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So Your Parents Are Old

by Vanessa Grigoriadis

Journalist Vanessa Grigoriadis talks to friends, experts, and celebrities about the chaos of dealing with aging parents. From Medicaid nightmares to emotional meltdowns in storage units, it’s a brutally honest, often hilarious look at one of life’s most disorienting stages. Come for the catharsis, stay for the gallows humor and unfiltered conversations. If you’re currently the parent to your parents, this is your group chat in podcast form.

Latest episodes

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How To Avoid Scams with Patrick Coughlin

Cybersecurity expert and author of The Dark Side of the Boom Patrick Coughlin joins Vanessa to talk about the scams coming for our parents and their bank accounts. They g

Jun 23
33 min

Senior Living, and When Does Gen X Move In? With Neil Nagraj and Laura House

Senior care advisor Neil Nagraj and podcaster Laura House join Vanessa to talk about the impossible math of senior housing: when aging in place stops working, what assist

Jun 9
34 min

Revisit: No One Should Live This Long with Comedian Lewis Black

This is an episode where we get mad! Comedian ⁠Lewis Black⁠ cared for his late elderly parents, who lived to 101 and 104. He talks about something nobody wants to even th

Jun 2
40 min

Feeling At Peace with Your Life with Joan Lunden

Joan Lunden joins Vanessa to talk about her new memoir, JOAN: Life Beyond the Script, and the moments that forced her off-script: bringing her baby to work at Good Mornin

May 26
34 min

The Most Complicated Dad Ever with Jessie Buttafuoco, from The Gratitudeology Podcast

This week, we’re sharing an episode from The Gratitudeology Podcast with Jamie Hess, featuring Jessie Buttafuoco. Jessie opens up about the shocking event that changed he

May 19
59 min

Love, ALS, and Life After Survivor with Jonathan Penner

When Jonathan Penner’s wife Stacy Title was diagnosed with ALS, their life changed with shocking speed. He joins Vanessa to talk about caregiving, survival, and the hard-

May 12
36 min

Using Rankings to Your Advantage with Ben Harder and Liz Pearce

How do you choose a hospital or senior living community when everything feels impossibly high-stakes? Vanessa talks with two U.S. News & World Report journalists — Ben Ha

May 5
27 min

Parents During the Covid Era with Jill Bialosky

When a loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, the grieving starts years before the end. In The End Is the Beginning, Jill Bialosky tells her mother’s story in reverse.

Apr 28
25 min

How to Fix Everything with Julie Kashen

Elder care and childcare costs are rising fast, while wages and support for caregivers lag behind. Longtime care policy advocate Julie Kashen breaks down how we got here,

Apr 21
29 min

Starting a Business in the Care Space with Kim Elliott

Kim Elliott’s caregiving story includes a leukemia diagnosis, a stem cell transplant, and some truly deranged insurance battles. She talks with Vanessa about surviving al

Apr 14
32 min

Putting Your Parents on Videotape with Michelle Boyaner

Michelle Boyaner reflects on lives and relationships while sharing insights from her acclaimed film It’s Not a Burden: The Humor and Heartache of Raising Elderly Parents,

Apr 6
40 min

Selena Gomez’s Mommy Issues

In this episode of Infamous, Vanessa and her co-host Natalie Robehmed learn about a wild family drama from The Cut writer Angelina Chapin. It’s about Selena Gomez and her

Mar 31
40 min

Perimenopause and Brain Fog with Anna Holmes

Anna Holmes joins Vanessa to talk about the unnerving overlap between having a parent with dementia and experiencing perimenopause brain fog, and the terrifying question

Mar 24
27 min

A Presidential Legacy of Care with Josh Carter

Josh Carter, grandson of President Jimmy Carter, grew up in a family where caregiving wasn’t just a value — it was a way of life. He talks with Vanessa about caring for a

Mar 17
25 min

Curing Grief with Cody Delistraty

Writer Cody Delistraty joins Vanessa to talk about his book The Grief Cure, a quest narrative through loss, myth, medicine, and modern grief culture. From the controversi

Mar 10
35 min

How You (Yes, You) Can Live a Long, Healthy Life with Dr. Majid Fotuhi

What if cognitive decline isn’t inevitable? Dr. Majid Fotuhi, author of The Invincible Brain, explains why the brain is more changeable than we think, and how daily habit

Mar 2
33 min

Your Parents' Finances with Beth Pinsker

Vanessa talks with certified financial planner, MarketWatch columnist, and My Mother’s Money author Beth Pinsker about the maddening reality of financial caregiving. They

Feb 23
33 min

Soap Operas and Aging with Mal Young

Mal Young, the British television producer and writer best known for his work on The Young and the Restless, joins the show to talk about his parents. With warmth and can

Feb 16
45 min

Savannah Guthrie and Other Good Daughters with Allison Alford

If you’re the one keeping the family together—texts, holidays, appointments, feelings—you’re probably “daughtering.” Vanessa talks with Baylor professor and communication

Feb 9
32 min

You Deserve More with Ai-Jen Poo

Vanessa talks with labor leader and care advocate Ai-jen Poo about the panini generation, and what happens when government fails to invest in care infrastructure. To se

Feb 2
27 min

Chart trend

Position in the Relationships chart (US), last 90 days.

#1
all-time peak
7
days in the top 3 since Oct 2025

Chart positions

Where So Your Parents Are Old ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 20, 2026).

#154 ▼ 19 Relationships US

What listeners say

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I follow this podcast because It’s about me getting old and how to protect my kids from being sucked under by my aging process. I’ve listened to every episode and I get important info from 9.5 out of 10 shows.

Coolerairman · Feb 2026

Thank you for making this podcast. You have made a difference to those of us who have hungered for advice, community and the truth when dealing with sick, aging parents.

seansalt091378 · Nov 2025

Overall, a wonderful podcast that digs deep into the history of the Victoria’s Secret brand. The podcast focuses and explores how a brand that claimed to be a “paradise for women” instead became a main perpetrator of misogyny. Extremely interesting, and further educated me on the Wexner-Epstein relationship

Cinnomonandhoney · Aug 2022

I truly believe the whole world needs to hear this story. Very well written and spoken! This truth shakes me to my core. Woman should have never been suppressed to begin with… but why in 2022 do women still have to fight for what is morally the correct way to treat a human (whether opposite sex or same)

Megh1989 · Jun 2022

I don’t know if this issue gets better later in the podcast, but 2 episodes in and the audio quality is so bad it actually triggered a migraine. The narration is loud and hollow/tinny, any interviews or recordings are almost a whisper most of the time or have an empty room sound. I’m really bummed, I do find this an interesting topic.

Tanamwob · Dec 2021

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