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Relationships · Michelle Panning

Unf*ck Your Relationships

by Michelle Panning

Welcome to Unf*ck Your Relationships Podcast! I'm your host Michelle Panning - intimacy alchemist AKA your love, sex, and relationship bestie, trigger queen, and founder of my signature program The Connected Woman. I get it, you're done being left on read, getting ghosted and being caught up in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men. Let's be real - you have NEEDS. You deserve it all, you deserve to feel worthy and confident. You deserve a fulfilling love life. For years I was going through the same experiences with men over and over again that left me feeling confused, anxious, and pissed off. I silenced myself in dating and relationships because I was terrified of being judged, rejected, and abandoned. I just wanted a meaningful relationship and thought I was doing all the right things. But none of it was working. I knew I couldn't continue to repeat the same cycle with different men. Something had to change. I decided in that moment that I was going to finally work on healing my own wounds and work on myself, so that I could experience a beautiful and fulfilling relationship. I decided to put myself first. And now, with this podcast, I want to share with you the exact internal work strategies that I did to get to a place of confidence, peace, and worthiness. You can kiss ALL of your worries and limiting beliefs around love goodbye. Are you ready? Grab your favorite glass of wine and let's get to work, because it is time to reclaim your self worth babe. For more information about the podcast, or other ways you can work with me, visit: www.michellepanning.com I would love to connect with you more on social media! You can find me at: IG: @michellepanning Website: michellepanning.com

Latest episodes

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The End of an Era... (and a little life update)

WORK WITH MICHELLE FOR THE LAST AND FINAL TIME INSIDE THE CONNECTED WOMAN: Join THE CONNECTED WOMAN for the LAST AND FINAL LIVE round. A course for the woman who wants t

May 31
10 min

Episode 246: I Ignored My Own Advice… and It Landed Me in Hospital

WORK WITH MICHELLE: Join THE CONNECTED WOMAN, a course for the woman who wants to go from anxious & self-abandoning in relationships to secure, confident and unf*ckwitha

Apr 13
58 min

Episode 245: You're Not In Love With Him. You're In Love With His Potential.

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m unpacking why so many women fall in love with potential instead of the person actually in front of them. You didn’t fall

Apr 9
25 min

Episode 244: You're Not Stuck. You're Loyal To The Wrong Version Of Yourself.

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m talking about the identity you have to grieve before you can actually have the relationship you say you want. So many se

Mar 30
20 min

Episode 243: Why You're Still Single When You've Done All The Work

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I explain the difference between high standards and high walls and why so many self-aware women end up confusing the two. Yo

Mar 24
21 min

Episode 242: The Cost of Being The Girl Who Has It All Together - An Interview With Bia Zutis

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m joined by one of my clients, Bia Zutis to talk about the perfectionism-to-self-worth journey so many high-functioning wo

Mar 16
51 min

Episode 241: Why You Can’t Let Go (Even When It’s Hurting You)

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m unpacking trauma bonds, why smart, self-aware women stay in relationships that are hurting them, and why leaving can fee

Mar 9
15 min

Episode 240: Healthy vs Unhealthy Needs in a Relationship

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m breaking down the difference between healthy needs and unhealthy needs in love. Most couples aren’t fighting about the d

Mar 2
31 min

Episode 239: 11 Ways Low Self-Esteem Ruins Relationships

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I’m breaking down 11 ways low self-esteem quietly sabotages intimacy. It doesn’t just look like insecurity, it hides behind

Feb 23
18 min

Episode 238: 9 Ways Anxious Attachment Is Sabotaging Your Relationship (And You’re Letting It)

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships I’m breaking down nine ways anxious attachment quietly sabotages intimacy, even when you’re self-aware, emotionally intellige

Feb 16
29 min

Episode 237: How to Grow From a Girl to a WOMAN

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships I break down the pattern I see in so many smart, capable women who look like they have their life together on the outside, bu

Feb 9
16 min

Episode 236: The Beginner’s Guide to Shadow Work

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, I break down what shadow work actually is, why so many self-aware women still feel stuck after years of healing, and how hid

Feb 2
17 min

Episode 235: How to Heal an Abandonment Wound

In this episode of Unfck Your* Relationships*, I break down what an abandonment wound actually is, why most women aren’t truly healing it, and how it keeps running the sh

Jan 26
14 min

Episode 234: What Actually Happens When an Avoidant Realises They’ve Lost You

In this episode of Unfck Your Relationships, I break down what actually happens when an avoidant realises they’ve lost you and why this moment is so often misunderstood a

Jan 19
14 min

Episode 233: 11 Habits That INSTANTLY Make You Hotter (that have nothing to do with looks)

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationship, I break down why attraction has very little to do with how you look and everything to do with how you move, respond, and rela

Jan 12
28 min

Episode 232: If You Want 2026 to Be Different, Listen to This

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationship, I break down the 26 lessons that quietly reshaped how I live, love, work, and stay devoted to myself. This isn’t about moti

Jan 5
48 min

Episode 231: Before You Enter 2026, You Need to Let This Version of You Go

In this final episode of 2025 Unf*ck Your Relationships, I dive into why you can’t rush into goals, manifestations, or a “new version” of yourself without first allowing

Dec 29 2025
23 min

EP 230: You Haven’t Lost Your Spark

EP 230: You Haven’t Lost Your Spark If you’ve been moving through life on autopilot, feeling flat, numb, or disconnected from yourself this episode is for you. Not beca

Dec 22 2025
29 min

EP 229: How to Make 2026 Your MOST Successful Year Yet

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Relationships, we’re building the blueprint for your most grounded, self-led, and successful year ever. Not because the calendar magically

Dec 15 2025
29 min

EP 228: How to Enter Your DARK FEMININE ERA

In this episode of Unfck Your Relationships*, we’re stepping into the most misunderstood and most misused part of feminine energy: the dark feminine. Not the TikTok versi

Dec 8 2025
30 min

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#189 NEW Relationships US

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I would not have thought I would get so much ON POINT information from a much younger woman whose life was very different from mine & yet DAMN! On point. As if she was watching my life like the Truman Show. When things have gone south I can always find an episode that addresses what’s going on and why and how to manage my actions to improve my life. I send this podcast to everyone except my mother bc she’d be judgy. Language warning but if that’s a problem, don’t listen.

Pd Mutti · Mar 2026

I listen to this podcast often for the last two months and every time I listen I feel empowered and have a new sense of strength and lessons learned to help me grow. Keep up the great work!

AP Warrior Lady · Mar 2025

I have shared this podcast with ALL of my friends. I found this podcast a month or two ago, I haven’t made it through all of the episodes but WOW. Michelle has changed my perspective on life & who I am as a person. I was seeking help to create a better mindset for myself. I was in a very toxic relationship & because of Michelle & her podcast I found the courage to finally choose myself. This is for EVERYONE. She gives advice to increase your self confidence for any relationship you have. A friendship, significant other, or maybe you’re dating & looking for advice. It doesn’t matter this podcast WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE. I’ll forever be thankful for Michelle & the way she has impacted my life❤️

ssuummc · Jan 2025

I started listening to this podcast this month 12/2024 and have gone back to past episodes. I’m in that phase in my life to find self love self care and these episodes definitely help me, see what’s important to me, my value and has def helped w this current situation ship I was in. I give 5 star because I relate a lot to podcaster and she is real and authentic. Do the work and know you’re not alone

Thaibodian · Dec 2024

The content is great but it felt like over 50 percent of the episode was just her trying to sell me a program. I obviously understand you have to promote your product but when there’s as much selling going on as content it gets really annoying.

Julia Wonder · Jun 2025

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