consultant. Such a great storyteller who balances information, depth and humor. Five stars!

jazzgrll · Sep 2024

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