Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy

Clearing the Air on RHONY Rumors

The new RHONY season has begun and Erin and Abe are finally talking about it. They clear up the headlines (disputes, not debts — there’s a real difference), react to the

Party Girl to Founder Is Actually a Direct Pipeline with Brooke Taylor

Brooke Taylor — career coach and author of Healing the Success Wound — comes on to talk about the thing high-achieving women don't want to admit: that the drive to do mor

Does Mom Guilt Ever Actually Go Away?

September was a lot. Erin's been running around nonstop, Abe's been holding down the fort, and Levi got himself on a yacht. They kick things off with the Stassi Schroeder

Should You Put Your Spouse Before Your Kids?

Erin's out. Abe's in charge. What could go wrong. This week Abe takes your questions solo — and doesn't sugarcoat a single answer. Should your spouse come before your ki

How Grief Changed Me ft. Nicole Sachs

For a long time, Erin has been waiting to open up about how grief has shown up in her life. But the time wasn't right, until now. If you've ever lost someone and tried t

Dating Should Be F*cking Fun ft. Serena Kerrigan

Serena Kerrigan is in the building, and she has a book, a boyfriend, and approximately 600 men worth of dating experience to draw from. We cover all of it. We get into w

We Interviewed Claude (No, Really)

Okay, hear us out... Erin's not here this week. So naturally Abe brought in a very special guest: Claude. Yeah, the AI. We're honestly just suprised it took him this lon

Scorekeeping, The Algorithm, and Why Everyone Online Needs to Calm Down

We're recording this one from the Maidstone in East Hampton, which means we're relaxed, slightly sleep-deprived, and ready to get into it. The topic: scorekeeping in rel

The Marriage Questions Everyone's Too Afraid to Ask

It's just Erin today, and I've got a lot to say. You sent in your marriage questions and I'm answering all of them — unfiltered, no notes, no Abe to interrupt me. We get

Loud Chewing, Changing Last Names, The Chase (And Other Husband Crimes)

We get into the husband habits that need to be addressed (loud chewing is a crime, dental hygiene is private), why Erin didn't change her name for 11 years and what final

Dr. Shefali on What's Actually Happening to Our Kids

We've been wanting to have Dr. Shefali on for a while, and this conversation did not disappoint. She's a clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and one of the most cl

Everything We Know About Real Estate (And All The Mess In Between)

We've been getting real estate questions forever, so here it is — the full story, from the 670K railroad-adjacent apartment in Hell's Kitchen to the Bushwick two-family w

Your Relationship With Yourself (+ Your Mental Health) is The Most Important One You'll Ever Have

Special Edition: We're recording this one from Baha Mar, which sounds glamorous until you factor in four kids, an early flight, a sleepover the night before, and a baby w

Girl Dads vs Boy Moms (And Every Parenting Style In Between)

We've been thinking a lot about what it actually means to raise a daughter — and this week we go there. Erin gets into how her relationship with her dad shaped everything

The Peanut Butter Knife, the Lukewarm Coffee, and Other Reasons People Divorce with Gabriella Pomare

Gabriella Pomari is a divorce lawyer from Australia who got so tired of watching families break from the process that she built an entire platform to help couples before

Everyone Is Talking About My Boobs (So Now I Am Too)

You asked, I answered — and nothing was off limits. We get into why you haven't seen the new house yet (it's coming, I promise), the insecurities I actually have even if

The Modern Dating Mistakes Keeping You Single, According to Amy Chan

This week we chat with Amy Chan, a relationship expert and author of the new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts." We get into the highs and l

iPads At The Table and Other Parenting Questions in 2026

We get a lot of questions about parenting, and honestly, it makes sense. Raising kids in 2026 is totally different from how it was for our parents!  We talk all things k

Is It Supposed To Be This Hard? Adult Friendships and How Things Change As We Get Older

As you get older and "life starts life-ing," you might notice your friendships starting to change. And that's what we dive into this week: times when we've grown in a dif

The '1–10 Rule' and Other Things That Have Helped Us Keep Things Spicy

Everyone wants to know how to keep things spicy... and pretending there one at all might actually be the problem. This week we get into what's worked for us — the '1-10