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Mental Health · Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Do You F*cking Mind?

by Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR

Latest episodes

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10 Ways to Become Harder to Manipulate (no matter who you are dealing with)

In this episode, I give you 10 ways to improve your critical thinking skills and become harder to manipulate, no matter who you are dealing with.  The ep covers a range

Sep 14
40 min

Is my best friend gaslighting me? | From olympic medals to starting again - Advice Episode

Head noise / Advice questions!  We have:  From olympic medals to starting again Is my best friend gaslighting me? How to feel complete as a person.  If you would like

Sep 10
31 min

5 tools to stop you from that downward spiral (E)

Feeling Overwhelmed? Discover the 5 Simple Steps to Stop Spiralling! Have you ever found yourself in a state of emotional overwhelm, feeling like you're spiraling out o

Sep 7
30 min

Overcome Your Fear of Ageing and Feeling Left Behind With These 6 Steps

Welcome to the episode of today!  We are talking ageing, the fear of ageing, feeling left behind, and that timeline that we all compare ourselves too. How can we overcom

Sep 3
45 min

Stop wasting your potential and become a person who gets things done

Bonjour  Are you tired of feeling stuck in your potential, constantly thinking about all the things you could do, but never actually taking action? Do you feel like you

Sep 2
54 min

Can you teach yourself to be funny, How to take advice from a psychic and more | Life Advice

Life Advice Episode! (Trigger warning) In this episode we cover dealing with infant loss and friends and family who did not provide support, how to forgive them? (IF yo

Aug 27
29 min

Design a Week You Don´t Have to Run Away From

Are you tired of counting down the days until the weekend, only to feel anxious and overwhelmed when Sunday evening rolls around? Do you dread the start of the week, feel

Aug 24
43 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 5 | The importance of independence

Welcome to day 5! the final day of the Self Love Mini Series.  In this episode, I will teach you about the importance of independence in cultivating self-love and self-r

Aug 21
21 min

The Modern Dating Survival Guide | with Jake and Ottie from Relatables

In today's ep of the pod,  Jake and Otti from the Relatables join me to discuss the Modern Dating Survival Guide. We dive into the world of relationships, sharing their t

Aug 20
1 h 05 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 4 | Self efficacy

WELCOME to day 4 of our self love mini series (hope you are loving it and thriving so far).  In today's episode, I talk about the importance of self-efficacy, a crucia

Aug 20
21 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 3 | How to find self love

Bonjour and welcome to day 3 of my self love mini series.  How we are going to FIND self love. that is the focus today.  In this episode you will learn how to reset yo

Aug 19
22 min

Self Love Mini Series | Day 2 | Self Worth

Welcome to day 2 of our Self Love Mini Series. In this ep we explore the importance of self worth when it comes to increasing self love. It's easy to get caught up in t

Aug 18
13 min

How to know if you should leave a relationship (without feeling you are giving up)

Bonjour and welcome to the ep of today.  I am going to give you a (long) pep talk about how to know if you should walk away from a relationship (without feeling as if you

Aug 17
43 min

Self Love Mini Series Day 1 (E)

Bonjour!!! it is time to bring back the Self Love mini series.  This is a much loved series encore from last year. 5 days of actionable, practical tools and mindset sh

Aug 16
18 min

My best friend has turned into an a$$hole | Life Advice

Bonjour and welcome to head noise Friday where I give life advice and we unpack all the crazy things you are going through and try to get as close to a solution or close

Aug 13
29 min

The Neuroscience of Determination - How to harness different brain regions to get the most out of your goals

Determination is a crucial aspect of achieving our goals and living a fulfilling life. But what drives determination, and how can we cultivate it? In this ep we are divin

Aug 10
42 min

The paradox of plenty - the psychology of making better, stronger decisions

In today's episode, I talk about the concept of decision fatigue and how it affects our daily lives. Being bombarded with choices, from what to wear to what to eat, and i

Aug 6
34 min

The psychology of becoming a luckier person (8 steps)

In this episode, I delve into the psychology of luck and give you some practical tips on how to become a luckier person. I talk about the concept of beginner's luck to re

Aug 3
43 min

How to help someone out of a coercive controlling relationship

In this head noise episode, I respond to a listeners question around coercive control and I go further in depth, covering the complex and often subtle signs of coercive c

Jul 30
32 min

Should you have single time in between relationships?

In today's episode (a specialized head noise ep), I go into the importance of having a gap between relationships,  the benefits of taking time to heal and focus on person

Jul 30
24 min

Chart trend

Position in the Mental Health chart (US), last 90 days.

#27
all-time peak
25
days in the top 50 since Nov 2024

Chart positions

Where Do You F*cking Mind? ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 16, 2026).

#94 ▲ 9 Mental Health US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I am not typically someone who leaves reviews, but Alexis deserves her flowers! Been a on and off listener for the past few years, and always come back and catchup. I recommend this podcast to many people for different reasons. Such versatility and a raw, real take on people, life and accountability for yourself. Love the scientific facts and unbiased opinions. Such a vibe, always 💓

alj_xo · Mar 2025

This has been my favorite podcast over the past few years. It’s the podcast world’s equivalent to when Shania Twain says “Let’s go girls”. At the end of every episode you want to kick a door down and just go out and be the best version of yourself. Thank you Alexis for being so informative, blunt, hilarious, and the absolute gem of the podcast world.

LHop12 · Nov 2024

I absolutely love Alexis and all of the information she provides! I have been listening for two years and I honestly appreciate what I have learned! She is truly a gem! I love how detailed she is about everything! She truly lobes what she does and I hope she knows that she is changing many lives🤍🤍🤍🤍thank you

jadedhoney · Oct 2024

This podcast has brought me light in my darkest times. I found DYFM on a TikTok slide and people raved about her podcast and I had just went through a what felt like traumatic breakup. I listened to one of her episode on heartbreak and how to move on and let me just say I fell asleep to it. She is so mindful and honest. The way she words things is better than most people who promote the same advice. She gives you the blunt, real, and raw truth while also comforting you in so many ways. I swear she helped me heal through the phone and that sounds crazy but genuinely I felt better after ONE episode. Now I fall asleep to her podcast almost every night when a new one is released or go back and listen to one I have alr listened to. When I say she brought light to a dark place I mean brought me out of darkness. She is 1000% worth listening to!

Cieralynn0 · Apr 2024

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