Turned On With Sue And John

How To Actually Get Someone Into Bed

Hey it's Sue and John - your guides today on how to better your odds of ending up in bed with someone you are attracted to! A 40 minute conversation that covers that spa

Behind the Dungeon Door: The Life of a Professional Dominatrix

Today we bring you inside a BDSM dungeon! It's an enormous space, in a very small community, in small town New Brunswick Canada! We'll introduce you to Mistress Aaliyah

The Gigolo

Today... Meet a gigolo! Sue speaks to an Australian man who makes a living catering to the sexual needs and desires of women. It's a very usual occupation, and we'll exp

The Sex Questions Everyone Is Really Asking

Welcome to the 200th episode of Turned On With Sue And John! Our friendship began when we both worked at the same radio station in 1992. John was a music DJ and Sue host

Why Are We Turned On By Weird Things?

It's show #199! This week - Weird kinks. Or what we something believe are weird, until we meet others who share it. We'll explore the museum of unusual turn ons... From

The Biggest Lies We've Been Told About Sex Over 40

This week we're going straight at the biggest lie we've all been told: that sex after 40 is a slow fade to nothing. It's not. It's a total rewrite — and most people never

Swingathon, Naughty N'Awlins And What's New In Swinging

Sue is back from Swingathon UK with a first hand account of this growing swinger festival, plus details of Naughty N'Awlins which was also a HUGE success! And, we dive i

Why Receiving Pleasure Is Harder Than Giving It

Sue McGarvie has been talking sex on the radio, in seminars, and in print since the early 90s! And now on this podcast - Turned On With Sue And John - the sex education y

What Is The Best Kind Of Sex?

What is the best kind of sex? This week on Turned On With Sue and John we’ll help you answer that, including a list of the 10 best kinds, according to therapists around

How Many Sex Partners Is Too Many?

1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had? Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboa

The Sex Advice That’s Secretly Making Your Sex Life Worse - And What Actually Works

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a le

Lust

Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly? Today's conversation

It's The End For Sexy Men

The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want. We'l

Oral Sex

Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!
We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex!  As a workin

Has Swinging Become Too Mainstream?

Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swi

What Makes You Feel Desired?

What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired...

Weird Things Humans Are Doing To Their Junk

Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about. For a variety of re

Why Sex Is Weird

It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex. On this episode we get into WHY we're

Why You’re Missing the Best Part of Sex

Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing. You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect b

Sex That Feels Like A Drug

It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem. S