Relationships · Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
by Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos. When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.” Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.” --- Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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I’ve been listening to these two for several years. I have learned soooo much when it comes to dos and don’ts of etiquette. I now stop and think to myself , “What would Leah and Nick do?” Thank you for helping me be a better human! ❤️
Love these two, they don’t agree on everything and I think that is what makes it click for me. I know I’ll laugh at every episode. Thanks for keeping it clean.
Update -- I can't believe it but I love this podcast even more. It makes me so happy and I laugh so much while listening to it. This podcast is perfect! I love the way you get useful information but also laugh a lot. Any time I’m in a fowl mood I listen to an episode and I feel better. I love Nick and Leah both so much- they are wonderful together. As a side note- I have actually changed some of my behavior after learning correct etiquette. Please do this podcast forever for the good of the planet.
I’m so excited about this podcast. Each episode is lively, upbeat and practical in the way good manners and etiquette are approached. After the stuffy teachings of other etiquette podcasters, this is a bright, sunny breath of fresh air! Thank you!!!
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