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Mental Health · Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Do You F*cking Mind?

by Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR

Latest episodes

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The Neuroscience of Heartbreak and How to Heal The Brain From This Pain

#50 trending · Mental Health

Why is it that you can know someone isn’t right for you and still miss them like your life depends on it? And why does heartbreak make getting through a normal day feel s

Oct 5
44 min

Life Advice | My Partner Cheated and is Remorseful, do I Take Him Back? | How to Deal With The Anxiety of Your Partner Travelling for 7 Weeks

Bonjour and WELCOME to your Life Advice / Head Noise episode.  We have 3 voicemail questions today including:  A partner who's going away for seven weeks, leaving the

Oct 1
28 min

Master The Skill of Self Validation

I am talking all about self-validation and how it can impact our lives. We often seek validation from external sources, but this can lead to a lack of self-worth and conf

Sep 28
36 min

Life Advice | I had an affair with my boss, My friend has become a soggy lemon + More

This episode is a raw and honest TOUGH LOVE listener advice.  In this episode, I answer questions around letting go from a relationship that's holding you back and how

Sep 24
36 min

Can Becoming Less Attached Reduce Your Suffering and Anxiety?

In this episode, the speaker delves into the concept of attachment and how it can cause suffering in our lives. We're often told to "let go" or "detach" from things that

Sep 22
47 min

The Most Effective Way to Brain Dump to Reduce Anxiety (before the week ahead)

In today's episode, I am gonna share with you a tool to help you manage your anxiety, improve your focus, and boost your creativity: the brain dump. This simple technique

Sep 19
36 min

10 Ways to Become Harder to Manipulate (no matter who you are dealing with)

In this episode, I give you 10 ways to improve your critical thinking skills and become harder to manipulate, no matter who you are dealing with.  The ep covers a range

Sep 14
40 min

Is my best friend gaslighting me? | From olympic medals to starting again - Advice Episode

Head noise / Advice questions!  We have:  From olympic medals to starting again Is my best friend gaslighting me? How to feel complete as a person.  If you would like

Sep 10
31 min

5 tools to stop you from that downward spiral (E)

Feeling Overwhelmed? Discover the 5 Simple Steps to Stop Spiralling! Have you ever found yourself in a state of emotional overwhelm, feeling like you're spiraling out o

Sep 7
30 min

Overcome Your Fear of Ageing and Feeling Left Behind With These 6 Steps

Welcome to the episode of today!  We are talking ageing, the fear of ageing, feeling left behind, and that timeline that we all compare ourselves too. How can we overcom

Sep 3
45 min

Stop wasting your potential and become a person who gets things done

Bonjour  Are you tired of feeling stuck in your potential, constantly thinking about all the things you could do, but never actually taking action? Do you feel like you

Sep 2
54 min

Can you teach yourself to be funny, How to take advice from a psychic and more | Life Advice

Life Advice Episode! (Trigger warning) In this episode we cover dealing with infant loss and friends and family who did not provide support, how to forgive them? (IF yo

Aug 27
29 min

Design a Week You Don´t Have to Run Away From

Are you tired of counting down the days until the weekend, only to feel anxious and overwhelmed when Sunday evening rolls around? Do you dread the start of the week, feel

Aug 24
43 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 5 | The importance of independence

Welcome to day 5! the final day of the Self Love Mini Series.  In this episode, I will teach you about the importance of independence in cultivating self-love and self-r

Aug 21
21 min

The Modern Dating Survival Guide | with Jake and Ottie from Relatables

In today's ep of the pod,  Jake and Otti from the Relatables join me to discuss the Modern Dating Survival Guide. We dive into the world of relationships, sharing their t

Aug 20
1 h 05 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 4 | Self efficacy

WELCOME to day 4 of our self love mini series (hope you are loving it and thriving so far).  In today's episode, I talk about the importance of self-efficacy, a crucia

Aug 20
21 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 3 | How to find self love

Bonjour and welcome to day 3 of my self love mini series.  How we are going to FIND self love. that is the focus today.  In this episode you will learn how to reset yo

Aug 19
22 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 2 | Self Worth

Welcome to day 2 of our Self Love Mini Series. In this ep we explore the importance of self worth when it comes to increasing self love. It's easy to get caught up in t

Aug 18
13 min

How to know if you should leave a relationship (without feeling you are giving up)

Bonjour and welcome to the ep of today.  I am going to give you a (long) pep talk about how to know if you should walk away from a relationship (without feeling as if you

Aug 17
43 min

Self Love Mini Series Day 1 (E)

Bonjour!!! it is time to bring back the Self Love mini series.  This is a much loved series encore from last year. 5 days of actionable, practical tools and mindset sh

Aug 16
18 min

Chart trend

Position in the Mental Health chart (US), last 90 days.

#27
all-time peak
25
days in the top 50 since Nov 2024

Chart positions

Where Do You F*cking Mind? ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Oct 6, 2026).

#189 ▲ 10 Health & Fitness US
#74 ▼ 5 Mental Health US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

Love your podcast! One of my besties, Jenna, introduced me to it in 2020 and ever since then, my life is much more bada**! It’s refreshing that you don’t sugarcoat, but still get points across with compassion and science. I’m not sure you will ever know how much you have saved my life, or how I could ever repay you, but thank you! Truly! P.S. love the brain/ science facts! Also, hearing your life updates over the last several years has been wonderful and inspiring! Cheers!

EM12993 · Apr 2026

I am not typically someone who leaves reviews, but Alexis deserves her flowers! Been a on and off listener for the past few years, and always come back and catchup. I recommend this podcast to many people for different reasons. Such versatility and a raw, real take on people, life and accountability for yourself. Love the scientific facts and unbiased opinions. Such a vibe, always 💓

alj_xo · Mar 2025

This has been my favorite podcast over the past few years. It’s the podcast world’s equivalent to when Shania Twain says “Let’s go girls”. At the end of every episode you want to kick a door down and just go out and be the best version of yourself. Thank you Alexis for being so informative, blunt, hilarious, and the absolute gem of the podcast world.

LHop12 · Nov 2024

I absolutely love Alexis and all of the information she provides! I have been listening for two years and I honestly appreciate what I have learned! She is truly a gem! I love how detailed she is about everything! She truly lobes what she does and I hope she knows that she is changing many lives🤍🤍🤍🤍thank you

jadedhoney · Oct 2024

Ironic that a podcast about focusing would contain so many word whiskers that distracted from the topic. I understand people curse, it happens. It might be a good episode to study ways to break out of the habit of word whiskers. I’m sure for some, cursing as word whisker is cool and edgy, but frankly it just sounds stupid and it’s distracting. A shame because this podcast sounds interesting. I’ll be looking elsewhere.

Ocel🌌 · Aug 2025

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