The Whore's Bedroom

37. I'm single and I'm gay

I guess this is my coming out episode? I've got a lot to update you guys on.

36. Experiencing a Male Escort for the first time with Rhys Phillips

I met Rhys Phillips in London to dive into his work: being a male escort who services women and couples. Our jobs are technically the same, but there are so many interest

35. How to Become an Escort 101

You have been asking me - how do I become an escort? What tips do you have for beginners in the industry? I'm finally answering that, and giving my advice for anyone who

34. Two years of being a whore has made me change my mind on some things...

It's been a while since I sat down alone to share my opinions - and those opinions have changed. I'm taking back what I said in some of my previous episodes, and sharing

33. Disabled men need escorts - with Sonia von Sacher

Disabled men are rarely able to get their sexual needs filled. That's where Sonia comes in - she not only offers specific services as an escort to accommodate disabled cl

32. How the FIFA world cup will harm sex workers in Vancouver and beyond with SWAN Vancouver

As one of the host cities for the FIFA world cup, Vancouver is already prepping for the alleged sex trafficking that comes with the event. But there's a catch - there is

31. The (actual) sex work situation in Germany - with Anne Bonny

Germany has been called "the brothel of Europe" due to it's thriving sex trade and relatively lax laws. But are those laws really all that lax? Anne Bonny, an activist an

30. Racism in sex work with Mistress Vera

Mistress Vera Von F is no stranger to racism in the sex industry, and she joined me in London to discuss both her own experiences as well as pervasive racism throughout t

29. Lenina Crowne on why she loves plastic surgery and how she became good at sex

Lenina Crowne, a high class companion in London, joined me while I visited her city to discuss social media visibility as a sex worker, how plastic surgery has affected h

28. Whorebaiting, the female gaze, and working through a recession with Edie Montana

What is whorebaiting? Why do people pretend to be sex workers when they're not? Edie and I discussed this, along with the "female gaze" in sex work, working through reces

27. What it takes to run a queer indie porn company with Mahx Capacity of Aorta Films

Mahx Capacity joined me to discuss being a porn doula, keeping an indie queer porn company financially afloat, consent on porn sets, creators as a non-renewable resource,

26. Queer Porn Icon Jiz Lee on sex trends, falling in love on set, and queer porn archives

Trailblazer of queer porn Jiz Lee joined me on the pod to discuss their favorite sex trends, burnout in art vs porn, how the porn landscape has change for creators, fears

25. Dungeon owner Miss May on why she loves being so mean to her subs

Professional mean girl Miss May joined me in London for a chat about her passion for pissing on people, the dream BDSM furniture she wants to add to her dungeon, dealing

24. Belonging on Social Media with Dr. Carolina Are

Dr. Carolina Are joined me to discuss her research on social media censorship, sex work in academia, how AI impacts influencers, shadowbanning, and of course, Taylor Swif

23. Eva Oh on women in power, the lust of greed, and keeping men in her personal prison

Eva Oh joined me in London for a titillating conversation on her life as a dominatrix, hesitance in dating, the meaning she finds in mentoring, and what's wrong with men.

I'm Back!

A quick little update to let you know where I've been, and tell you about upcoming episodes!

22. Your burning questions

What was my favorite booking? What do I think about Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue? What are my go-to icebreakers with clients? I'm answering these questions and many more

21. One year of being a whore - lessons and reflections

It's officially been one year since I started escorting full time! Today I'm diving into all the lessons I've learned, and my personal reflections on this year for me.

20. The truth about dating

A bit of a different topic today, but one I'm incredibly passionate about - my opinions on dating men, as a straight cis woman. This is purely about dating in personal li

19. Living in Berlin - my experiences

I've been living in Berlin for almost a decade (!) and often get asked online what it's like to live here - so here's a deep dive! I talk about the pros and cons from my