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Sex and Psychology Podcast

by Dr. Justin Lehmiller

The Sex and Psychology Podcast is the sex ed you never got in school—and won’t find anywhere else. Kinsey Institute researcher Dr. Justin Lehmiller takes you on a journey through the psychology of sex and relationships, offering practical tips along the way that can help you take your intimate life to the next level. Learn more on Dr. Lehmiller’s blog at sexandpsychology.com

Latest episodes

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Episode 542: How To Talk Sexy Without Feeling Awkward

Talking during sex can be incredibly hot. But for a lot of people, it can also feel awkward, intimidating, or embarrassing. The good news is that sexy talk is a skill you

Oct 6
32 min

Episode 541: How to Calm Attachment Anxiety

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For some people, relationships can bring a lot of anxiety and uncertainty. They might question whether their partner really loves them, become highly sensitive to signs o

Oct 2
31 min

Episode 540: Why You Pull Away When Relationships Get Close

When relationships start to feel too close, some people instinctively pull away. They might shut down emotionally, avoid difficult conversations, crave more space, or con

Sep 29
32 min

Episode 539: The Most Common Questions Sex Therapists Get Asked

What are the most common questions that come up in sex therapy? In this episode, we're revisiting an important conversation from the archives that dives into five questio

Sep 25
33 min

Episode 538: How To Get Out Of Your Head During Sex

Your brain really is your biggest sex organ. And if you want to have more (and better) sex, getting into the right headspace can make all the difference. The problem is t

Sep 22
34 min

Episode 537: The Sex History You Were Never Taught

We often assume that people in the past were far more sexually conservative than we are today, and that things like sex toys, pornography, and masturbation are largely mo

Sep 18
33 min

Episode 536: Was The Bridgerton Era As Sexy As We Think?

Shows like Bridgerton invite us to imagine the past as a time of elaborate courtship, forbidden desire, and passionate romance. But was the past really as sexy as we like

Sep 15
32 min

Episode 535: Why Kink Works For Neurodiverse Brains

For many neurodivergent people, BDSM offers something conventional sexual practices often don’t, including clear communication, explicit expectations, structure, and the

Sep 11
34 min

Episode 534: The Complicated Relationship Between BDSM And Mental Health

BDSM can be a powerful source of pleasure, connection, and self-expression. But when mental health challenges enter the picture, they can also raise important questions a

Sep 8
32 min

Episode 533: A Beginner's Guide To Swinging

For some couples, swinging can be a way to bring novelty, excitement, and sexual exploration into their relationship. But opening the door to new experiences can also bri

Sep 4
36 min

Episode 532: Why Jealousy Isn't The Problem

Jealousy is one of the most complicated—and misunderstood—emotions we experience in intimate relationships. We tend to think of jealousy as inherently unhealthy, somethin

Sep 1
33 min

Episode 531: Do Dads Get Postpartum Depression, Too?

Becoming a father doesn’t just change a man’s brain. It can also change his sense of identity, his mental health, and his relationships. Fatherhood can bring profound mea

Aug 28
29 min

Episode 530: The Surprising Science Of The Dad Brain

Becoming a parent changes just about every aspect of life. But it doesn’t just change your routines, priorities, and relationships—it can actually change your brain and b

Aug 25
33 min

Episode 529: The Menopause Revolution Is Here

Menopause is finally getting the attention it deserves, with growing recognition of its impact on sexual health, relationships, work, and quality of life. At the center o

Aug 21
45 min

Episode 528: Your Toughest Sex Questions, Answered

What happens when two people in a long-term relationship have dramatically different sex drives? How do couples navigate intimacy when aging or health problems make sex d

Aug 18
54 min

Episode 527: How Do You Want To Feel During Sex?

When we talk about what we want sexually, we usually describe certain behaviors, positions, or roles. But that's only part of the story. Beneath what we want to do is a d

Aug 14
32 min

Episode 526: Why More Adults Are Remaining Virgins

More young adults are delaying their sexual debut, with growing numbers reaching their twenties or even thirties without ever having had sex. At the same time, virginity

Aug 11
31 min

Episode 525: The ADHD Guide To Better Sex (Essential Listen)

Despite how much we hear about ADHD, its impact on our intimate lives is often overlooked. Research suggests that around 40% of adults with ADHD experience at least one f

Aug 7
45 min

Episode 524: Essential Sex Advice For Women

Traditional sex education often skips topics like the clitoris, orgasm, sexual pain, and vaginal health, leaving many women to figure these things out all on their own. I

Aug 4
32 min

Episode 523: Real Stories of Non-Monogamy

Open relationships, polyamory, and consensual non-monogamy are receiving more attention than ever, yet they’re still surrounded by stereotypes and misconceptions. In her

Jul 31
31 min

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#6
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27
days in the top 10 since Nov 2024

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#13 ▲ 6 Sexuality US

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Justin is a fantastic and well informed host who asks all the questions about sex you’re curious about and then some. Highly recommend this quality resource!

Tom Bruett · Apr 2025

You and your guests are always so informative and inspiring. And the kindness, compassion and encouragement you, and each show, emanates is palpable. Thank you! Really beautiful and valuable contribution to helping we lucky listeners to actualize as sexually fulfilled, however fraught, humans.

The Brilliant Body Podcast · Mar 2025

I recently stumbled across this podcast and I am so, so grateful. The episodes are so well-edited & thoughtfully produced. I don’t listen to many podcasts because I find many of them too slow-paced with too many tangents and not even substance. (Some pepper like that, and that’s OK! It’s just not for me.) The biggest thing I love about it: the experts are actual experts. They’re not just self-proclaimed experts; they are qualified, reputable, and authoritative. There are a lot of podcasts—and TikToks, IG accounts, et al—hosted by people whose certifications or degrees sound significant, but are ultimately meaningless. I’m sure some of them give fine advice…but there are very valid reasons we have accreditations. Most people wouldn’t take medical recommendations from a random stranger just because they’re wearing scrubs; meanwhile, they’re fine taking serious advice about psychological or sexual health from a random person on TikTok because their profile says “expert” or they have a masters/PhD in an unrelated field. I love that Justin allows his guests to actually speak so they share their expert insights rather than talking over them. He’s a great host with a calming voice, and it’s always clear that he’s highly knowledgeable, preps a lot for each conversation, and is listening closely to guests. All this is to say: This is an entertaining, responsible podcast that explores really fantastic, sometimes funny, and always fascinating topics. Keep doing what you’re doing!

Sidewalkvocals · Oct 2024

Delivering accurate and relevant sexuality education would be enough but Lehmiller makes the conversations light and humorous. This keeps episodes engaging and memorable.

Zerf1 · Oct 2023

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