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Sexuality · Drew Boa

Husband Material

by Drew Boa

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

Latest episodes

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Why Sensitivity Is A Strength (with Mike Vaughn)

Are you a highly sensitive / high sensing person (HSP)? Mike Vaughn explains why sensitivity may be the #1 predictor of addiction, how to find out where you fall in the s

Nov 9
40 min

Understanding SSSA: Same-Sex Sexual Attraction

In this powerful teaching from the Same-Sex Connection Conference, Drew Boa breaks down the difference between SSA, SSSA, and sexualized attachment. You'll learn the

Nov 2
20 min

How To Actually Grieve (with Mike Murray)

Unprocessed loss is one of the most common drivers of unwanted sexual behavior. When we don't allow ourselves to grieve, pain stays trapped in the body until it come

Oct 26
35 min

Processing Betrayal Trauma Anger (with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck)

Why is anger after sexual betrayal so intense, unpredictable, and heartbreaking? Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck unpacks the complex dynamics of betrayal trauma anger for both the

Oct 19
31 min

How Jesus Heals Sexual Shame (Sermon on John 8:1-11)

When sexual sin and shame are exposed, how does Jesus respond? See how compassion overcomes condemnation in the story of the woman caught in adultery. This sermon was ori

Oct 12
35 min

Porn And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (with Dr. Alexandra Repke)

What is narcissistic personality disorder, and how does it interact with porn and sex addiction? For someone with NPD or narcissistic traits, what does healing and growth

Oct 8
30 min

Jesus Has A Penis (with Therapy Brothers)

Have you ever thought about the fact that Jesus has a penis? What are the implications? Considering Christ's full humanity confronts us with a fresh, shame-free pers

Oct 5
42 min

Becoming 100% Honest (with Blake Roberts and Jamie Haigh)

What if at our very best, we are 97% honest with ourselves and others, and the 3% we withhold keeps us bound to shame, loneliness, and unwanted behavior? That's what

Sep 28
39 min

Secrecy vs. Privacy: What's The Difference?

How do you distinguish between sexual secrecy and sexual privacy? Learn 3 key differences between secrecy and privacy: motivation (fear vs. love), intention (control vs.

Sep 21
12 min

Marriage And Ministry With Same-Sex Attraction (with Jeff Johnson)

For decades, Jeff Johnson hid his sexual attraction to other men. This secret kept him trapped in shame and isolation until everything changed in an open conversation wit

Sep 14
30 min

Sonship And Masculine Inititation (with Morgan Snyder)

Get ready for a wild conversation on the adventure of masculine initiation, spiritual formation, and life as a beloved son with Morgan Snyder. You'll hear what it tr

Sep 7
49 min

Why Sexual Fantasies Will Never Satisfy You

Have you ever felt like a sexual fantasy was so irresistible that missing out on it felt like missing out on life itself? While fantasies promise satisfaction, they are u

Aug 31
13 min

Tough Truths For Unfaithful Husbands (with James and Sam)

What if my wife isn't doing "her work"? What if my inner child doesn't feel safe with her? What if I feel like she is controlling me? How can I be assertive wit

Aug 24
44 min

Sextinction: Why We Are Having Less Sex (with Dr. Debra Soh)

What is the "sex recession" and why is it happening? Dr. Debra Soh explains today's widespread decline of sexual activity, long-term commitment, marriage, and childb

Aug 17
40 min

What The Song Of Songs Teaches Us About Sex (with Russell Zahniser)

Have you ever wondered what the Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) is actually saying? Drawing on insights from ancient Mesopotamian erotic poetry, Russell Zahniser breaks d

Aug 10
45 min

How Music Transforms Sexual Temptation

Have you ever been amazed by the power of music? In this episode, you'll learn five ways music can support you in overcoming sexual temptation—including one resource

Aug 3
16 min

How To Help Teens Outgrow Porn (with Blake Brinkman)

How can we help teens start outgrowing porn and unwanted sexual behavior? Licensed counselor Blake Brinkman believes teens are NOT too young, too immature, or too unwilli

Jul 27
40 min

Restored 2 More: How Couples Heal Together (with Clinton and Charity Muñoz)

What if couples devastated by sexual betrayal could heal together instead of separately? Clinton and Charity Muñoz expose a massive gap in traditional porn recovery'

Jul 20
48 min

Processing A Sexual Fantasy Through Inner Child Work: HMA Coaching Example

In this vulnerable demo, Jordan Castille guides Jason Mellard in processing a sexual fantasy through inner child work. As Jason listens to his body, he travels back to a

Jul 16
34 min

Is Your Accountability Group Healing or Harmful?

"Accountability" is one of the most controversial topics in porn recovery. Some men find it healing; some men find it harmful. What's the difference between healthy

Jul 13
18 min

Chart trend

Position in the Sexuality chart (US), last 90 days.

#30
all-time peak
25
days in the top 50 since Nov 2024

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Where Husband Material ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Nov 14, 2026).

#66 ▼ 5 Sexuality US

What listeners say

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This is a man who deeply loves Jesus and is committed to helping dispel the lies of purity culture telling men who have struggled with porn. Purity culture tells men that God is angry and disappointed with men in the midst of their struggle. Drew offers the perspective that this journey needs: “Jesus loves you, he is with you and for you always, and wants to gently help you heal from your struggles. “

mikee =) · Oct 2026

I don’t know what I would have done without this podcast. Drew Boa and this podcast helped me survive the roughest parts of my recovery journey — directly after first disclosure with my wife. This podcast has also helped me through the dog days of recovery, when I have just needed some encouragement or a reminder of the truth that I am God’s beloved son and somehow, in me He is well pleased. Both the interview episodes and solo episodes that Drew hosts are absolutely solid. Biblically based, science backed, deep, personal, and practical. Husband Material has on a regular basis reminded me that freedom is possible. It has given me new perspectives to reflect on and practical tools to put to use in my recovery. After around a year and a half of regularly listening to this podcast, I am sure that God is doing good work through the Husband Material ministry. And I believe, though I am not fully there yet, that He can help me to, in Drew’s words, heal my heart, change my brain, and save my relationship. Let’s go 🤲🏼

Foxy Fung · Sep 2025

In HM I found a safe place where all that I’ve been struggling with, trauma, anxiety, panic attacks etc., and realized that a lot of men also struggle with these issues. Sexual addictions, sexual behaviors are a big issue also, as it is very hard to talk to anyone about them. It has been a life saver for me joining Husband Material. And Drew is not just the facilitator but also walks alongside with us and shares his struggles as well. This helps a lot because you see others striving and moving forward. Because of that, I know there is hope for me, I can also heal.

rdt-69 · Apr 2025

This podcast discusses, teaches and explores what life can be when we are completely free from pornography & sexual brokenness. From Drew Boa the founder of Husband Material, Drew interviews & conducts live episodes with many amazing guests, professors, and other trained professionals that educate listeners on a topic that isn’t talked about enough. You can gain healing, health, and freedom along this journey. Check it out! You’ll be so glad you did.

Mattie Tay Tay · Nov 2024

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