Sex With Emily

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Why You Feel Disconnected During Sex

Try the We-Vibe Nova to explore internal and external stimulation together, no experience necessary: https://bit.ly/wevibenovadual Let's talk about what actually gets in

Sep 25
44 min

The Real Difference Between Sexually Happy Couples and Everyone Else

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Great sex isn’t about finding one perfect moment and trying to recreate it forever. It’s about getting curious about what made that moment feel so good in the first place

Sep 22
25 min

Why You Don’t Want Sex Anymore

Low desire isn’t always about your relationship or something you need to “fix” inside yourself. Sometimes, feeling more connected to your sexuality begins outside the bed

Sep 18
28 min

Five Unsexy Tips for Better Sex Every Time

Let's talk about five things that are quietly killing your sex life that have absolutely nothing to do with attraction, technique, or how much you love your partner… beca

Sep 15
20 min

The 5 Love Languages: How to Feel More Loved & Have Better Sex

What if the reason you keep having the same fight with your partner isn't that you don't love each other, it's that you're speaking completely different love languages? Y

Sep 11
46 min

The Ultimate Guide to Initiating Sex (Without the pressure or Weirdness)

Let's talk about why initiating sex in your relationship started feeling like a test… because somewhere along the way, that moment of reaching for your partner stopped fe

Sep 8
15 min

Squirting, Threesomes & the Sex Skills No One Teaches You

Let's talk about the sex skills nobody teaches you and why most people are still waiting for their partner to figure it out instead of just saying it out loud… because th

Sep 4
35 min

Curious About Anal?

If anal play sounds like something you'd have to grit your teeth through, I want to change your mind about one thing first: a painful first try isn't your body's final an

Sep 1
15 min

Pegging, Threesomes & the Sex Breakthroughs That Changed Everything

Let's talk about what actually happens when real people finally stop holding back in the bedroom… because the best sex education doesn't always come from experts. Sometim

Aug 28
26 min

Why YOU Don’t Want Sex With Your Husband Anymore

Let's talk about why you don't want sex with your husband anymore… and why the answer probably has nothing to do with your libido. If you've been lying next to him quietl

Aug 25
15 min

Can You Love One Person and Still Want Someone Else? | Sex With Emily

Can you love one person and still want someone else? Are you and your partner actually on the same page about your relationship rules, or just assuming you are? And is po

Aug 21
23 min

What You Got Wrong About Men & Sex in Marriage

Let's talk about the five lies about men and sex that might be quietly destroying your marriage… because most couples aren't fighting about sex. They're fighting about co

Aug 18
13 min

The Sex Questions Everyone Is Secretly Asking | Sex With Emily

Chicago and Philadelphia showed up big for the Best Sex Ever tour, and I couldn't get to every question live. So here's the rest. We're getting into the real first move

Aug 14
25 min

The Wisdom of Saying YES to Intimacy in Your Relationship | Sex With Emily

Let's talk about what actually happens when desire disappears in a long term relationship… because most people assume their libido is just gone, or something is broken in

Aug 11
19 min

The Sex Advice I Got Wrong After 20 Years | Sex With Emily

For 20 years, people have asked me the same questions: what's the best position, how do I get better oral sex, is anal sex supposed to hurt. And honestly? I still love an

Aug 7
23 min

Why People Cheat Even In Happy Relationships | Sex With Emily

Let's talk about where the line actually is when it comes to cheating… because most couples never have this conversation until it's too late. In this episode I'm sitting

Aug 4
48 min

The Biggest Mistakes Couples Make (& How To Stop Making Them)

Let's talk about the small habits quietly killing your connection… because most relationships don't fall apart from one big betrayal, they drift apart from the little th

Jul 31
37 min

What Actually Counts as Cheating?

Throwback to another one of my favorite conversations! Have you ever wondered where the line actually is between loyalty and betrayal? In this episode, I'm joined by Dr.

Jul 28
50 min

Debunking the Biggest Myths About Sex and Desire

In this episode, I'm busting the biggest myths that are quietly running your relationship and your intimate life… the idea that men want it all the time, that women don't

Jul 24
36 min

How to Ask Your Body What It Actually Needs

In this episode, somatic practitioner Dolly Josette (aka The Pleasure Muse) is teaching us something that changed my life… how to actually listen to what our bodies are t

Jul 21
54 min

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What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

This review is long overdue - Dr Emily is entertaining, insightful, kind and thoughtful in her presentation of all things concerning marriage, grown-up relationships, sexual health, etc. You’ll have fun listening and just might learn a thing or two as well.

PNW_Listener_69 · Mar 2026

Found the show about a month ago and I’m hooked. Been married for over 30 years and learned some things that have added a little spark to the relationship. For those concerned this is not an explicit show at all. The show is really more about relationships and improving your sex life. I enjoy hearing other folks issues, many of which we have faced too, and the discussion.

buckledeer · Nov 2025

I used to love this podcast and I have learned so much from it. As mentioned by others, there is a certain male guest in particular that makes me uncomfortable with his misogyny. My biggest complaint is that lately every episode seems to be one big sponsorship for whoever the guest is. I understand that it’s incentive for a guest to be there but it’s not helpful or authentic and takes away from the supposed objective of the episode.

ggcadena · Aug 2025

Used to love this show but lately the sponsorship lines have gone grey and it leads me to question Emily’s advice. Back in the day, there was a clear delineation between the show and the ads. Now, she will be talking and suddenly you realize it is now an ad. Worse still is when she does reader’s mail and the solution to the question “happens” to be a product offered by one of her sponsors and she seamlessly rolls into an ad. Makes you wonder if she is just taking those questions that allow her to hawk products. Don’t get me wrong, glad she can monetize her talents but the way she now does it calls into question her information.

NavyGator1993 · Jul 2025

I don’t know what kind of doctor you are, but you have completely missed the boat on your episode about antidepressants & sex. Not being interested or able to have sex is NOT like struggling to go to the gym. PSSD isn’t something that people can fix by trying harder, or talking or planning. Sexual desire AND function are actually DESTROYED by longterm psychiatric medication use in many cases. This happens with SSRIs, SNRIs, benzodiazepines, anti-psychotics & gabapentinoids. It’s not a matter of losing desire, the mechanics stop functioning. People LITERALLY dry up. People can function enough to work, but they become disconnected from SOURCE. And your casual suggestion, telling people to talk to their doctors about “changing medications” is beyond dangerous. Abrupt cessation and switching DRUGS can cause a serious, disabling withdrawal with 1/3 of individuals reporting experiencing severe antidepressant-related withdrawal (Gastaldon et al., Citation2022). Intimacy is impacted when people are on psych drugs. That’s what the drugs are designed to do — make people feel less. You don’t feel the lows, but you don’t feel the highs either. While they may be called “happy pills”, I have personally thousands of lives destroyed by longterm prescription psych drug use. And based on the way you advocate for TCM (which is simply modern day ECT with better sedation), I feel you must’ve received compensation for what is essentially a buried endorsement. If you’ve never been on a psych drug or had ECT or used the “treatments”, how can you recommend them? As someone who was injured by psychiatry, and now works as a holistic, brain health recovery & psych medication taper coach, I work hard every day to educate people about the dangers associated with long-term psychiatric drug use. Please inform yourself by watching videos from Dr. Josef Witt-Doerring or Outro Health, Surviving Antidepressants — and feel free to reach out to me. I’d welcome an opportunity to talk to you about what I know to be the dark side of psych drugs.

RASJ · Mar 2026

I was excited to find this podcast, as it was advertised as something sex-positive and wonderful. However upon listening, there is a male cohost who makes such misogynistic comments and Dr. Emily doesn’t shut it down. In one particular episode, this man says he would like a kegel ball for the mouth to give to women who talk to much so they can shut up. There’s better sex podcasts out there.

Sexydrea02 · Jul 2025

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