What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms artwork

Parenting · Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson

What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

by Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson

When you're a parent, every day brings a "fresh hell" to deal with. In other words, there's always something. Think of us as your funny mom friends who are here to remind you: you're not alone, and it won't always be this hard. We're Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables, both busy moms of three kids, but with completely different parenting styles. Margaret is a laid-back to the max; Amy never met a spreadsheet or an organizational system she didn't like. In each episode of "What Fresh Hell" we offer lots of laughs, but also practical advice, parenting strategies, and tips to empower you in your role as a mom. We explore self-help techniques, as well as ways to prioritize your own needs, combat stress, and despite the invisible workload we all deal with, find joy amidst the chaos of motherhood. If you've ever wondered "why is my kid..." then one of us has probably been there, and we're here to tell you what we've learned along the way. We unpack the behaviors and developmental stages of toddlers, tweens, and teenagers, providing insights into their actions and equipping you with effective parenting strategies. We offer our best parenting tips and skills we've learned. We debate the techniques and studies that are everywhere for parents these days, and get to the bottom of what works best to raise happy, healthy, fairly well-behaved kids, while fostering a positive parent-child relationship. If you're the default parent in your household, whether you're a busy mom juggling multiple pickups and dropoffs, or a first-time parent seeking guidance, this podcast is your trusted resource. Join our community of supportive mom friends laughing in the face of motherhood!   whatfreshhellpodcast.com

Latest episodes

Showing 20 · updated from the feed

Weaponized Incompetence—and Weaponized Passivity

#25 trending · Parenting

There are several sneaky ways for the people we work with, or live with, to get away with participating less in the work that needs to happen. "Weaponized incompetence" b

Oct 28
41 min

Deep Dive: Is It Sometimes Easier When Our Spouses Aren't Around?

This Deep Dive series revisits some of our previous episodes about dynamics with our parenting partners. There are lots of reasons why someone might find parenting easie

Oct 26
39 min

Fresh Take: Meg Stone on Campus Sexual Violence and Empowerment Self-Defense

This episode includes discussion of rape and sexual assault. As parents, we have been horrified by the reports of sexual violence on Cornell’s campus in 2024, and dismay

Oct 23
39 min

You Might Also Like: Zero Reject from Understood.org

Beth Gellman-Beer spent her whole career fighting for kids with disabilities — first as a student written off as “lazy,” then as a federal civil rights attorney who found

Oct 21
31 min

Conflict Resolution: How to Fight Fair and Repair Relationships

How do we handle conflict with those closest to us without damaging the relationship or going in circles? We discuss why some people avoid conflict while others escalate

Oct 21
46 min

Deep Dive: When Our Kids Have Different Relationships with Our Parenting Partners

This Deep Dive series revisits some of our previous episodes about dynamics with our parenting partners. Do you feel like the odd parent out in your house? Or do your ki

Oct 19
37 min

Fresh Take: Sam Kelly on Teaching Kids About the Mental Load

What if kids didn't need chore charts and constant supervision in order to participate in the lives of their households? What if the "mental load" was seen as a family-wi

Oct 16
31 min

Episode 1,000! How Doing This Podcast For a Decade Has Changed Our Parenting

What have 10 years of doing this podcast taught us about being better parents? In this, our 1,000th episode(!), we look back at the biggest parenting lessons we’ve learne

Oct 14
46 min

Deep Dive: We Caught Our Spouses Being Awesome

This Deep Dive series revisits some of our previous episodes about dynamics with our parenting partners. We asked the listeners in ⁠our Facebook group⁠ about all the tim

Oct 12
46 min

Ectopic Pregnancy and the Increasing Danger to Mothers' Reproductive Health

Trigger warning: On today's episode we will be discussing pregnancy loss, abortion, and maternal death. Please be advised if those topics are difficult for you. What hap

Oct 9
42 min

When Kids Hate Transitions

Why do some kids completely fall apart when it’s time to leave the playground, get ready for school, or switch activities? We dive into why transitions are particularly d

Oct 7
43 min

Deep Dive: Is This Battle Worth Fighting?

This Deep Dive series is all about reducing the friction between ourselves and our kids when trying to communicate with them, whether it's yelling less, finding real reas

Oct 5
42 min

Fresh Take: Dr. Siggie Cohen on Setting Boundaries Without Dismissing Kids' Feelings

We want our kids to feel validated and heard. We also don't want to engage in five-hour negotiations every time they have to do something they don't want to do. Where's t

Oct 2
43 min

Which Behaviors Should You Fix and Which Should You ignore?

Which kid behaviors need to be addressed in the moment—and which are better ignored? We discuss when to fix behavior and when to let it go, from whining and backtalk to t

Sep 30
44 min

Deep Dive: When One Family Member's Moods Are Running the House

This Deep Dive series is all about reducing the friction between ourselves and our kids when trying to communicate with them, whether it's yelling less, finding real reas

Sep 28
44 min

Fresh Take: Fran Hauser on How to Make Time for What Actually Matters

How much of your time is actually going toward what matters most to you? Career expert and author Fran Hauser joins us to talk about her new book, 20 MINUTES IS THE NEW H

Sep 25
35 min

Transitions

We want our kids to grow and stretch their wings, but that doesn't mean every milestone is easy for parents. We talk about the complicated emotions that come with parenti

Sep 23
47 min

DEEP DIVE: What Happened to My Sweet Child?

This Deep Dive series is all about reducing the friction between ourselves and our kids when trying to communicate with them, whether it's yelling less, finding real reas

Sep 21
42 min

Fresh Take: Dr. Thomas Phelan on What Parents Should Know About Misophonia

Why do ordinary sounds like chewing, slurping, or pen-tapping trigger intense averse reactions in some people? And what does a parent do when it's her own kid screaming a

Sep 18
36 min

Why Our Friendships Stall (and How to Fix It)

Why does it feel harder than ever to get together with our friends? Why does every "we should hang out soon!" in a group text feel destined to peter out before it actuall

Sep 16
42 min

Chart trend

Position in the Parenting chart (US), last 90 days.

#10
all-time peak
1
day in the top 10 since Nov 2024

Chart positions

Where What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Oct 30, 2026).

#148 ▼ 37 Kids & Family US
#50 ▼ 13 Parenting US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I’ve been listening for years and never felt the need to write a review, but when I heard the episode on How to talk to kids about Minneapolis, I had to thank you for taking a leap and writing about really hard stuff. Your guest gave some great practical tips. You two are gems and I love the balance of seriousness and levity in What Fresh Hell.

Bubsy1529 · Feb 2026

This podcast gives wonderful information to help with parenting but never in a judgmental way. I love that they understand neurodivergence and how that takes parenting to a whole different level, so their advice is always practical, not impossible.

MamaTigerLily · Feb 2026

I have been listening to Margaret and Amy for years now since my kids were toddlers and they are now tweens 😩. they are so funny and cover all sorts of interesting topics and I love the research they do and the comedy sketches that are usually towards the end of the episodes. Highly highly recommend— they really do feel like awesome friends that keep you company amidst the stresses (and humorous moments) of parenting.

Folding Smith · Jan 2026

What Fresh Hell in the podcast that I most look forward to listening to. No matter what stage of parenting I’m in, Amy and Margaret always talk about a topic that hits home and I learn so much!

mo_slp · Jan 2026

I have just listened to one episode so I can only speak to that. But I was honestly so triggered by it I am afraid to listen to anymore. I was super excited about listening after reading the episode descriptions, so many of them are perfectly pertinent for what I am going through raising a toddler right now. But quickly into the episode I decided to listen to first I was like “oh dear…I’m not sure these are my people”…I chose to listen to the episode on parental preference first, because I’m going through that right now with my almost 3 year old and my partner. It’s been going on for over one year where my daughter will only allow her daddy to do bedtime routine, to read her stories, to sit next to her, to comfort her, when she’s sad, to soothe her when she’s injured and basically anything else really you can think of that parents do. She will let me play with her sometimes, but I think that’s just because she’s an only child and has no other option. And it’s not just a comment like “no I don’t want you, I want daddy” it’s crying, sobbing, hyperventilating seeing red near panic attack whenever mom tries to attend any of these needs. I’ve done all the “right things” We stay consistent and still insist on mommy doing bedtime every other night even if it means I’m just sitting next to her bed while she cries herself to sleep for daddy. I don’t show how much it hurts me, even if my heart is breaking inside. I return to my bed and cry myself to sleep. Because I don’t get this time back. While the hosts say they have been through this, it’s obvious they either have not, or they are completely heartless because how could you say someone is “bonkers” for being so upset by this. The way she spoke about her friend who seemed to go through the same thing as me was so demeaning. The way the one host said she is “over caring if her kids like her or not”….that is not someone I would ever take parenting advice from. I did really like one of the hosts and how she presented a lot of research and studies, but the other host was just so heartless and offensive I couldn’t listen to any more.

MaryLoco · Nov 2024

We strive to present a balanced view by showing a diverse range of reviews from Apple Podcasts.

More podcasts like What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

Popular shows in Parenting, for your next listen.

Browse charts by category

Daily updated Apple Podcasts rankings for the United States.

About What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms on Reason.fm

Here you find the Apple Podcasts chart positions of What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms, its latest episodes to listen to directly, and reviews from listeners. Rankings are updated daily for the United States.

Contact

Questions or issues? Reach us at hello@reason.fm

0:000:00