Seeing Other People

Everyone Around Me Is Getting Married or Having Kids and I'm Still on The Apps

Harry is back for his fourth appearance on Seeing Other People, and this time he's on camera for the first time. He just turned 35, his younger brother got engaged, and t

The One Who Broke You Can't Heal You

Najwa Zebian, author of The One Who Broke You Can’t Heal You, joins the podcast for a conversation about heartbreak, healing, and what it really means to move on when som

Exes Coming Back, Bad Dating Patterns & “I’m Not Ready for a Relationship”

Jake spent the weekend hosting a fantasy football draft while Barkley lived his best boys day and paid for it later, and Ilana went to her first pregnancy brand event and

Different Timelines, Rejection Texts & The Most Unhinged Relationship Advice

What do you do when you and your partner have different ideal timelines 3 years into your relationship? How to be less anxious after a great date? I’m answering your ques

The Love of Your Life Would Want to Date You

Serena Kerrigan, founder of Let’s Fucking Date and author of Let’s Fcking Date*, joins the podcast for a long-overdue reunion — five years after she was one of the first

What Maternity Leave Looks Like When You’re Self-Employed

We’re back with a LOT to catch up on after another Jonas Brothers concert. We’re sharing what went down at MSG, why our entire section was rooting for us, and how we felt

Why Having a Timeline for Love Can Keep You From Finding It

Isabelle Surielow, PhD candidate, matchmaker, and relationship consultant, joins the podcast to unpack what it really means to find love — and why sometimes the search fo

The Part of Relationships Nobody Teaches You Until You’re Already in One

Mika Ross, therapist and relationship coach, joins the podcast to talk about the parts of relationships nobody teaches you until you’re already in one. We talk about what

Are the Jonas Brothers Doing Our Gender Reveal?!

It’s Ilana’s birthday weekend, the Jets are (almost) back, and somehow the Jonas Brothers might be helping us reveal our baby’s gender?! We’re talking about how our very

Why Healthy Dating Feels Like the World's Most Boring Roller Coaster

This week I'm answering seven listener questions, and somehow they all circle back to the same underlying thing: learning which feelings you can actually trust. I get int

What Happens When You Get Everything You Thought You Wanted and Still Feel Unfulfilled?

Kelly Ehlers, award-winning founder, writer, speaker, podcast host, and author of Nice Girls Win, joins the podcast to unpack the invisible rules so many women live by —

How Many Drinks on a First Date Is Too Many?

Ilana's recording sick, the Syracuse course is officially over and she's not ready to talk about how much she'll miss it, and she saw Hilary Duff sell out MSG and has a l

What Choosing Yourself Actually Looks Like

Amanda Katz joins the podcast to share the story of ending a long-term relationship after realizing her partner never fully grasped that she truly did not want children.

Why You Keep Dating the Same Person in Different Fonts

Jordanne Sculler, licensed mental health counselor and relationship therapist, joins the podcast to unpack why so many of us keep repeating the same dating patterns—even

Stop FaceTiming Someone You Haven't Even Met Yet

This week, a 4am pregnancy craving for a discontinued pasta dish spirals into one of the wildest nights of our lives, ending in a comped multi-course meal at Moriah, NYC'

Stop Asking Your Friends These Dating Questions (Ask Yourself These Instead) | Part 2

After the response to Part 1, we had to do a Part 2. In this solo episode, I'm diving into even more questions that can help you make better dating decisions before you t

Finding Love After Hitting Rock Bottom

Courtney Kocak joins the podcast to share the unbelievable story behind her memoir Girl Gone Wild and the many rock bottoms that ultimately changed her life. We talk abou

Am I Pregnant or Are We Pregnant? Jake and I Cannot Agree

Are we pregnant or am I pregnant? Jake says we. Ilana says she's the one with a baby in her belly. We also have to tell you about the TikTok that went viral, because Ilan

Cancelling My Wedding Was the Best Decision I Ever Made

Corinne joins the podcast to share the story of calling off her engagement just four months before her wedding after eight years with the person she thought she'd marry.

How to Stop Mistaking Anxiety for Chemistry

Dr. Darcy Sterling, licensed therapist, relationship expert, and host of We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling, joins the podcast to unpack why so many people confuse a