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282. Just Between Us: Slamming Doors, Keeping Score & The Petty Shit We Do In Fights

A listener wrote in mortified: "I do stuff in fights with my boyfriend that I would be so embarrassed for my friends to find out about. Very petty shit. Bringing up thing

281. Just Between Us: Initiating Sex, Dropping Hints & Why Your Partner Isn't A Mind Reader

A listener wrote in, and she's pissed. She's been dropping spicy hints like nobody's business (wearing what he likes, flirty comments, changing with the door open), and h

280. “Is It Normal to Still Feel Rejected in a Long-Term Relationship?” Alyssa Ljub on Rejection, Desire & Feeling Wanted

Alyssa Ljub is an intimacy and relationship expert who coaches dozens of couples a day in her role as a concierge at Arya. She joins Em and Cass to unpack the biggest hur

279. The Director of The Kinsey Institute on Modern Intimacy, Dating Apps & the Sex Recession

Dr. Justin Garcia is the Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, chief scientific advisor to Match, and the author of the new book The Intimate

278. Just Between Us: Am I a Bad Friend for Being This Jealous?

A listener wrote in asking about a version of jealousy a lot of us are ashamed to admit: "I don't feel excited when good things happen to my friends anymore. Engagements,

277. Why Am I Never in the Mood Anymore? Brooke Bralove on Desire, Low Libido & ART Therapy

Brooke Bralove has spent 22 years as a sex therapist helping women figure out what's actually going on when desire disappears. Her take: your desire isn't broken or gone,

276. Just Between Us: "I Can't Tell My Friends The Truth..."

We all want closer friendships, but too few of us are actually having the conversations that would get us there. This week Em and Cass answer a listener question about ho

275. Honey Archive: How to Fight Fair with Shrink Chicks

HOT RELATIONSHIP TIP: fighting isn’t a bad thing… but you do need to learn how to fight fair. Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks are back an

274. 30-40% of Men Are Hiding Their Porn Use: Dr. Adi Jaffe on Addiction, Intimacy & Shame

Dr. Adi Jaffe has a PhD in psychology from UCLA, is a TEDx speaker, and founded IGNTD, a platform reframing how we talk about addiction, shame, and recovery. He joins Em

273. Just Between Us: My Boyfriend Called Me High Maintenance In Front of His Friends

A listener's boyfriend called her high maintenance in front of his friends, and now she's second-guessing everything. Em and Cass are here to break it down and help her f

272. The Cycle Syncing Lie: Laura Federico & Morgan Miller on Hormones, Ovulation & What Tracking Actually Looks Like

Laura Federico is a certified sex therapist. Morgan Miller is a certified professional midwife who runs a birth center in Maine. They've been friends since their early tw

271. Just Between Us: Bathing Suit Anxiety, Cass' Nose Job & Historical Women That Men Hated

A listener wrote in about her upcoming girls' weekend. The rental has a hot tub, everyone's going to be in bikinis, and she's nervous about how she looks in a bathing sui

270. We Asked Our Resident Gyno Everything You're Afraid To ft. Dr. Maria Sophocles

You asked, our favorite gynecologist answered. We brought Dr. Maria Sophocles, a board-certified OB-GYN of 30 years, back on Honeydew Me to tackle the questions our commu

269. The 7 Years of Sex You're Skipping: Anna Nickerson on Cherry, Mess-Free Period Sex & Pleasure

Anna Nickerson is the founder of Cherry, the first brand closing the gap between period care and pleasure. Their first product is a menstrual disc designed for completely

268. Just Between Us: Blowing Up Your Life, Imposter Syndrome & Yoyo Dieting

Emma and Cass open with a listener question that hits a little too close to home: "I just turned 30 and I hate my job, my apartment, and the city I live in. Do I blow it

267. "I Joined a Sex Cult": Star Stone on Onetaste, Toxic Empowerment & Cult Culture

NYC-based comedian, actor, and storyteller Star Stone (@starstonespeaks) joins us to talk about the years she spent inside Onetaste, a Bay Area "sexual wellness" group th

266. Welcome to 30, This Is Not What We Expected!!!!!

Cass turns 30 the day this episode drops, and this is the conversation we wish someone had handed us at 22. Not our Pinterest board versions of adulthood (there was too m

265. The Lies We’re Sold About Motherhood & Maternal Instincts (And How They’re Hurting Us)

Motherhood is supposed to come naturally… right? That’s the story so many women are sold, and according to Dr. Sarah Oreck, it’s one of the biggest reasons us mommys are

264. Honey Archive: How To Own Your Slut Era with Zachary Zane

Zachary Zane aka “The Boyslut” joins us for one of our most freeing conversations yet. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author known for his honest, no-BS take

263. Q+A: "Is It Bad I Like Solo Sex Better Than Sex with My Partner?"

In this week's episode we're answering one of YOUR questions with a combination of expert tips and personal experience.  The Question: “Why do I enjoy sex more alone tha