Strictly Anonymous Confessions

by Kathy Kay

#4 Sexuality
▼1 today #55 Health & Fitness
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Strictly Anonymous Confessions is a raw, real podcast where people call in anonymously to share their most personal and intimate stories. From relationships and dating to sex, secrets, and everything in between, nothing is scripted and every conversation is honest. Kathy dives deep with callers, asking the questions everyone is thinking but rarely says, creating open, judgment-free conversations you won’t hear anywhere else. If you’ve ever wondered what people are really doing, thinking, and hiding behind closed doors, this is the podcast for you. For advertising opportunities, please email strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com THE BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 If you have a secret, interesting life and/or a problem you want to discuss while remaining anonymous, go to my website http://strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ and click on "Be on the Show" or send me an email Strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear all the anonymous confessions + get all my episodes early AND ad-free, join my Patreon. It's only $5 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! Have something you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the Strictly Anonymous hotline now at 347-420-3579. Lines are open 24/7. Please note, everyones voice will be changed. Sponsors of the show: ⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast

Chart trend

Position in the Sexuality chart (US), last 90 days.

#1#3#5JunJulAugSep

all-time peak

437

days in the top 3 since Nov 2024

Latest episodes

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1574 - Jett Went From Hooking Up With Couples to Getting a Free Pass From His Wife

#41 trending · Health & Fitness

Jett went from hooking up with couples before he met his wife and now he has a free pass from his wife to hook up with other women and he called in to talk all about it.

Sep 1
1 h 10 min

1573 - Sindywife is Into Solo Hotwifing, Gangbangs, Lifestyle Resorts & More

#5 trending · Sexuality

Sindywife (1032) is into solo hotwifing, gangbangs, lifestyle resorts and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including the crazy

Aug 31
1 h 12 min

1572 - Q&A: Hotwifing, Gangbang Fantasies, Glory Holes, Sex Dungeons & More! Q& A w/Adam

#35 trending · Sexuality

Adam is back for a Q&A answering questions inspired by all the crazy stories in Kathy’s new book. Tune in to hear them discuss the biggest age-gap hookups they’ve had, ho

Aug 30
1 h 14 min

1571 - Dr. Willow on Peptides for Better Sex, Anti-Aging, Weight Loss & More

Dr. Willow called in to talk all about peptides, HRT, sexual health and how she helps people have better sex. Tune in to hear all the details including what peptides are

Aug 29
1 h 05 min

1570 - Deep Throating, Couple Swaps, Cheating, BDSM, Kink & More...In Case You Missed It Week of 8.23

Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in to

Aug 28
26 min

1569 - Kathy on Kink, BDSM, Her Slutty Past & More w/Julie

Julie interviewed Kathy on kink, BDSM, her slutty past and so much more for her podcast and this is the convo. Tune in to hear all the details including what Kathy was re

Aug 28
1 h 19 min

1568 - Gangbang Christine Married the Guy she Met at her Gangbang?!

Gangbang Christine married the guy she met at her gangbang and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they went from fuck buddi

Aug 27
1 h 22 min

1567 - Zac Cheated on His Wife w/Tons of Women & Now They Have Threesomes?!

Zac cheated on his wife with tons of women and now they have threesomes and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why he st

Aug 26
1 h 17 min

BONUS: Strictly Anonymous Confessions Audiobook is FINALLY OUT!

The Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers audiobook is FINALLY out! Tune in to hear all about the 17 anonymous, sexy, totally true stories i

Aug 25
11 min

1566 - Maverick and His Wife Started Hotwifing But Now Prefer Swinging

Maverick and his wife (ep #1533) started hotwifing but now prefer swinging and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how How and wh

Aug 25
1 h 02 min

1565 - Shayna Smokeshow Went From Totally Vanilla to Hotwifing, Sex Parties & More

#36 trending · Sexuality

Shayna Smokeshow calls in to talk all about how she went from being extremely vanilla with her husband of over 25 years to hotwifing, sex parties, threesomes, creating co

Aug 24
1 h 13 min

1564 - Fisting, Deep Throating, Lesbian Encounters, Safe Words & More: Q&A with Julie

Julie is back for a Q&A answering Kathy’s questions about sex, relationships, turn-ons and more. Tune in to hear how long she actually wants to be pounded and why Kathy t

Aug 23
1 h 12 min

1563 - Is Your Body Trying to Tell You Something? The Mind-Body Connection Explained w/ Dr. Demartini

Dr. John Demartini called in to discuss the connection between psychology and physical health and why he believes your body's symptoms are giving you important feedback.

Aug 22
1 h 13 min

1562 - Hotwifing, Mormon Swingers, an Insane Secret Sex Life, a Gangbang Fallout & More...In Case You Missed It Week of 8.16

Kathy breaks down this week's episodes, reveals behind-the-scenes stories, explains what you might've missed, and tells you what's worth listening to and why. Tune in to

Aug 21
29 min

1561 - XXX Slayer is Into Trans Women, Pegging, Hardcore Latex, Femdom & More

XXX Slayer is into trans women, pegging, latex, femdom,and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was i

Aug 21
1 h 00 min

1560 - Gangbang Christine's Open Marriage is Totally Over?!

Gangbang Christine’s open marriage is totally over and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why things fell apart between

Aug 20
1 h 21 min

1559 - Andrew’s HOT Latina GF Was Cheating on Him with TONS of Other Guys & He Eventually Found Out

Andrew’s hot, Latina girlfriend led a secret life full of sex with tons of other guys and he eventually found out and he called in to talk all about it. How he got his fi

Aug 19
1 h 21 min

1558 - Simien & Abigail went from Being Mormon, to Getting Into Swinging, Pegging, Threesomes w/Women and More

Simien and Abigail went from being Mormon to being into pegging, swinger clubs, threesomes with women and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear al

Aug 18
1 h 15 min

1557 - Harlow is Hotwifing for Her Bi Husband

Harlow is hotwifing for her bi husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including their first threesome with a female friend and wh

Aug 17
1 h 05 min

1556 - Sex Tapes, Threesomes, Body Count, Scissoring & More Q&A w/Kathy & Luci

Luci called in to ask Kathy a bunch of fun sex and relationship questions. Tune in to hear Kathy discuss whether she'd rather have a threesome with an extra man or woman,

Aug 16
1 h 15 min

Chart positions

Where Strictly Anonymous Confessions ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 2, 2026).

#55 — Health & Fitness US

#4 ▼ 1 Sexuality US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I’ve been a listener for the past month and a half two months. I’ve really been enjoying all of the different people coming on and telling their stories and drama. What’s left a bad taste in my mouth was the episode about the guy Andrew an his crazy Latina girlfriend. Andrew’s story was great, but OMG KATHY WOULD NOT SHUT UP!!!! She CONSTANTLY interrupted him. She CONSTANTLY talked over him, to the point he could hardly get a word in!! Most of the time I like Kathy, but that recent episode was driving me crazy! I found myself yelling at the phone because every time Andrew tried to talk, Kathy would cut him off and start blabbering about her own experiences and her own opinions about why the Latina Gf was doing what she was doing. Look, it’s fine an all to give your opinion when someone is DONE saying what they have to say, but to keep cutting that man off while he’s trying to tell the story was unbearable!!! She was suffocating in that episode!! My husband usually listens with me, an even HE was like “Damn can he get a word in?” I’m like NO! Kathy insisted on asking him a question, then before he could answer SHE was answering the question, like how insufferable can you be? Kathy, we love you but LET YOUR GUESTS TALK!! STOP Interupting them, an LET THEM SPEAK! We didn’t tune in to listen to you Kathy, we tuned in to listen to the guests!!!!

thecherokeegypsy · Aug 2026

I’ve been listening to this show for a few years, and it’s consistently one of the best resources for exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics, sex, and kink. The variety of guests offers a great look into lives and viewpoints outside of the mainstream, which really challenges the idea that "traditional" norms are the standard. Kathy has built an impressive platform, but after 1,400+ episodes, she still has a bad habit of interrupting, talking over her guests, and projecting her own opinions onto them. It feels like this often steers or limits how her guests respond. I listen to hear their actual experiences, but too often the flow is broken by her assumptions. She’s admitted to not having personal experience with many of the topics, yet she seems to use her time as a host to justify speaking for them. Even within the community, everyone's experience is unique, and her perspective doesn't always align with the guest's. I’m going to keep listening, but I really wish she’d realize that when the host makes the show about herself, it just ruins the experience for the audience.

Just an Active Listener · Jun 2026

Kathy has built an incredible show that has clearly taken a lot of hard work and dedication, and we’re all the better for it. She’s thoughtful and direct, while also being respectful. She has a way of making people feel so at ease and it makes their stories so much deeper. For so many couples out there, what she is doing is a public service. I can only imagine the amount of time and effort it takes to produce a quality show, and I want Kathy to know that I for one am incredibly appreciative. I’m also fairly certain many other listeners feel the same way. Keep the faith when it turns into a grind and thank you for everything!

Mountainczar · Jul 2025

It’s everything you can ask for from an edgy podcast. Hot, funny, interesting, and informative. Kathy’s interviewing skills is top tier. She ask the questions we all have, doesn’t interrupt, and makes her guest feel comfortable. Well done!

The Orginal MoMo · May 2025

Way too much of your podcast content is interrupted with excessive advertising. It takes forever to get to anything interesting and now it’s just repetitive like some of the other reviewers have said all about swinging, it’s getting boring. Another suggestion is please stop talking over your guests. You seem rude.. I’m looking for better content.

Disneydave66 · Dec 2025

The guests and stories are entertaining most of the time. Kathy used to be somewhat bearable but over the last 2 years has become the worst part of her own podcast. Constantly interrupting her guests, speaking out of rear end half the time, and always insisting she's correct - often times about other people's stories. Also odd that someone 1500 shows in can know little about so many of the topics her show covers.

maattthhhheeeeewwwwww · Jul 2026

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