Heart of Dating

S18 E303: He's Amazing… But His Theology Is Different

Today we’re diving into the three tiers of theological differences in dating, as JJ and Kait Tomlin unpack how to navigate convictions, preferences, and deal breakers whe

S18 E302: Spiritual Leader IN Dating

Today we’re diving into spiritual leadership in dating as we unpack what it really looks like in relationships, the red flags to watch out for, and how servant leadership

S18 E301: Emotionally Intelligent vs Emotionally Healthy

Today we’re diving into the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional health, why this distinction is critical for dating, and how to spot the traits that r

S18 Ep300: How Do You Know When to Stop Trying With Someone?

Today we break down the main reasons we stay in unhealthy relationships, from dating for potential to the sunk cost fallacy, and give practical questions to help you know

S18 E299: But What If I'm Not Attracted?

Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stori

Heal the Part of You That Keeps Choosing the Wrong People

Explore emotional healing, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles that influence your dating choices. It’s time to reset what you’re attracted to and open your

S18 E298: Should Women Make the First Move?

Today we’re diving into the big question of whether women should initiate in Christian dating as JJ and Kait break down biblical perspectives, cultural shifts, and practi

S18 E297: Why Do Good Christian Men Feel So Rare?

Today’s episode dives deep into the realities of the Christian dating scene, unpacking why quality men may feel scarce, exploring shifts in church attendance, and offerin

S18 E296: Are Dating Apps Too Worldly For Christian Dating?

Today we’re diving into the gray zone of Christian dating, tackling whether dating apps are too worldly and breaking down the real pros and cons of online dating for thos

S18 Ep295: What Does It Actually Mean to Hear God About a Relationship?

Today we're unpacking whether that uneasy feeling is God's voice or just anxiety, and diving deep into how to discern real peace versus fear when it comes to relationship

S18 Ep294: Does God Tell You Who To Marry?

Today we're kicking off Season 18 by diving into the age-old question: does God really determine who you marry, and how do you navigate the pressure, theology, and decisi

Navigating the GRAY ZONE: It's Complicated...

This season we’re diving into the unspoken questions of Christian dating—think making the first move, hearing God’s voice, and navigating attraction—by tackling the conve

Ultimate Guide to Masculine and Feminine Energy in Christian Dating

Join the School of Dating Waitlist NOW! https://www.heartofdating.com/the-school-of-dating Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call toda

Trapped in Relationship Limbo? Here's What's Really Happening

This month for our bonus epsode in Patreon we're tackling the biggest question we've been asked lately. How long should you stay in something confusing? They're not sure

S17 Ep293: Bitterness, Comparison, and Scarcity: Navigating Singleness and Disappointment with Bianca Juarez

Today we’re diving in with Bianca Juarez, who gets real about heartbreak, disappointment, and the power of holding onto hope. Plus, she shares her journey of restoration

S17 Ep 292: Breaking the Cycle of Body Shame and Finding Confidence in Dating with Jordan Lee Dooley

Today we’re joined by Jordan Lee Dooley, who vulnerably shares her journey with body image, body shame, and embracing health as an act of worship, plus practical encourag

S17 Ep291: Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People with Stefanie and Caleb Rouse

Today we’re unpacking the signs of emotional unavailability with relationship coaches Caleb and Stefanie Rouse as they share their personal stories, expert insights, and

S17 Ep290: Overcoming People Pleasing and Codependency in Dating and Relationships with Debra Fileta

Today we’re breaking cycles with Deb Fileta as she dives deep into people pleasing, unpacking its roots, how it affects dating and relationships, and sharing practical st

Christian Bachelor and Q&A

Join us today to listen in to a bonus episode in Patreon. A couple weeks ago we had a Christian bachelor event with two different bachelors. We finish up with a Q&A! Ne

S17 Ep289: Limerence vs Infatuation: How to Recognize and Heal Unhealthy Romantic Fixation

Today, Kait and JJ dive deep into the world of limerence, breaking down what it really is, how it differs from infatuation and a crush, and offering practical wisdom for