Unplugged and Turned On

Our First Taste of Desire

Send us Fan Mail You can do everything “right” at a lifestyle resort and still get surprised by what’s real once you arrive. We’re sharing our honest Desire Riviera Maya

Q&A with Neo & Trinity

Send us Fan Mail A deck of lifestyle  cards turns into a surprisingly revealing mirror. We sit down with no prep, no scripts, and a clear goal: talk about sex the way re

Are You Actually Paying Attention? Attunement in the Lifestyle.

Send us Fan Mail Sex can be fully consensual and still feel wildly disconnected when someone stops reading the room. Neo and Trinity unpack “attunement” as the practical

Naughty Newbies - Part 2

Send us Fan Mail New Orleans already feels like a city where you can breathe a little deeper, but add a massive lifestyle event and suddenly you have a real test of boun

Naughty Newbies - Part 1

Send us Fan Mail The fastest way to ruin a fantasy weekend is trying to do everything. We’re Neo and Trinity, recording Episode 10 from Naughty in New Orleans 2026, and

Bliss Cruise Firsts and Single Guy Adventures

Send us Fan Mail A lifestyle cruise sounds like nonstop heat, but our first Bliss Cruise proves something more interesting: the sexiest trips are built on comfort, timin

A Gatsby Party and Discussing Intentions

Send us Fan Mail Ringing in the New Year usually means a countdown, a drink, and calling it a night. Ours looked a lot different this year: a Gatsby themed lifestyle hou

Who Really Runs the Profile?

Send us Fan Mail Who is really running the profile on lifestyle dating sites, and why does it so often look like the guy is the one driving the messages? We dig into a R

San Antonio Hotel Takeover & Lingerie

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Neo & Trinity recount their first hotel takeover with Libertine Events in San Antonio, TX. They also discuss their first play experienc

Seattle, Club Sapphire, and Boundaries

Send us Fan Mail And we’re back for episode 5! In this episode, we talk about our first club visit to Club Sapphire in conjunction with a hotel takeover (lite) with the

Scarlet Ranch, Education, and More

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Unplugged and Turned On, Neo & Trinity share their first experience at Scarlet Ranch in Colorado, information on getting educated in

Beyond the Start

Send us Fan Mail And we’re back for Episode 3, where we talk a little bit about making friends in the lifestyle and our first experience with making some of the best fri

Getting Started

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Unplugged and Turned On, Neo & Trinity share some of their initial experience with dating and a house party. Buckle up! Email us at

The Intro Episode

Send us Fan Mail The inaugural episode Unplugged and Turned On podcast where we (Neo & Trinity) introduce ourselves to listeners and share our story. Email us at podcas