Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

429: Mid-life men: 3 categories of sex toys that'll rock your world! (ft. Karen Bigman)

You've probably heard of penis rings. Maybe you've even tried one!? But there's a another tool almost nobody talks about — the men who've actually explored it say nothing

428: Is a popup village the perfect place to find your person (or deepen with your beloved)?' (ft. Timour Kosters)

Edge City is one of the most exciting, fun, engaging, dynamic communities of which I'm a part -- and here I get to interview one of the founders! (This is very exciting f

427: All the single ladies: the top 3 dating challenges for women! (ft. Violet Lange)

She's successful. She's put together. She seems like she doesn't need anyone. So why does dating still feel impossible for her — and why does she seem so hard to get clos

426: She's crowd-sourcing the process of finding a boyfriend! (ft. Freya Graf)

Let's be real: Modern dating culture can suck. Between ghosting, confusion over when to have sex, the commodification of our love lives, and people throwing up old photos

425: How weird is sex gonna get in the age of AI? (ft. Susan Bratton)

"Is your dick going to be synced to porn?" That's not hypothetical — it's already on the market. Here, intimacy expert Susan Bratton walks me through "weird" phenomena a

424: GuyTalk: 'This is where you get your master’s degree in men’s work.'

“I was nervous as hell.” So shares one of the men in this episode about how he felt stepping onto the land of our in-person retreat. In another's words, “I went into a p

423: Not having the sex you want in your relationship? Reverse polarity could be involved. (ft. Jason & Violet Lange) [replay]

Have you ever felt like your woman was routinely frustrated, resentful, or annoyed with you? Like you can't get anything right, and then on top of that, when it comes to

422: Want MORE from your love life? 3 ways to grow past Nice Guy Syndrome (ft. Jason Lange)

Ever feel like you're doing everything "right" — showing up, being kind, respecting her — but only getting crumbs? First dates that never turn into second dates. A marri

421: GirlTalk: Does size matter? [replay]

How much does a woman's sexual satisfaction depend on the size, shape, or other physical details of your cock? According to research out of the UK, this question is on t

420: 'I know what I need to do ... I just don't do it.' (ft. Jason Lange)

Do you want to establish a new, healthier habit, but so far you just ... haven't? For example: eat more veggies; exercise; have a meditation practice; be bolder with wome

419: 3 ways AI can help your love life (and 3 ways it can f*** it up) (ft. Jason Lange)

When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, what is AI good for? And where can it potentially cause damage? Here, Jason and I go point-for-point — one way AI can su

418: Her hormones: what every partner needs to know (ft. Morgan Miller)

"Is this in my head, or is this real?" Millions of women ask themselves this question -- about their sleep, their mood, their body suddenly working differently than it u

417: Top 3 ways to NOT come off as creepy (ft. Jason Lange)

A 2022 dating survey showed that a whopping 69% of American men say that fear of being labeled "creepy" impacts how they interact with women. And 44% said it diminishes h

416: How do you deal with your trust issues? (ft. Violet Lange)

Who doesn't have trust issues? Let's be real. Whether it shows up as "I don't trust her to handle my anger," or "I'm afraid I'll just be treated like an ATM" or, "I can

415: The 5 biggest reasons relationships go sexless ... and what to do (ft. Jason Lange)

You love your partner. You're committed. But the sex has slowed to a trickle — once a month, once every six months, maybe not in years — and you're starting to wonder: "I

414: What to do with, ‘You’re great! … I just don’t feel attracted to you.’ (ft. Jason Lange)

Ever been told you're a "great guy!" but she's "just not feeling it"? Or felt like you're endlessly chasing women but never being pursued yourself? Here, we dig into wha

413: 'Is this ever going to happen for me??' (ft. Violet Lange)

You know the feeling. You've been holding a vision — for the partner, the family, the sex life you actually want — for months. Maybe years. Maybe decades. And it's still

412: Is perimenopause or menopause stealing her sex drive? (ft. sexual wellness physician Dr. Debra Durst)

She used to want it. Now she doesn't. And you're not sure if it's you, the kids, the stress — or something that's quietly shifted inside her. A lot of the time, it's her

411: 'Do I have low testosterone?' (ft. neuroscientist & urologist Dr. Kelly Morgan)

It’s one of the top questions in Dr. Kelly’s men’s health practice.  And it’s not just coming from older men — it’s guys in their 20s and 30s. We're talking 27-year-old

410: Does her emotional intensity overwhelm you? (ft. Jason Lange)

You know the moment. She comes at you with heat — frustrated, hurt, disappointed, or just a lot — and something inside you freezes. Maybe you start minimizing her experi