Heart of Dating

He Waited 3.5 Years in the Friend Zone (And now they are MARRIED) | Tori & Chad Masters

Today we’re hearing from Tori and Chad Masters as they share their winding journey from the friend zone to marriage, unpacking the messiness, surrender, and friendship th

Should You Date a New Christian? Carlos & Alexa PenaVega Met 4 Days After He Got Saved

Today we’re hearing Carlos and Alexa share their journey of meeting at rock bottom, breaking all the dating rules, and building a faith-filled marriage through trials, tr

Battle of the Sexes with Jeanine and Kaleb Ward

Today we’re diving into a live “battle of the sexes” where Kait, JJ, Kaleb, and Jeanine get real (and hilarious) about who has it harder in dating, break down expectation

Is God Making You Wait for a Husband? Mia Fieldes & Joren on Crazy Faith, Timing, and the Email That Came That Night

Today we’re diving into Joren and Mia’s wild God story as they share how faith, hope, and discerning God’s voice shaped their journey to marriage. Plus honest truths abou

She Prayed for a Husband — Then Told Him No for 2 Years | Whitney & DeAngelo Moss

Today we’re diving into the story of Deangelo and Whitney Moss as they share their wild journey from Instagram DMs to “I do,” giving us a masterclass in patient pursuit,

The Love Story That Almost Didn't Happen ft. Madi & Grant Troutt

Today we’re diving into Grant and Madi’s whirlwind love story as they open up about anxiety, breakups, navigating public scrutiny, and the power of wise community in dati

From Drugs, Addiction, and Abuse to the Safest Love We've Known Ft Nika Diwa and Emeka

Today we’re diving into Nika and Emeka’s powerful love story—how they navigated healing from trauma, found faith-based connection online, and built a marriage rooted in g

How I Knew...

Today we’re kicking off Season 19 of Heart of Dating with JJ and Kate sharing never-before-answered questions about their meet-cute, cringey first impressions, and what i

Not Every Red Flag Is a Non-Negotiable (And Vice Versa)

Today, Heart of Dating coach Jayme Vainer breaks down the key differences between red flags, deal breakers, and non-negotiables in Christian dating, and shares how unders

COACHING EPISODE: Compassionate Attunement in the Pain Cycle

Today, Coach Michael walks us through how compassionate attunement can transform the way we show up in dating and singleness, offering practical steps and encouragement f

COACHING EPISODE: Coach Alana Gibson!

Today we’re diving into the basics of feminine energy with Alana Gibson as she unpacks what it really means, shares biblical foundations, and gives practical tips for emb

S18 E303: He's Amazing… But His Theology Is Different

Today we’re diving into the three tiers of theological differences in dating, as JJ and Kait Tomlin unpack how to navigate convictions, preferences, and deal breakers whe

S18 E302: Spiritual Leader IN Dating

Today we’re diving into spiritual leadership in dating as we unpack what it really looks like in relationships, the red flags to watch out for, and how servant leadership

S18 E301: Emotionally Intelligent vs Emotionally Healthy

Today we’re diving into the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional health, why this distinction is critical for dating, and how to spot the traits that r

S18 Ep300: How Do You Know When to Stop Trying With Someone?

Today we break down the main reasons we stay in unhealthy relationships, from dating for potential to the sunk cost fallacy, and give practical questions to help you know

S18 E299: But What If I'm Not Attracted?

Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stori

Heal the Part of You That Keeps Choosing the Wrong People

Explore emotional healing, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles that influence your dating choices. It’s time to reset what you’re attracted to and open your

S18 E298: Should Women Make the First Move?

Today we’re diving into the big question of whether women should initiate in Christian dating as JJ and Kait break down biblical perspectives, cultural shifts, and practi

S18 E297: Why Do Good Christian Men Feel So Rare?

Today’s episode dives deep into the realities of the Christian dating scene, unpacking why quality men may feel scarce, exploring shifts in church attendance, and offerin

S18 E296: Are Dating Apps Too Worldly For Christian Dating?

Today we’re diving into the gray zone of Christian dating, tackling whether dating apps are too worldly and breaking down the real pros and cons of online dating for thos