U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes. To sign up and become a friend (with benefits) today head to: subscribe.betches.com
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Would You Be a Wedding Crasher If Your Date Asked You?
#33 trending · Society & Culture
Jared and Jordana discovered that you can crash a wedding and think it’s the best way to spend a night out with someone you’re dating! From black-tie dress codes to open
Sep 11 38 min
I’m ICKed Out Over My Boyfriend Fangirling Over a Tennis Player
#11 trending · Relationships
It’s Jordana’s birthday, Happy Birthday, Jordana! J&J debate wedding plus-ones, jealous partners, and how much texting is too much when you’re dating. They also dive into
Sep 9 1 h 14 min
Lauren Lapkus Has a Dating App Imposter
Lauren Lapkus joins Jordana and Jared to talk about dating actors, marriage, kids, and whether being good at acting makes someone too good at lying?? The three play red f
Sep 4 34 min
How Long Should Your Husband Wait to Remarry After You Die?
Jared shares about meeting his girlfriend’s friends, how he got questioned about his phone use, and how being in a relationship means meeting the friend group! Then J&J d
Sep 2 1 h 25 min
How Do You Start Dating Again After Divorce?
Jordana and Jared watch a TikTok of a groom zip lining into his own wedding and debate whether a groom spending $24K is a major ICK. They then answer a question from a ne
Aug 28 40 min
Does a Texting Lull Mean the Date Is Off?
Jordana and Jared discuss a dating app match who canceled a first date after there was a lull in texting and then sent practically a full dissertation explaining his comm
Aug 26 1 h 15 min
Would You Take a Sperm Donation From A Married Friend?
It’s a Friday Feels episode and J&J are questioning, "would you pay $5,000 to break up with someone"? The two then get into listener questions and discuss whether it’s pe
Aug 21 49 min
Your Crush Is Dating Your Friend. What Do You Do?
Jordana and Jared discuss what to do when your friend starts dating your crush, whether the way you handle getting roasted at a comedy show is an ick, and how to handle o
Aug 19 1 h 32 min
Harry Jowsey Wants to Be a Stay-at-Home Husband
Harry Jowsey joins Jordana and Jared to talk about how he was engaged to 20 women at once for his new Netflix’s show, Let’s Marry Harry, what changed for him after losing
Aug 14 33 min
Can You be Engaged for Years without Getting Married?
Jordana and Jared debate whether it’s okay for your boyfriend to go on a trip with his ex, especially when they still own an apartment together. They also decide if an ex
Aug 12 1 h 08 min
What Do Men Actually Want on Their Wedding Night?
Jared opens up about a fear of his when getting serious with his partner, figuring out how to balance love, family, and a career that keeps him on the road. Then J&J deba
Aug 7 45 min
Jordana Is Looking for a New Sister-in-Law!
Jordana and Jared get a visit from Jordana’s brother, Jon! He joins to pick up a toothbrush but ends up talking about dating in San Francisco, why he wants more banter an
Aug 5 1 h 01 min
How to Survive Wedding Season Alone
Jordana and Jared discuss a petty or prudent and whether a brutal Costco-inspired rejection text was justified? They discuss what singles mixers are really like and why S
Jul 31 43 min
The Situationship Trap Nobody Talks About
Jordana and Jared are back talking about what it means to feel successful, happy, and “content” while still chasing the next big thing! They break down the confusing worl
Jul 29 1 h 21 min
Does Cheating Justify Public Humiliation?
Jared calls his parents with some BIG news about a very important award, and you won't believe their guesses! Then, Jordana and Jared get into listener questions, breakin
Jul 24 38 min
Would You Date Someone Who Sees Their Ex Every Month?
Jared and Jordana are talking about kids and whether Jared would actually make a good father, since icky things don't seem to phase him! Jared encourages people to be pre
Jul 22 1 h 21 min
He Emotionally Cheated. Is That Enough for Divorce?
Jared and Jordana begin today’s Friday Feels by talking about the viral memoir Strangers and why breakup books hit differently than breakup TikToks! They reminisce about
Jul 17 51 min
Five Dates, No Kiss. Now What?
Jared and Jordana are in the studio talking about their morning commute, which was delayed due to Taylor Swift’s Madison Square Garden wedding! They kick off today’s epis
Jul 15 1 h 19 min
Does Right Person, Wrong Time Exist?
Jared’s Netflix special is coming out in the fall and he recalls a roasting bit with Rob Lowe, and why meeting him completely changed his mind. J&J then debate whether it
Jul 10 33 min
My GF Is a Phillies Fan and She Won't Shuttap About It
Jared and Jordana debate whether dating a diehard Philly’s sports fan is a harmless quirk or a real relationship problem. Can passion be just plain obnoxious? They also u
Jul 8 1 h 32 min
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Where U Up? ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 13, 2026).
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The times I’ve listened to an episode and wondered if J&J have somehow stolen my own thoughts is extremely high. I love the real life perspectives, curiosity and empathy of the hosts, and pure gold comedy of both! The latest episodes intro “How do I date when I’m home for the holidays?” really resonated with me (btw I love the long intros- they’re my favorite part of the episode!). Dating in my 30’s and now 40’s can feel isolating and Jared and Jordana really validated my experiences. Good for all ages, all genders, and even good for those people who don’t know who you are Jared!
KeCORK · Dec 2024
I love this show so much. It always makes me laugh, provides solid advice, and has got me through some really dark times. Lately, however, it has become a bit repetitive with Jared’s dating concerns and inability to commit. At first I really felt for him but at this point it has become triggering in some ways. He sounds like all the men I’ve dated who bailed after date 5 seemingly out of nowhere. I no longer get what I came for with the podcast and may take a break. I hope Jared is able to find what he needs in a partner!
And_dav · Dec 2024
I really enjoy this podcast and Jared and Jordana have a great rapport. But, for the love of all things holy, if you read these reviews, please take this to heart and with love bc I think you’re both wonderful—you HAVE to cut down on saying “like” quite literally almost every other word. It’s excruciating, bites the ear, and is absolutely fixable, at least a little. It’s a bad crutch. I started to count them one episode and stopped at 132 when I lost count with 15 min left. I’m begging you, please just try to be more aware of it. Otherwise, this podcast is absolutely wonderful.
MichBriPar · Dec 2024
Love both Jared and Jordanas vulnerability and humor! It’s so easy to feel connected and root for you both. Loved to hear Jordana open up her fertility struggle on benefits, although I hate that she’s going through it. So many people can relate, including me.
Sasha Campo · Nov 2024
UPDATE: Changing to one star. Cant believe Jordana told someone to get rid of their cat because their girlfriend didn’t get along with it. This is extremely irresponsible advice given the fact that our shelters are overflowing and cats and dogs often get killed when they’re brought to shelters because of the capacity problem. Pets are a lifetime commitment, not something you dispose of at the first sign of a fixable issue. You clearly have zero understanding of owning a pet.
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This podcast is a wonderful combination of solid, insightful dating advice and entertainment. This is the only podcast I won’t miss an episode of. As someone in a LTR, I love hearing them go deep on relationships. Jordana’s insights from her marriage are so helpful. I love her reflection on things like compromise versus settling and her honesty in discussing challenges in her marriage but also how she knew he was “the one.” Similar for Jared, it’s so helpful to hear how he knew past relationships weren’t it, and whether he has any regrets in ending things. Would love to hear more in these areas! One piece of feedback: please keep in mind that not all women in their mid-twenties and older are out to find a husband as quickly as possible. I know this was a huge priority for Jordana but some of the viewpoints come across as regressive. Not all women are on a mission to lock down a man and many women have the same fears and hesitancy around dating that Jared has!
Reviewer466290 · Dec 2024
Jared, but particularly Jordana, continually miss on the pet advice. They need to stop answering animal emails. It was truly disgusting to hear them encourage disposing of a cat like it’s a used piece of furniture.
Shelters in the US are desperately over capacity and have to euthanize healthy dogs and cats as a result. Much of this problem comes from people disposing of pets, similar to what Jordana encourages. So please stop condoning this and actually educate yourself on the issue.
Applepods23566 · Dec 2024
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