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What Are You Two Actually Building Together?

Send us Fan Mail You can love each other deeply and still stop building a life together. You share the bills. The house. The kids. The responsibilities. But what are y

YOU DON'T BECOME ROOMMATES OVERNIGHT. YOU PRACTICE IT.

Send us Fan Mail You don't become roommates overnight. You practice it. It usually starts innocently. Different work schedules.  Different bedtimes.  Different ro

When Life Is Hard, Don't Make Your Spouse Pay for It

Send us Fan Mail Maybe your relationship isn't broken. Maybe you're just exhausted. Sometimes life gets so heavy that the person you love most ends up getting

When did we stop flirting with the person we fell in love with?

Send us Fan Mail Somewhere between the bills, the kids, the grocery lists, the responsibilities, and everyday life… we can accidentally stop dating the person we're

The Greatest Relationship Skill Isn't Communication. It's Self-Government!

Send us Fan Mail Most people think the greatest threat to a relationship is poor communication. I don't. I think it's poor character. Because communication

Your Relationship Has an Emotional Economy

Send us Fan Mail I think we've been measuring love the wrong way. We ask, "How much do they do for me?" But maybe that's the wrong question. Because every

Most People Think They're Being Accountable... They Aren't!

Send us Fan Mail Everyone says they want accountability in a relationship. But I think most people misunderstand what it actually is. Accountability isn't saying,

Your Partner Can't Read the Story You're Telling Yourself

Send us Fan Mail Your partner can't read the story you're telling yourself. And that might be one of the biggest reasons relationships struggle. They walk in

The Invisible Things Fathers Carry: The Fathers Nobody Checks On

Send us Fan Mail Today isn't just Father's Day. Today is for the fathers nobody checks on. The ones who carry the weight of the world without telling anyone

Can You Love Me When It Hurts?

Send us Fan Mail Most people ask: "Can you love me?" But the deeper question is: Can you love me when it hurts? Can you love me when you're disappointed in me?

The Best Parts of Love Are Actually Small

Send us Fan Mail We spend so much time looking for the big moments in love... The proposal. The wedding. The grand gesture. The expensive gift. But if we're hones

Complacency in Relationships: Why Do You Expect Them to Keep Choosing You If You’ve Stopped Showing Up?

Send us Fan Mail Complacency doesn’t usually destroy a relationship overnight. It happens slowly. The dates stop. The compliments stop. The flirting fades. The effort

There’s a Big Difference Between “They Don’t Care” and “They’re Trying”

Send us Fan Mail There’s a huge difference between the spouse who simply doesn’t care… and the one who may get things wrong—but genuinely means well and is trying their

Nobody Talks About the Grief Inside Relationships

Send us Fan Mail Nobody talks about the grief that can exist inside a relationship that never ended. Not all grief comes from breakups. Sometimes it comes from: the ro

She Became a Mother… But Did Anyone Ask Who She Became?

Send us Fan Mail Motherhood changes women in ways people rarely talk about. Not just physically. Emotionally. Mentally. Relationally. A woman can deeply love her chil

We’re Not Enemies...We’re Misunderstood

Send us Fan Mail It feels like men and women are at war right now… Everyone has a side. Everyone has a story. Everyone has a reason why the other is the problem. But w

You Don’t Know Your Partner As Well As You Think You Do

Send us Fan Mail You think you know your partner… But do you know who they are right now? Or are you still relating to who they used to be? A lot of relationships don

Your Partner Is Experiencing a Completely Different Relationship Than You

Send us Fan Mail Two people can be in the same relationship… and have completely different emotional experiences. One feels loved. The other feels lonely. One feels s

Why Being Chosen Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough

Send us Fan Mail Some people are in committed relationships… healthy relationships… loving relationships… …and still feel unsure. They were chosen. And yet the questi

Do You Even Like Your Spouse?

Send us Fan Mail Being together doesn’t automatically mean someone feels loved. Some people are in relationships with partners they don’t tend to… don’t prioritize… don