Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

333: Clean vs. Dirty Signals in Mismatched Sexual Desire with Dr. Corey Allan

What if the way you're trying to create more intimacy in your marriage is actually making your spouse want it less? When one spouse wants sex more often than the other,

332: BONUS — Marriage Undressed: Obligation Sex, Overcoming Shame, and Rebuilding Intimacy

What do you do when intimacy starts to feel like an obligation? How do you rebuild desire when anxiety, stress, or past experiences get in the way? And how can you talk a

331: How to Get Out of Your Head and Actually Enjoy Sex

Have you ever been intimate with your spouse, but instead of enjoying the moment, you're stuck in your head? Wondering if they're enjoying it, worrying about your perfo

330: Your Marriage Needs an Adult Playground (Here's How to Build One), with Tammy Camp.

Has sex started to feel more like a responsibility than something you actually look forward to? Somewhere along the way, many couples stop playing together. Sex becomes

329: Do Christians Really Have Bad Sex Lives? (What the Data Actually Shows)

Do Christians really have worse sex lives—or is that just a story we've been told? After seeing conflicting claims online, Dan went straight to the data. What he found

328: Five Steps to Having Juicy Sex in Long-term Marriages, with Dr. Emily Jamea

What if your sex life is good—but you still sense there could be something more? Sex therapist Dr. Emily Jamea kept hearing this question from couples who had overcome

327: Dreading "Are We Having Sex Tonight?" Try the Menu Mindset Instead

Has sex in your marriage become a yes-or-no question: "Are we having sex tonight?" For one spouse, that question may bring hope and anticipation. For the other, it may

326: Stop Having "Baseball Sex" (Do This Instead), with Dr. Lisa Elieson

Does sex in your marriage ever feel like a race toward intercourse or orgasm? Dr. Lisa Elieson calls this "baseball sex"—rushing around the bases instead of enjoying wher

325: The More You Pursue, the More They Pull Away: Breaking the Intimacy Cycle with Dr. Laurie Watson

The more you pursue your spouse for emotional or sexual connection, the more they seem to pull away—and the harder you try, the worse it gets. Certified sex therapist Dr.

324: Why You're Always the One Initiating Sex (And What It's Actually Telling You)

Why does one spouse keep reaching for more sexually while the other feels responsible for keeping things safe? Dr. Roy Myers, author of Playful Practice, shares what his

323: How to get out of "Roommate Mode" in marriage

If your marriage feels more like a roommate arrangement than a romantic relationship, the problem may not be that you've grown too far apart. It may be that you've become

322: BONUS — Marriage Undressed: Desire Differences, Oral Sex, and Rebuilding After Porn

Welcome to Marriage Undressed—a live Q&A where Dan Purcell and marriage coach Tammy Camp answer real, anonymous questions about sex, intimacy, and marriage. In this bon

321: Why Your Libido Disappeared After the Honeymoon Phase (And How to Get It Back) w/ Hannah Johnson

Why does libido feel effortless during the honeymoon phase—and then seem to disappear? After experiencing this pattern in her own relationships, Hannah Johnson, known a

320: Is Masturbation Okay in Marriage?

Is masturbation okay in a Christian marriage? It's a common question, but one many couples are afraid to ask—and few people answer directly. In this episode, Dan offers

319: When You Want Sex More (or Less) Than Your Spouse—with Dr. Jennifer Litner

When one spouse wants sex more than the other, both partners can end up feeling hurt—the higher-desire spouse feels rejected, while the lower-desire spouse feels pressure

318: I No Longer Ask My Wife to Initiate Sex (Here's Why)

For years, I asked my wife to initiate sex more often because I wanted to feel chosen and desired. Instead, my requests created pressure, scorekeeping, and a cycle that m

317: The Spicy Little Habit That Reignited This Mom's Marriage

When work, kids, meals, schedules, and the never-ending mental checklist take everything you have, intimacy can start to feel like one more task. Amy Nesbit knows that te

316: The Marriage Problem You Can't See (And the Grace That Changes Everything)

Most couples think they know what's hurting their marriage. Poor communication. Different sex drives. Parenting disagreements. Financial stress. Growing apart. That's

315: Rethinking Porn Addiction: A Better Path to Healing with Craig Perra

Shame thrives in secrecy—but healing doesn't. In this deeply honest conversation, Dan sits down with Craig Perra, a former attorney whose secret life of pornography, st

314: "A More Perfect Union": What America's 250th Can Teach Us About Marriage and Intimacy

What does the Constitutional Convention have to do with your marriage? More than you might think. As we celebrate Independence Day, Dan explores one of the greatest a