Fridays with Tab and Chance

In Sickness & In Health — Did He Really Show Up?

A follower asked us something that stopped me in my tracks: how did watching my mama get failed by her partner during her illness shape what I needed from Chance? We got

Does Death Erase the Trauma They Left Behind?

This episode, Chance and I are getting into something a lot of people don't talk about — what happens when someone who caused you real trauma, or was absent from your lif

We Have Strong Feelings about the Raising Kanan Season Finale

⚠️ Spoiler alert — we mean it. This week me and Chance did something we've never done before: a full TV show recap. And it got heated. We broke down the Raising Kanan sea

Red Flag or Green Flag? We're Judging Your Dating Decisions | Fridays with Tab and Chance

We played a game this week and it did NOT disappoint. Me and Chance went through a full red flag, green flag relationship quiz — and let's just say we don't always agree.

We're Tired — An Honest Conversation About Black Life and Nolan Wells

This one is heavy — and it's supposed to be. Me and Chance sat down to talk about the weight of being Black in America. The weight of raising Black children. The weight o

Vacation vs. Field Trip — Are Do We Have different expectations?

Me and Chance got into something that sounds simple but went deep fast — what's the difference between a vacation and a field trip, and are couples even going on the same

Natural Born Leaders: Knowing When to Lead and When to Follow

This episode started as one thing and turned into something so much deeper. Me and Chance got into what it really means to be a leader — not the performance of it, but th

Who Are You When You're Not Needed?

This one got deep fast. Me and Chance are talking about who you are when all the titles are stripped away — no mother, no father, no provider, no caretaker. Just you. We

Should Married Couples Sleep in Separate Bedrooms?

Me and Chance are getting into something I never really understood until now — couples sleeping in separate bedrooms. My grandparents did it, a lot of your grandparents d

New Rules after 23 years: Relationship Report Cards & Holiday Planning

Me and Chance are out here trying to create new relationship traditions — and accidentally exposing ourselves in the process. We heard about a couple who does a yearly re

Father's Day vs Mother's Day: Why Father's Day Doesn't Get the Same Love

Me and Chance got into something I didn't expect — why Father's Day never seems to get the same energy as Mother's Day, and whether we're the ones contributing to that. T

Disabilities, Vows & Loving Through the Hard Stuff | Fridays with Tab & Chance

The video we were inspired by: https://fb.watch/HHWIomEVd9/?mibextid=wwXIfr&fs=e  This one got real. Me and Chance are talking about something nobody wants to bring up b

What does support and belief in your partner look like in a relationship? Fridays w/ Tab & Chance

"Does Your Partner Believe in You?" | Fridays with Tab & Chance Me and Chance are getting into the difference between believing in someone and actually supporting them —

An emotional conversation about our son growing up and facing the world

Next year, my youngest walks into high school — and I'm not ready. This week, Chance and I open up about raising our son, the lessons basketball taught him, and the fears

Freedom Is Beautiful: Breaking Down Double Standards in Love & Attraction

This week, Chance and I got into it — and I mean really got into it. We’re talking double standards when it comes to beauty, attraction, and how men and women are held to

23rd Anniversary Edition and Mental Health Awareness

About the hosts Tabitha Brown is the world's favorite mom and auntie! She is an 2x Emmy award winning show host, actress, a 4-time New York Times Best Selling author and

Independence in your relationship - The problems with codependency

On today's episode we talk about the issues we faced being codependent early on in our relationship and what we think you should do as you start new relationships - roman

Protecting your peace, changing for the better, and setting new boundaries

On todays episode we talk about screening calls. Do you always pick up the phone? Has your call list grown as you have grown? Are you setting boundaries and protecting yo

We were not supposed to talk about this... but is this a problem every couple has?

In this episode we got off topic! We were supposed to talk about screening calls and boundaries, but recent events made us switch it up. We think this may be an issue eve

We are celebrating 2 special anniversaries this year

About the hosts Tabitha Brown is the world's favorite mom and auntie! She is an 2x Emmy award winning show host, actress, a 4-time New York Times Best Selling author and