I Wish You Knew

What God Wants From Men: How to Build True Masculinity | Met. Jonah & Adam Lane Smith

We have talked about masculinity and manhood on this show before. Today is the mature version of that conversation, going back to the oldest teachings we have. In this e

The Truth About ADHD VS Attachment Trauma in Relationships | Dr. Steven Storage & Adam Lane Smith

ADHD, attachment, trauma, anxiety, and stress can look surprisingly similar. So how do you know what you’re actually dealing with? Adam Lane Smith sits down with psychia

The Real Reason Your Husband Is Pulling Away | Laura Doyle & Adam Lane Smith

Trying harder to fix your marriage can leave you exhausted, resentful, and convinced you’re married to a man who doesn’t care. In this episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam La

How to Get Out of Your Head and Feel Like Yourself Again | Mark Walsh & Adam Lane Smith

Disembodiment rarely announces itself. It can look like fatigue, unexplained aches, trouble concentrating, or difficulty feeling close to the people around you. In this e

I Respond to My Most UNHINGED Podcast Comments | Adam Lane Smith Reacts

Adam Lane Smith celebrates three years of the I Wish You Knew podcast by reading your wildest comments, answering your most pressing questions, and sharing what he has le

What Couples Therapy Gets Wrong About Men | Jeff St. James & Adam Lane Smith

Most women use therapy as a metric for whether a man is ready for marriage. Most couples therapists are operating from a framework that was never designed with men in min

The Science of Why You Cannot Feel Loved | Dr. Sue Carter & Adam Lane Smith

You are genuinely loved. Your partner is loyal. And you still cannot breathe out and relax all the way. That is not a character flaw. It is a biochemical problem. And it

What Psychiatry Gets Wrong About Attachment and Mental Health | Dr. Aaron Kheriaty & Adam Lane Smith

Adam Lane Smith sits down with Dr. Aaron Kheriaty, psychiatrist, medical ethicist, and author of Making the Cut, to break down what modern psychiatry is getting catastrop

What It Takes to Win an Avoidant Man's Heart | Brandon & Dana Wade

He built one of the most controversial dating sites in the world. He told every woman upfront on day one that he did not believe in marriage. And then he met Dana. And ev

13 Habits That Build Emotional Resilience | Amy Morin and Adam Lane Smith

She lost her mother to a brain aneurysm. Then three years to the day, her 26 year old husband died of a heart attack. She was a therapist who had studied grief and still

What Divorce Does to a Man’s Psychology | Adam Lane Smith & Ralph Brewer

He did everything right. Stayed loyal. Showed up for his family. And one day in Florida he found out his wife had been having an affair. That was the moment everything he

Why 83% of Relationship Money Fights Are About Attachment | Rachel Cruze and Adam Lane Smith

Money is in the top three reasons for divorce in America. But most couples fighting about money are not actually fighting about money. They are fighting about safety, wor

Why Gen Z Women Are Lonelier Than Ever (& How To Fix It) | Freya India

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Why Women Fear Men and How To Fix It | January Donovan and Adam Lane Smith

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The Resentment Epidemic Your Wife Will Never Tell You About | Dr. Morgan Cutlip and Adam Lane Smith

She is exhausted, overwhelmed, and carrying a running list in her head that never stops. And he has no idea it exists. Not because he does not care. Because nobody ever s

Why Men Stop Trying to Make You Happy | Alison Armstrong & Adam Lane Smith

Most women have been trying to understand men the same way they understand other women. And it has never worked. Not because men are broken, but because nobody ever showe

How to Win at Marriage (The Way You Win at Work) | Patrick Lencioni

Your marriage is a team. Most people are running it like a dysfunctional one and have no idea why nothing is working. Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, sits do

What Nobody Teaches You About Making Friends as an Adult | Jordan Harbinger & Adam Lane Smith

Two thirds of millennials are experiencing depression symptoms from loneliness. Everyone is walking around wishing someone would talk to them. And nobody is starting. Not

The Real Reason Men Are Terrified of Fatherhood | Devin Schadt and Adam Lane Smith

Why would a man embrace marriage and fatherhood in 2026? Most men are not asking that question with curiosity. They are asking it with exhaustion. They have heard a thous

Why Nice Guys Finish Last | Marni Kinrys and Adam Lane Smith

Most men today are doing everything they have been told to do to attract a woman. They are being kind, accommodating, agreeable, and endlessly pleasing. And it is working