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The Messy Parts

by with Maryam Banikarim

New career advice and messy stories, every Monday.  Whether you’re at the top, or striving to get there—you may have noticed the one thing people rarely talk about: how hard it is to achieve success. The Messy Parts is the answer—a podcast where you’ll hear about the twists, turns and pivots that shape extraordinary careers. The real messy parts along the way. Host Maryam Banikarim has been through it, so she gets it. Maryam has been a transformative leader across media, hospitality and tech. Her powerhouse resume features more than 20 years in the C-Suite at companies like Hyatt, NBC, and Nextdoor—and she has a vast, influential network to match. On The Messy Parts, she brings you unparalleled access to that network. Deeply honest, vulnerable conversations with Maryam—who is never afraid to ask the questions on everyone's mind. Join us as we get real, unfiltered, and messy.

Latest episodes

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Aged Out, Broke, Homeless at 50: How Ron King Became “Donkey King”

He ran Southern Living and top Time Inc. titles with no college degree — then got fired, and calls it a gift. What followed was darker: broke, aged out of media at 50, an

Sep 21
38 min

“The Value of Your Values" — Why Jeff Jones Quit Uber & Left Millions on the Table

Jeff Jones spent his career as one of the most respected CMOs in America — Coca-Cola, Gap, Target — before making the leap to run Uber's global ride-sharing business

Sep 14
40 min

Mindy Grossman Worked for Oprah, Barry Diller & Phil Knight — and Says She's Never Been 100% Qualified

Fired at 24. Turned down her dream job at Nike, then took it anyway. Walked into HSN as the eighth CEO in ten years. Mindy Grossman built one of the least likely careers

Sep 7
39 min

Sex, Xanax & Naked Beaches: 20 Legends Drop the PR Filter

Behind every legendary career is an unfiltered human truth. In this special compilation, 20 of our most notable guests—including Mickey Drexler, Samantha Bee, Blake Mycos

Aug 31
10 min

The Points Guy Couldn't Get His Own Credit Card: Then He Made $28 Million at 28 Years Old (Replay)

Brian Kelly (aka The Points Guy) has been obsessed with credit card and frequent flyer points since childhood. At age 12, his dad challenged him to book a family vacation

Aug 24
39 min

The Truth About Burnout No One Wants to Hear | Laura Mayer

"I don't believe in burnout." That's Laura Mayer, podcast industry veteran and author of Tryhard, explaining why she's never really taken a break: not afte

Aug 17
36 min

Samantha Bee: Your Dream Job Will Suck. Do It Anyway.

"Even your dream job sucks." That's not cynicism — it's the most useful career advice Samantha Bee has. On this episode of The Messy Parts, she tells Maryam wha

Aug 10
38 min

No Plan, No Fear, No Quitting: Julie Gaines on Running NYC’s Coolest Store & Giving MS the Finger

She dug through filthy sub-basements in the Bowery looking for discarded restaurant ware — and built one of New York's most beloved stores. Julie Gaines, co-founder

Aug 3
41 min

She Got Cut From Pro Basketball in Sweden. Now Megan Griffith Runs Columbia's Best Team Ever.

"They cut me from that team." That's how Columbia women's basketball head coach Megan Griffith opens this episode of The Messy Parts — and it's just the be

Jul 27
40 min

Why Selling TOMS Destroyed Blake Mycoskie’s Mental Health (And What Saved Him)

What really happens after a founder sells their company? Blake Mycoskie built one of the most recognized brands in the world at TOMS — and hit rock bottom the moment he w

Jul 20
38 min

NYT Writer Susan Dominus: "I Couldn't Risk It"

She's a staff writer at The New York Times Magazine, a Yale lecturer, and one of the most celebrated journalists working today. So why does Susan Dominus still feel

Jul 13
42 min

Gary Vee: Forgiveness, Fear, and the $540 Million Mistake (Replay)

In this re-release of one of our favorite episodes, Gary Vaynerchuk opens up to Maryam about fear, self-esteem, forgiveness, AI, leadership, and what he believes is a gro

Jul 6
49 min

"My Parents Would Have Rather I Been a Prostitute.” How Ayesha Nurdjaja Became a Celebrity Chef & Built NYC’s Hottest Restaurants

What happens when you walk away from the career everyone expected you to have? Chef Ayesha Nurdjaja was on a path toward law school, working at a prestigious law firm and

Jun 29
49 min

She Kept Hearing "No." At 60, Sari Botton Finally Found Her Audience.

"No just means not right now." That's the philosophy that kept writer and Oldster founder Sari Botton going through decades of rejection before building one of Subst

Jun 22
36 min

Bonnie Hammer Gave Her Boss the Finger. It Changed Her Career.

Bonnie Hammer ran 10 networks and two studios at NBCUniversal — but her career didn't start in a corner office. It started cleaning up dog poop on a kids' TV se

Jun 15
43 min

Ed Sheeran, Pizza Rat & Getting Hacked: Rick McGuire on Running Subway Creatures and Loving New York

What does it take to build one of New York City's most recognizable social media brands — from scratch, in secret, while working a day job? Subway Creatures founder

Jun 8
40 min

"I Don't Know How to Balance All of This": Faherty Co-Founder Kerry Docherty on Business, Marriage, and Choosing Yourself

Kerry Docherty is a co-founder of Faherty, the surf lifestyle brand she built alongside her husband, his identical twin brother, and her mother-in-law. But behind the sun

Jun 1
39 min

She Was Called “Dumb.” Now Assia Grazioli-Venier Invests Millions in Women’s Health.

What if the hardest parts of your life were actually setting you up for something bigger? Assia Grazioli-Venier’s story is a powerful reminder that your worst moments don

May 25
42 min

Her Mother and Grandmother Said Nothing. Belle Burden Broke the Silence.

Belle Burden was raised in a family where you simply did not talk about the messy parts. So when her husband left without explanation during COVID lockdown — and then ask

May 18
46 min

Bevy Smith Climbed the Ladder, Looked Around — and Jumped Off

What does it take to walk away from a six-figure career with no plan, go broke, and come out the other side with a Bravo show, an Amazon Prime series, and a Broadway stag

May 11
45 min

Chart trend

Position in the Careers chart (US), last 90 days.

#3
all-time peak
1
day in the top 3 since Jun 2025

Chart positions

Where The Messy Parts ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 21, 2026).

#65 ▼ 1 Careers US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

Maryam Banikarim could build rapport with an ice sculpture. She’s built this podcast around people as committed to getting real as she is, and the result is a precious view into the messy parts of how anything great (and sometimes not-so-great) comes to be. Entertaining, instructive & entirely a breath of fresh air.

Niko Canner · Sep 2025

“The Messy Parts” is my new favorite podcast as it uniquely acknowledges & focuses on the unexpected challenges, blips and beautiful ‘oops’ that happen along every successful woman’s career. Hearing these real stories from women we admire is validating, inspiring and relatable. Each episode gives me a nugget or two to use and share with fellow female execs to help navigate life and work. Can’t wait for more - Keep them coming!

KBRousseau · Jul 2025

We’re always hearing about the successes of successful people and never the personal parts or the journey leading up to it. With The Messy Parts, I’ve been able to get a more up-close view of successful people’s mindsets, career pivots, and personal histories. Maryam gets to know these guests through her thoughtful interview questions, and as a listener, I feel like I’m actually in the room with her, getting to know everyone. I loved the episode with Debra Martin Chase about how her “safe” path as a lawyer wasn’t fulfilling, and that she had to take a risk and start over mid-career. So many good episodes, and I can’t wait to listen to more!

dcaolistener · Jul 2025

I love Maryam’s voice and style. I feel like she and her guests are sitting in my kitchen next to me telling their stories. I love the authenticity. The magic is in the mess.

KatyKhurana · Jul 2025

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