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Self-Improvement · Tam Kaur

Self Obsessed

by Tam Kaur

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

Chart trend

Position in the Self-Improvement chart (US), last 90 days.

#16
all-time peak
67
days in the top 50 since Nov 2024

Latest episodes

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watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk]

going back to school or university can feel like the perfect opportunity to reinvent yourself, but real confidence starts with changing how you see yourself. in this vide

Aug 28
17 min

watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path

feeling like everyone else is moving forward while you’re falling behind in life? i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 10 reassuring facts and mindset shifts to he

Aug 21
13 min

MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months

if you've been waiting for a sign to reset your life, let this be it. the middle of the year is one of the most powerful times to pause and reflect because you still have

Aug 5
29 min

mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires

if you've ever felt invisible, believed you were "just shy," or convinced yourself that confidence was something other people were born with, this conversation is for you

Jul 24
23 min

why are women getting dumber on purpose?

if you've ever caught yourself saying "i'm just a girl," embracing girl math or girl dinner, or believing that helplessness is part of being feminine, this conversation i

Jul 17
15 min

why undeserving people always seem to succeed

if they could do it without the credentials, the only thing standing between you and that outcome is not capability, it is belief. if you've ever wondered why people with

Jul 9
12 min

why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did

this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it b

Jun 29
13 min

REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want

if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except

May 29
22 min

how to transform your life before summer (you have one month)

this is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, y

May 22
17 min

how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work)

this one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your in

May 12
21 min

how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life

you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why

May 8
21 min

why women who put themselves first win every time

for the woman who has always been the reliable one. the one who shows up, gives everything, and somehow still ends up last on her own list — without being able to explain

Apr 21
21 min

how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is)

feeling disconnected from yourself and tired of second-guessing everything you say, do, and want? in this video, i’m talking about how people-pleasing, fear of rejection,

Apr 16
18 min

the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl"

hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite pa

Mar 27
15 min

watch this when you want to give up

watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling

Mar 23
15 min

the ULTIMATE guide to fake friends | subtle signs to watch out for & friendship advice

hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your

Mar 14
21 min

8 harsh truths you need to hear to achieve REAL growth

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Feb 24
23 min

GIRL TALK: juicy dating dilemmas, relationship & self-love advice (VALENTINES EDITION)

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Feb 13
30 min

how to date once you realize you don't need a man

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Feb 6
27 min

how to be self-obsessed | become confident, magnetic, and emotionally unbothered in 2026

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Jan 31
30 min

Chart positions

Where Self Obsessed ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 4, 2026).

#140 ▼ 23 Education US
#88 ▼ 17 Self-Improvement US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

The one podcast I’ve listened to I think it was the topic about having a toxic family, it really resonated with me. It felt like you were sitting in my room actually having an one on one conversation with me. You’re like a long lost big sister I never had. That’s the advice I desperately needed and you gave me the answer. Thank you Tam 🫂🩷

Lolnay101 · May 2024

Tam honey listen… THANK YOU !! Congratulations on another manifestation coming to fruition. Your podcast and YouTube serve as such a safe space for me to be real with myself. The insight and knowledge shared has help me self become soooo self obsessed. I’m not afraid to get out my comfort zone and show up as my high self every single day. And the knowledge you share has assisted me with this. Season II can’t come soon enough… xoxo

Alluress · Jan 2024

This podcast is just the cherry on top of all her media. She’s so inspiring and her passion behind everything with her strive to be the best version possible is just beyond amazing. She makes you feel so good and powerful about everything. She’ll make you feel that you’re the most powerful person alive. I don’t usually listen to podcasts or YouTube videos on repeat but with Tams I will have them on repeat forever!

BaCruiz · Jan 2024

This podcast is my go to constantly for a good boost to my morning, afternoon, and night. I love listening to her, she is incredibly inspiring. Her YouTube channel is also amazing, but the podcast is just too good for on the go! I love love love her and I recommend this podcast to absolutely anyone!

Ari😍😘😘 · Dec 2023

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