Seeing Other People

How to Turn Rejection, Heartbreak and Failure Into Your Superpower

What does it mean to stop being the “cool girl” and start putting yourself first? In this episode, Keltie Knight, three-time Emmy Award-winning TV personality, co-creator

Is “If He Wanted To, He Would” Actually Good Dating Advice?

This week on Cohosts for Life, we're putting each other on the spot with questions about dating advice, relationship rules, and the things we don't always see eye to eye

Your Younger Self Wants You to Hear This

What if the things you admire in other people are actually clues about the person you want to become? In this solo episode, I’m sharing a conversation that made me think

Have We Become the Couple We Used to Make Fun Of?

We've had a LOT going on lately! This week, we're recapping our perfect babymoon, maternity photo shoot, baby shopping adventures, and the nursery furniture disaster that

“I Was Diagnosed With Cancer Three Weeks After My Wedding”

A gentle heads-up: This episode touches on pregnancy loss and fertility struggles. We know these topics can be deeply personal and difficult, so please listen with care.

The Marriage Conversations We Probably Should've Had Off Mic

This week, we're letting a random question generator take the wheel, and let's just say things get a little personal. We're talking about whether alone time is essential

How to Stop Overthinking and Feel More Grounded in Dating

What if the way we experience dating and relationships has less to do with the other person and more to do with the state we’re in when we experience them? Dr. Sue Morter

Are We Posting Our Baby on Social Media?

This week on Cohosts for Life, we're getting into a conversation we've been having more and more as we get closer to becoming parents: will we be sharing our baby on soci

Do I Actually Like Them… Or Do I Just Like That They Like Me?

Have you ever been so focused on whether someone likes you that you forgot to ask yourself if you even like them? In this solo episode, I’m breaking down how easy it is t

How to Keep Dating Fun When You're in a Relationship

Cohosts for Life is officially moving to Tuesdays! This week, we're catching up on life lately, pregnancy struggles, nursery prep, and Ilana's trip to North Carolina befo

Stop “Shoulding” Yourself: How to Stop Comparing and Start Trusting Yourself

Are you constantly thinking you should be married by now, should be over your ex, should know how you feel after a few dates, or should be further along in your life Dr.

Are You Doing Too Much in Your Relationships?

Who keeps track of everything that needs to get done in your relationship? Ilana sits down with InvisiBILL – Anxiety Receipts founder Lisa Virginia Anderson to talk about

When You Know They’re Not Your Person But Can’t Let Go

Ilana and Jake are coming to you from a rainy weekend in the Hamptons with lots to catch up on: Ilana officially understands football, someone finally offered her a subwa

Rejection Doesn’t Mean You Weren’t Enough

Rejection can make you question everything about yourself. Was I too much? Not enough? Did I do something wrong? And why did they choose someone else instead of me? In th

Are You Dating for the Relationship You Actually Want?

Stefanos Sifandos, relationship coach, speaker, and author of Tuned In and Turned On, joins Seeing Other People to talk about what happens after you find the right person

Stop Wishing Away the Single Chapter of Your Life

This week, we’re talking daycare waitlists, baby registry decisions, why Ilana is becoming a baby product expert, and the realities of figuring out taxes when you’re self

When Your Parents Don’t Support Your Relationship Choices

An anonymous guest joins the podcast to talk about navigating a long-term relationship in a big city — from taking their first trip together just two months into dating,

Getting Unstuck: How to Rewrite the Story You Tell Yourself

Jane Garnett, former Hollywood producer turned psychotherapist and author of This Time With Feeling, joins the podcast to talk about how to get unstuck — from old emotion

How We’d Date If We Had to Start Over & Dating Your Ex’s Friend

Ilana and Jake catch up on baby prep, their first stroller arrival, Ilana’s newfound obsession with baby clothes, Jake’s thoughts on being married to a content creator, a

You Can Miss Someone and Still Know You Shouldn’t Be Together

Missing someone after a breakup can make you question everything. Did you make a mistake? Does still loving them mean you should try again? And if nobody else compares, d