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NAUGHTY GYM SHOW - Building Stronger Non-Monogamous Relationships

by April and Scott

Naughty Gym Show is a podcast about non-monogamy, open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and the skills of building strong relationships beyond traditional monogamy. Hosted by Scott and April Shirley, the show explores how couples and individuals can create honest, ethical, and emotionally strong non-monogamous relationships. Each episode dives into the real work of modern love, communication, jealousy, autonomy, intimacy, trust, and personal growth. At the center of the show is a simple but radical idea: relational freedom. The belief that love grows strongest when it is chosen freely, supported by honesty, autonomy, and mutual respect rather than control or fear. These conversations draw from the broader framework behind Wild Love Theory, a modern philosophy of relationships built around authenticity, autonomy, and expansive connection. If you’re curious about ethical non-monogamy (ENM), exploring open relationships, navigating polyamory, or simply trying to build a more honest and resilient partnership, this show offers the conversations and skills most people were never taught. At Naughty Gym, relationships are treated like something you train for. We talk about the philosophy, psychology, and practical skills required to build relationships that are strong enough to hold freedom, truth, desire, and real intimacy. Expect deep conversations, practical insights, and honest stories about love, sex, commitment, and the future of relationships. Welcome to the gym.

Chart trend

Position in the Sexuality chart (US), last 90 days.

#43
all-time peak
1
day in the top 50 since Nov 2024

Latest episodes

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Barcelona Recap & Our Two-Year Transparency Misunderstanding

We’re back from Europe, and somehow we came home with more than great food, unforgettable stories, and a ridiculous amount of sweat. In this episode, we recap our eight

Sep 1
1 h 02 min

Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: Invisible Contracts & Unspoken Expectations

What happens when you really click with another person or couple, maybe even have great sex, and then find yourself hurt or jealous when they connect with someone else?

Aug 11
52 min

Menopause Unfiltered: Pelvic Health, Better Sex & the Power of Women’s Community

Perimenopause and menopause can affect far more than your cycle—they can reshape your sleep, strength, confidence, sexuality, and relationships. In this candid episode, A

Jul 28
1 h 01 min

We’re Getting Divorced… to Celebrate Our Love? Our Biggest Announcement Yet

After six years, Naughty Gym is becoming Aya Society. In this episode, we share why we’re making the biggest change our business has ever seen, what the new name means,

Jul 14
56 min

Naughty Gym Invades X-Club: Inside A Lifestyle Weekend In Toronto

We just got home from hosting our first Naughty Gym weekend at X Club, and we are telling the whole story. In this episode, Scott, April, and Andy recap four days at one

Jun 30
1 h 07 min

Dealing With Fears & Insecurities in Non-Monogamy

Fear, jealousy, and insecurity are some of the most common struggles couples face in the lifestyle, swinging, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy. But what shoul

Jun 9
53 min

The Bad Prophet: You’re Probably Not as Good at Reading People as You Think

How good are you really at reading people? Most of us like to believe we are above average at detecting lies, sensing energy, reading body language, picking up on vibes,

May 21
1 h 06 min

The Opportunity: Investing In A Lifestyle Resort & The Power Of Why In Non-Monogamy

Yes, we’re part of a new lifestyle resort project in Florida, and in this episode we bring on Jimmy Thorpe to talk about the vision, the opportunity, and what could becom

May 5
45 min

Wild Love Retreat - What Really Happens When You Live This?

In this episode, April, Scott, and therapist Catherine from Expansive Connection unpack the raw, surprising, and powerful reality of the very first Wild Love Theory retre

Apr 28
58 min

April On The Non-Monogamy Hot Seat: Questions To Argue About

In this episode of the Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott pull back the curtain on one of the biggest shifts in their relationship so far: removing boundaries, testing fre

Apr 14
1 h 02 min

Rewriting Our Relationship Rules: Rethinking Boundaries Together

In this raw and deeply personal episode of The Naughty Gym Show, April and Scott pull back the curtain on one of the hardest parts of open relationships and relational fr

Mar 31
1 h 18 min

Starting Non-Monogamy - A Real Couple's Experience

Before we jump into today’s conversation, we share a major announcement: after months of quiet work behind the scenes, we reveal that we’ve been involved with a group tha

Mar 17
54 min

Angry Feminist Era Activated: Unlearning Purity Culture & Defensive Masculinity

This week on The Naughty Gym Show, April takes the wheel for a real-time life update that starts with a chaotic wine-night incident (yes—April fell down 13 of 15 stairs i

Mar 3
53 min

The Spectrum of Compersion: From Neutrality to Joy, Without Toxic Positivity, w/Dr. Marie Thouin

What if the goal is not to erase jealousy, but to stop letting it drive the car? Dr. Marie Thouin joins April and Scott to define compersion in clear, grounded terms, and

Feb 17
57 min

Reframing Jealousy: Why The Word "Reclaiming" Gives Us The Ick

Jealousy isn’t always about fear of losing your partner. Sometimes it’s about losing yourself. In this episode, April and Scott share a real, recent story from their open

Feb 3
56 min

Two Keynotes LIVE From Hedonism Resort: Luna Matatas & Ashley Manta

In this live event recording, sex educator Luna Matatas breaks down why kink can feel so electrifying by exploring the psychology of power, risk, and taboo and how “eroti

Jan 28
52 min

BBBB 2026 Recap At Hedonism Resort: Doctor Strange, Gum Hair, & A Coma In The Hot Tub!

April and Scott recap Be Better at Being Bad 2026 at Hedonism—day by day—covering the themes, the workshops, the connection circles, and the parties that made this year’s

Jan 21
59 min

LIVE From Hedonism (2/2): THE FREEDOM MANDATE - Scott's Keynote BBBB 2026

This week’s second special episode is Scott’s opening keynote from Be Better At Being Bad 2026 at Hedonism II Resort: The Freedom Mandate: The Ethical Case for Relational

Jan 15
30 min

LIVE from Hedonism (1/2): What Do You Want? How Desire Becomes Your Revolution - April's Keynote BBBB 2026

In this opening keynote from Naughty Gym's Be Better At Being Bad Takeover at Hedonism Resort, Coach April invites you into a deeply honest exploration of desire, identit

Jan 14
38 min

She Chose Herself: April's First Date And The Night Autonomy Became Real

2025 was a LOT… and we’re ending the year with one of the biggest growth moments in our relationship. In this episode of The Naughty Gym Show, we tell the full story of

Dec 30 2025
55 min

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