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The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

by Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

Latest episodes

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507. Part 2 - A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her

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In this part 2 episode we continue our discussions about a listeners email with therapist Austin about what happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the

Sep 25
39 min

506. 8 Reasons To Initiate Even If You Are NOT In The Mood: does the lower drive spouse have responsibility for creating passion?

Who usually initiates sexual intimacy in your marriage? If the answer is almost always the same spouse, this episode could be a game changer for your relationship. Initi

Sep 22
18 min

505. A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her

What happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the marriage but still feels unwanted, unimportant, and completely alone? In this powerful episode of the

Sep 18
38 min

504. Female Pleasure and Orgasm: 15 Things Every Couple Should Know?

Why do some wives struggle to enjoy sex or experience orgasm? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy share 15 important facts about female orgasm

Sep 15
32 min

503. Part 2 To Episode 501 - How Men Can Harness And Manage Their Strong Sex Drive And How Women Can Awaken Theirs - With Austin

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy continue their discussion from episode 501 with Austin, and discuss one of the most common dynamics in marr

Sep 11
38 min

502. He Wants Sex To Feel Connected. She Wants Connection To Want Sex. Why we view it so differently...

Why do two people who deeply love each other sometimes struggle so much in the bedroom? This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the big

Sep 8
37 min

501. Why Do So Many Issues in Marriage Correlate With Sex, Or The Lack Thereof? Part ONE - With Austin

Why does sexual intimacy seem to be connected to so many other areas of marriage? When couples are struggling with communication, resentment, emotional disconnection, tr

Sep 4
40 min

500. Why Feeling Pressured For Sex Is A Desire Killer For Wives (And How To Fix It)

Why Feeling Pressured for Sex Is a Turn-Off for Wives What if the very thing you're doing to get more sex is actually the thing making your spouse want less sex? T

Sep 1
41 min

499. Why Does the Pursuit Stop After Marriage? with Therapist Austin

Why do we put so much effort into winning our spouse’s heart while dating, only to slowly stop doing those same things once we’re married? In this episode of the Ultimat

Aug 28
37 min

498. Does More Respect Equal Better Sex In Marriage?

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the critical connection between mutual respect and sexual intimacy in marriage. While it is commo

Aug 25
33 min

497. Want to Feel Closer, More Connected & More Desired? Start Here - With Therapist Austin

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick & Amy sit down with therapist Austin to unpack Stephen Covey’s classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Peopl

Aug 21
35 min

496. Why The Best Sexual Intimacy Might Start With This Weekly Marriage Meeting

What if 20 simple questions could help you reconnect, reduce resentment, improve communication, strengthen emotional intimacy, and even improve your sex life? In this fu

Aug 18
30 min

495. The Respect Your Marriage Is Missing (And You May Not Even Realize It) - With Therapist Austin

What does respect really look like in marriage? It’s so much more than simply being polite or avoiding arguments. Respect is shown in the way we speak to our spouse, the

Aug 14
29 min

494. Is This OK? The Marriage Bed Questions Couples Are Asking... And Our Honest Answers

Sex can be one of the most powerful ways a husband and wife connect. When intimacy is approached in a healthy way, it can deepen emotional connection, build trust, increa

Aug 11
42 min

493. The #1 Marriage Mistake: If You Want Healthy, Happy Kids Stop Putting Them Before Your Spouse - Therapist Austin Interview

Should Your Spouse Really Come First? It's one of the most controversial messages we share, and every time we talk about it, the comments explode. Should your spou

Aug 7
27 min

492. Answering The Most Common Questions People Ask About Us - Some Of Them Might Surprise You

Get to know Nick & Amy like never before! In this fun, honest, and personal episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're pulling back the curtain and answering s

Aug 4
42 min

491. Are You Having Sex, But Still Feel Lonely, Disconnected And Unseen? - With Austin

Have you ever felt like something is missing in your marriage, but you just can't put your finger on it? Maybe your communication isn't terrible, your intimacy

Jul 31
28 min

490. The Myths About Sex That Keep You From Having The Intimate Life You Desire

Most couples never realize they've been believing lies about sex for years. They compare their marriage to Hollywood, social media, or unrealistic expectations and

Jul 28
40 min

489. EVERYTHING In Your Marriage Comes Down To Your Spouse Feeling Safe With You - But What Does That Even Look Like? - With Austin

In episode 433 with Austin Ellis, we talked about how a man can be a better husband and father and discussed safety in marriage. If your wife doesn't feel safe in yo

Jul 24
38 min

488. 11 Things Every Wife Should Know (Survey answers from the husbands)

A few weeks ago, we did a podcast titled: 11 Things Every Husband Should Know (But Somehow Missed The Memo). Now it's time for the flip side.  In this fun and hones

Jul 21
29 min

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#11
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Chart positions

Where The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 25, 2026).

#32 ▼ 4 Sexuality US

What listeners say

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I absolutely love this podcast! Nick and Amy feel like that couple you can sit down with over coffee and walk away with game-changing insights about your relationship. They have a gift for breaking things down in a way that’s never judgmental—just thought-provoking and refreshing. So many times, I’ve found myself pausing to say, *"Huh, never thought about it that way!"* Their advice is practical, honest, and so needed. And to Nick and Amy—don’t you dare apologize for the topics you cover! Trolls will troll, but there are way more of us out here who appreciate the real, vulnerable conversations you bring. Keep doing what you’re doing—you’re helping so many of us find that missing piece in our relationships. Can’t wait for the next episode!🎙️💛

100,000 meters · May 2025

Nick and Amy do such a great job of sharing real advice to help others create thriving intimate relationships. I’ve enjoyed every single episode I have listened to. Their down-to-earth realness makes it so enjoyable to listen to. I had a topic I was hopeful they would do a podcast on—I requested it and within days they had a podcast released about it. If you have a healthy marriage and want to increase your intimacy together, this is definitely the podcast for you. The world needs more happy marriages and I’m really grateful for this podcast and the way it blessed my marriage. Keep it coming you guys! We love it!

egb33 · Apr 2025

Has helped me as a high libido husband with a low libido spouse gain a much better understanding of the dynamics of marriage, intimacy, and connection.

Tankersisdabest2026 · Sep 2024

Nothing is more important to me than my relationship with my bride. I, however, am human and very fallable. Nick and Amy have helped me to open my mind to ways to improve my marriage and better understand my wife. This in turn has led to a closer bond and even more intimacy. I can’t recommend the show enough!

Rynobravo · Apr 2024

This is an extremely harmful podcast and if you are coming here to strengthen your marriage, please find another resource. These two ramble using all kinds of generalizations without any basis in the scientific research regarding interpersonal relationships and intimacy. If you want to listen to a man degrade his wife, ridicule her for having a low sex drive, and prioritize his needs over everything, this is the podcast for you. It’s this brainwashing of women into traditional wife/servant roles that takes feminism back decades.

scholarblue · Nov 2024

I don’t understand why the audio quality is so poor for Nick and Amy to have recorded over 400 episodes. I also don’t understand why they sound so unprepared when they start recording. In the last episode I tried to listen to I finally turned it off after 8 minutes because they were literally having an argument on air.

Unimpressed new listener · Jan 2026

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