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Relationships · Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

Were You Raised By Wolves?

by Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema

Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos. When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.” Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.” --- Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)

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Position in the Relationships chart (US), last 90 days.

#16
all-time peak
190
days in the top 50 since Nov 2024

Latest episodes

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Second Helpings: Dodging In-Law Requests, Melting Candy Bars in Diapers, Hiding Coffee Truths, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here'

Sep 7
30 min

Second Helpings: Spitting Watermelon Seeds, Behaving While Bowling, Throwing Spoons on Airplanes, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one

Aug 31
50 min

Using Knife Rests, Spamming Everyone You Know, Pocketing Hotel Slippers, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle using knife rests, spamming everyone you know, pocketing hotel slippers, and much more. Please follo

Aug 24
39 min

Lending Fancy Waffle Makers, Witnessing Coffee Shop Meltdowns, Demanding Raisins From Coworkers, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about lending fancy waffle makers, witnessing coffee shop meltdowns, demanding ra

Aug 17
31 min

Turning Tables, Finding Lost Wallets, Boxing Up Free Desserts, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle the lost art of "turning the table," finding lost wallets, boxing up free birthday desserts, and muc

Aug 10
42 min

Vetoing Unpleasant Mahjong Players, Excluding Free Alcohol at Birthdays, Getting Caught Without Toilet Paper, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about vetoing unpleasant mahjong players, excluding free alcohol at birthdays, ge

Aug 3
23 min

Spinning Lazy Susans, Saying "Bless You" After Sneezes, Lying to Telemarketers, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle spinning lazy Susans, saying "bless you" after sneezes, lying to telemarketers, and much more. Pleas

Jul 27
32 min

Driving Coworkers Home, Asking About Allergens, Calling Your Husband By Name, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about driving coworkers home, asking about allergens, calling your husband by nam

Jul 20
33 min

Second Helpings: Loitering Around Toasters, Being Embarrassed by Employees, Picking Strangers' Teeth, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here'

Jul 13
30 min

Second Helpings: Sequencing Cream and Jam on Scones, Glancing at Smartwatches, Scowling at Strangers, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one

Jul 6
31 min

Motoring with Manners, Sharing the Sidewalk, Charging Guests for Pizza, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle motoring with manners, sharing the sidewalk, charging guests for pizza, and much more. Please follow

Jun 29
42 min

Rescinding Getaway Invitations, Staking Unwanted Yard Signs, Choosing the Right Stationery, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about rescinding weekend getaway invitations, staking unwanted yard signs, choosi

Jun 22
31 min

Flying the Danish Flag, Ducking Out of Weddings, Roasting in Cocktail Attire, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle flying the Danish flag, ducking out of weddings without saying goodbye, roasting in cocktail attire,

Jun 15
39 min

Ending Endless Brunches, Dealing with Double Dippers, Greeting Bus Riders, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about ending endless brunches, dealing with double dippers, greeting bus riders,

Jun 8
25 min

Asking About Brian, Living With Homeowners Associations, Redirecting a Birthday Gift, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle asking "Where is Brian?", living with homeowners associations, redirecting a birthday gift to a diff

Jun 1
39 min

Second Helpings: Sitting on Suitcases, Going on Ghost Tours, Being Disappointed by Mahi-Mahi, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back next week with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here'

May 25
46 min

Finding Cat Hair in Food, Picking People's Brains, CCing the Wrong Person, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about finding cat hair in food, picking people's brains, CCing the wrong person,

May 18
31 min

Receiving Black Napkins, Squatting in Strangers' Kitchens, Slurping Smelly Foods, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle receiving black napkins in restaurants, squatting in strangers' kitchens, slurping smelly foods on a

May 11
40 min

Outrunning Your Friends, Bragging About Possum Sweaters, Renaming Your Coworkers, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about outrunning your friends, bragging about possum sweaters, renaming your cowo

May 4
27 min

Earning Girl Scout Badges, Washing Strawberries in Soda Fountains, Whisking Away Cake Plates, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle earning Girl Scout badges, washing strawberries in soda fountains, whisking away cake plates, and mu

Apr 27
43 min

Chart positions

Where Were You Raised By Wolves? ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 7, 2026).

#79 ▲ 5 Relationships US

What listeners say

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I’ve been listening to these two for several years. I have learned soooo much when it comes to dos and don’ts of etiquette. I now stop and think to myself , “What would Leah and Nick do?” Thank you for helping me be a better human! ❤️

4Grands0Dogs · Dec 2025

Love these two, they don’t agree on everything and I think that is what makes it click for me. I know I’ll laugh at every episode. Thanks for keeping it clean.

Catmom100 · Dec 2025

Update -- I can't believe it but I love this podcast even more. It makes me so happy and I laugh so much while listening to it. This podcast is perfect! I love the way you get useful information but also laugh a lot. Any time I’m in a fowl mood I listen to an episode and I feel better. I love Nick and Leah both so much- they are wonderful together. As a side note- I have actually changed some of my behavior after learning correct etiquette. Please do this podcast forever for the good of the planet.

lovepodcastfun · Nov 2025

I’m so excited about this podcast. Each episode is lively, upbeat and practical in the way good manners and etiquette are approached. After the stuffy teachings of other etiquette podcasters, this is a bright, sunny breath of fresh air! Thank you!!!

Shopgirl.152 · Oct 2025

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