Tell Me How You're Mighty: Real Talk About Cheating

140. Getting to Meh, Part 1.

In this episode, we survey your stories about when the spell broke and your cheater stopped having the power to suck you into caring. It's part one of a two-part series.

139. An Interview with Lauren LaRusso, therapist and author of "Beyond Infidelity"

Tracy speaks with therapist Lauren LaRusso, author of the new book "Beyond Infidelity: How to Turn the End of Your Relationship into the Beginning of Your Life." LaRusso

138. The Worst of the Cheaters, Part 2

We're not finished with the Pain Olympics. More of your submissions from the Worst Cheaters Ever. The guy who reviewed thousands of escorts. The woman who went to court c

137. The Pain Olympics: Your Worst Cheater Stories

We asked for your worst cheater stories, and you delivered. In this Part 1 episode, we hear about a father and his affair partner who continually reject an autistic son;

136. Baby Mama Drama, Comparing Yourself to the Affair Partner, and Other Dilemmas

Tracy and Sarah answer your letters on the show today. A woman whose boyfriend-now-husband kept a secret second family from her until a sheriff served him. And the age ol

135. Yet More Awful Workplace Affair Stories, Part 2.

The hits keep coming. We're on our second episode of your stories of workplace affairs. The creep who's been perving on his vendors. A doctor who hits on a subordinate tr

134. The Banality of Workplace Affairs: Your Stories, Part 1

Tracy and Sarah are back from summer vacation with your workplace affair stories to share (Part 1). Skeeving on the hired help. Boinking your mistress while your wife wor

133. Should You Report Workplace Cheating?

In this episode, Sarah and Tracy discuss your voicemail questions. A woman wonders if she should report her cheating soon-to-be-ex-husband for having a workplace affair w

132. Advice About Dating Post-Divorce

We got your stories after Sarah said she was considering dipping her toe into the dating waters. Instead of horrifying us with gruesome tales, most of you were encouragin

131. Two OBGYNs Talk About Infidelity

In this episode Tracy talks with two OBGYNs -- Dr. Leyla Moossavi and Dr. Diane Traenkle -- about what it's like to be on the front lines of women's health when dealing w

130. Unhitched: Talking Divorce with Therapist Oona Metz

Oona Metz is the author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women. She is a therapist with 30 years of clinical experience. For the past 15 years Oona has speci

129. Dating After Divorce: Sarah's Trepidation

Sarah decided to shelf dating for the last 13 years and focus instead on raising four kids. But now that they're nearly grown, she's considering to try dating. Maybe. Her

128. Why Yes I Did Out My Cheater, Part 2

Last week we heard from chumps who outed their cheaters -- to their families, their other Other Schmoopies, and even their employers. This is part 2 of "Did you out your

127. Did You Out Your Cheater?

Chumps are often told to keep their partner's infidelity to themselves. In this episode we hear from listeners who shouted it from the rooftops. Maybe dropped a dime to t

126. Her Cheater Gave Her HPV16: An Interview with Eileen Fox

Tracy interviews Eileen Fox, who was married for over 30 years in what she thought was a monogamous marriage when she discovered her husband's double life. For years he'd

125. More of Comparing Yourself to the Affair Partner

Part two from last week's episode. Did comparing yourself to real or as-yet-unknown affair partners do your head in? Did your cheater thrill to everyone's pick me dance?

124. Did You Compare Yourself to the Affair Partner? Part 1

Caught up in the pick me dance, it's hard not to compare and contrast yourself to the affair partner, who until D-Day was a phantom competitor. In this episode we hear fr

123. Infidelity as Ambiguous Grief

When you get chumped, why don't people bring casseroles? In this episode Tracy and Sarah discuss the complicated "ambiguous" grief of infidelity. Therapists call ambiguou

122. Chump Lady Answers Your Voicemails

In this episode, Tracy responds to your miscellaneous voicemails. A caller wishes to "put the final nail in the coffin" on the argument that infidelity is abuse, because

121. Yet More Stupid Things Affair Partners Say

There was so much stupid, enough to make a second podcast of submissions. All the dimwitted things people in affairs say to chumps. We can't make sense of it, but we can