Relationships · Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
by Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos. When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.” Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.” --- Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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I have listened to all 388 episodes and they just keep getting better. The interactions between Nick and Leah are the best and usually have me laughing every week. I’m secretly happy that all the etiquette problems of the world have not been solved yet. Otherwise we wouldn’t have any episode every week.
I get so excited when there’s a new episode of WYRBW! Every week I listen to the new one plus one or two from back when I hadn’t yet found Nick and Leah, and was still stumbling around in the darkness. Seriously, they are on a very short list of famous people I would actually like to meet one day.
I don’t know how I stumbled across this show, but I’m so thrilled that I did! Leah and Nick have such great repartee—witty, warm, genuine (and occasionally a bit catty, which I also adore)! The show makes me laugh, gasp, and occasionally tear up. Since I just recently discovered it, I’m currently bingeing the back catalogue, and it’s bringing me such joy! It’s like having out with a couple of friends.
Nick and Leah make my heart so happy. I am becoming a more mindful and thoughtful person because of this show. Listening to each new episode is the highlight of my week!
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