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Self-Improvement · AJ Harbinger & Johnny Dzubak

The Art of Charm

by AJ Harbinger & Johnny Dzubak

Explore social skills like charisma, confidence, body language and conversation. On The Art of Charm, co-founders AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak break down the science of human behavior into practical skills, from owning a room and reading people to making a first impression and building real connection. Short Social Intelligence Briefings focus on one skill in about 15 minutes, and long-form interviews go deep with experts such as Joe Navarro, Chris Voss and Vanessa Van Edwards on body language, persuasion, influence and relationships. The Art of Charm has been on the air since 2007.

Latest episodes

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How to Read People | Social Intelligence Briefing

Do you overthink conversations, struggle to read people, or worry that someone doesn't like you? A short answer, awkward silence, or sudden change in body language can tr

Nov 6
15 min

Break the Habits Holding Back Your Career | Andrea Petrone

What if the leadership skills that got you promoted are now holding you back? Many ambitious professionals believe that working harder, projecting confidence, and followi

Nov 2
56 min

How To Read Body Language - Social Intelligence Briefing

Think you can read someone's body language and instantly know what they're thinking? Crossed arms, avoiding eye contact, or looking away during a conversation might seem

Oct 29
15 min

Communication Won't Fix Your Relationship | Yael Schonbrun

Why do you feel misunderstood by the people who know you best? Whether you're arguing with your spouse, struggling to communicate with your partner, or dealing with confl

Oct 26
1 h 01 min

Why Nice People Stay Stuck | Social Intelligence Briefing

Do you struggle to say no, set boundaries, or ask for what you need because you're afraid of disappointing people? Being too nice might feel like the best way to maintain

Oct 24
12 min

Working Harder Makes You Less Productive | Dr. Christian Poensgen

What if your obsession with productivity is actually making you less productive—and damaging the relationships that matter most? Working longer hours, answering every mes

Oct 19
1 h 02 min

Why Good Conversations Go Nowhere | Social Intelligence Briefing

Ever walk away from a conversation wondering why you struggle to make meaningful connections—even though you're friendly, ask questions, and listen? The problem might not

Oct 16
11 min

The FBI’s Secret to Influencing Anyone | Kyle Vowinkel

When pressure rises, your instinct may be to take control, push harder, and force a decision. But the harder you push, the more resistance you can create. AJ sits down w

Oct 12
1 h 06 min

How to be Taken Seriously at Work | Social Intelligence Briefing

Doing great work isn't enough to get promoted if nobody understands the value you're bringing to the table. AJ and Johnny break down why talented professionals often str

Oct 12
15 min

What Your Shame Is Trying to Tell You | Frank Spinelli

Shame doesn’t tell you that you did something bad. It tells you that you are bad—and that distinction can quietly shape your relationships, choices, and sense of self. A

Oct 5
1 h 00 min

You Were Trained to Be Invisible | Social Intelligence Briefing

The habits that helped you succeed early in your career can become the same habits that keep you invisible later. AJ and John break down how approval seeking evolves fro

Oct 2
12 min

Tiny Habits That Change Your Life | Eli Susman

You don’t need an hour-long morning routine to improve your well-being. Sometimes twenty seconds is enough—if you actually keep doing it. AJ sits down with researcher El

Sep 28
1 h 02 min

Why Being Liked Isn't Getting You Respected | Social Intelligence Briefing

Doing great work doesn’t guarantee you’ll get credit for it. In fact, staying humble and helpful can sometimes make your best work invisible. AJ and Johnny break down th

Sep 24
11 min

Knowing When to Quit | Lindsay Crouse

Quitting isn’t the opposite of perseverance. Sometimes it’s what allows you to keep going in a direction that actually matters. AJ sits down with journalist and author L

Sep 21
50 min

The Competence Trap | Social Intelligence Briefing

Working harder can actually make you harder to promote when you’re playing the wrong game. AJ and Johnny break down the difference between earning approval and earning r

Sep 19
13 min

Why Success Never Feels Like Enough | Dr. Marisa Franco

What if low self-worth isn’t something wrong with you—but your mind protecting you from being hurt again? AJ sits down with psychologist Dr. Marisa G. Franco to explore

Sep 14
59 min

Waffling | Social Intelligence Briefing

The moment someone challenges your idea, do you defend it—or accidentally convince the room you weren’t confident in it to begin with? AJ and Johnny break down why smart

Sep 10
14 min

The Hidden Forces Behind Your Choices | Glenn Hutchinson

You think you know why you make the choices you make. Your unconscious mind may have gotten there first. AJ and Johnny sit down with psychologist Glenn to explore the hi

Sep 8
59 min

Social Gravity | Social Intelligence Briefing

Being the smartest person in the room won’t help your career if nobody remembers what you contributed when the decision gets made. AJ and Johnny break down why talented,

Sep 4
17 min

The Hidden Power of Negative Emotions | George Loewenstein

Your emotions don’t just change how you feel—they can change what you remember, how you judge other people, and even who you become in the moment. AJ sits down with beha

Aug 31
1 h 12 min

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#126
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Chart positions

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#145 ▼ 4 Self-Improvement US

What listeners say

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I cannot begin to explain how much valuable information I have gained from listening to this podcast. The information AJ & Johnny give in these episodes is invaluable if you want to succeed in your professional career and in life. If you’re looking to get an advantage & the upper hand when it comes to socializing and interacting with other people, then this podcast is for you.

MegaJCal1989 · Nov 2023

Art of Charm has quickly become a standout favorite of mine! I’m consistently impressed by the engaging conversations, insightful content, and actionable advice. I truly learn something valuable every time I listen. Highly recommend tuning in!

mvelasco07 · Oct 2023

AJ and Johnny are the OG’s in the social confidence development game. Their decades of combined experience really shows. They are always working on keeping things relevant with todays culture. Many thanks for this content

ZuninginNYC · Sep 2023

I discovered the Art of Charm podcast shortly after graduating from college. I was trying to find my way socially, professionally, and dating-wise as a working young adult, and was looking for how to improve in these areas of my life. Johnny and AJ provide listeners with a ton of knowledge and tools to improve these areas of one’s life. By applying what you learn in the podcast, you will see your life transform before your eyes. Certainly that’s been my own experience over the subsequent 5-plus years, where I’ve seen incredible “gains” by applying what I learned in the podcast. In particular, episodes focused on resiliency (ex: the episodes where they interviewed Steven Hayes on building more self compassion), and episodes focused on social skills (ex: the toolbox episodes) have been extremely valuable. Thank you, team Art of Charm, for providing an immense service to the public.

Moose4567 · Aug 2023

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