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I Don’t Feel Emotionally Safe With My Husband #HMAY Ep. 302

She thought sex would be the EASY part of marriage.Then she got married.Almost a year into her marriage, a listener writes in because intimacy hasn't become what she imag

We're Back + She Doesn't Want to Marry Him #HMAY Ep. 301

We're back.After taking our first real break in a long time, we're finally back for Season 301 of How Married Are You?This season brings some big changes for our family.

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When Good Things Compete With Your Marriage #HMAY Ep.299

Not every conflict in marriage is about who's right.Sometimes it's about two people trying their best... while carrying different priorities.In this episode of How Marrie

My Wife Doesn't Want to Talk About Her Feelings... Now What? #HMAY Ep. 298

How do you keep fighting for a marriage when it feels like you're the only one trying?In this episode, we talk about emotional neglect, vulnerability, communication, and

I've Done Everything Right... So Why Am I Still Stuck? #HMAY Ep. 297

"My faith says trust God. My reality says I'm exhausted."A listener approaching her 29th birthday writes in with a question that many believers quietly wrestle with:What

Couple asks us if they should keep their baby #HMAY Ep. 296

A listener writes in with an urgent dilemma.After years of financial hardship, layoffs, relocation, and navigating life as a stay-at-home mom, she discovers she's unexpec

Cheating on your pregnant wife is Crazy! HMAY Ep.295

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Email Lead to My Husbands Confession #HMAY Ep. 294

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Should We Stay Connected to Family That Hurts Us? #HMAY Ep. 293

This week on How Married Are You?!, we respond to a follow-up email from a wife trying to rebuild connection in her marriage while navigating exhaustion, cultural expecta

Waiting on God Is Harder Than We Thought #HMAY Ep. 292

We dive into a powerful listener message from a wife and mother walking through a difficult season in marriage, financial pressure, and the challenge of waiting on God wh

This is a hard one #HMAY Ep. 291

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Our Kids Are Running Us… And We Had to Address It #HMAY Ep.290

What started as a simple morning turned into a full-blown meltdown, a parenting debate, and a real conversation about how we show up for each other.Resources & LinksEmber

He Feels Right… But He Won’t Choose Me #HMAY Ep.286

After leaving a 7-year toxic relationship, she did the work to heal, grow, and become more secure in herself. Then she met a man who seemed like everything she prayed for

Christian Women Give Terrible Marriage Advice #HMAY Ep.289

A wife writes in feeling overwhelmed, unsupported, and unsure if her marriage is even worth saving anymore. Two kids. Financial pressure. Emotional exhaustion. And a husb

You WILL Project Your Past Onto Your Partner. #HMAY Ep. 288

How do you keep your past from ruining your present?In this episode,,we respond to a newlywed wrestling with a real question: How do you not project what you saw growing

He Told The Church About Our Threesome #HMAY Ep. 287

How many chances is too many?In this conversation, we unpack what real repentance actually looks like, how to tell the difference between healing and just covering things

TOO ATTACHED TO HIS GRANDMOTHER #HMAY Ep. 285

She said, “This is the best relationship I’ve ever had…”No drama. No toxicity. Just peace.But his family depends on him for everything.Now she’s wondering…Am I building a

He Said He Wasn’t Ready… Then She Blocked Him (Now He Wants Her Back) #HMAY Ep. 284

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Love vs Conviction: Should She Give Up Drinking for Marriage? #HMAY Ep. 283

In this video, we respond to a real question from a woman whose boyfriend, a church leader, told her he couldn't marry someone who drinks alcohol, even occasionally.Shoul