The Better Bator Podcast

The Research Says: Your Mates Are Wanking More Than You Think

I dove deep on this research. It was interesting to start to get a grip on why so many guys don't admit to masturbating as much as they do, and why this is one of the fac

The Bator Identity

No, not the Matt Damon porn parody! As the podcast changed its identity, yet again, I thought about the Bator Identity in general. Here's my thoughts on it's importance a

How I Got A Group Birthday Bate Going

So yesterday was my birthday. It was also International Masturbation Day, a part of Masturbation Month every May. So I tried to organise something special to celebrate. H

Masturbation Month: A History

It’s the middle of May and we all know it’s masturbation month. If you don’t, now you do. Here's a deep dive into the history of a month we all enjoy celebrating. Thanks

The Bator Podcast Is Back!

After a hiatus I'm excited to bring back the bator podcast. Now with a new title and a new outlook! Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been wri

I Didn't Wank For A Week ... I didn't miss it

A discussion of my batorhood, my recent thinking around it, and what's happening next. Mentioned in this episode: Patreon Shout Out August and September Just wanted t

Interview with David Ledain

David Ledain is a UK-based author, writing non-fiction for gay males, based on his experiences and research. The first in his Hot Little Gay Book series focuses on mastur

Wynward H Oliver, Author of HomoWork

Interviews are back on the slate for 2024 and my first subject is Wynward H Oliver author of HomoWork. I found Wynward and his book through his Twitter/X account and the

Make Advice Work For You

Another Bate Coach episode from Liam, talking more about how to take advice. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place t

Bator Advice - Take It With A Grain Of Salt

My first solo advice episode for 2024 features advice about advice. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early

What's Coming In 2024 for Proud Bators?

Another step up in 2024 for Liam Williams and the Proud Bators project. Hear all about it in the first episode of the year. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator pod

2023 Bate Stats

So I kept my bate stats for 2023, as I have done for the last couple of years. Here's the summary (stat nerd alert!). I'm putting together a group of bators who are kee

What Is Edging?

Edging is a pretty common term in the bator community. We’ve talked about it on plenty of podcast episodes, but I’ll take a bit of a deeper dive into it in this episode.

Talking With Your Mates

A topic that comes up a lot when I chat to bators, particularly those newer to accepting their batehood is the idea of being able to talk with your mates about it, outsid

The Master Bator Convention

Liam chats with Jared, the Proud Bator behind the Master Bator Convention being hosted in Pittsburgh this August. It's shaping up to be a great event.  There's still ple

S4 E8 - Masturbation Month: Some History

It's Masturbation Month again! So here's a little background on our annual bator celebration. bator coaching survey social club Mentioned in this episode: Naughty For

S4 E6 - A Better Bator Community

Here's the next Proud Bators Podcast episode. A bit of a chat about building a better bator community. Let me know what you think. bator coaching survey Mentioned i

S4 - E4 - More Isn't Always Better

This might not be a popular opinion where bating is concerned but I'm out here saying that being a better bator doesn't have to just mean jerking it more. I'd love to he

S4, E2 - Liam asks, "What Kind of Bator Are You?"

This episode is a new format for 2023. Liam's getting back to the solo episodes. Once a month he'll be talking you through a particular topic, often related to a part of

Bator Profile Interview #4 - 'LondonBateBro'

The next interview in the Bator Profile series is LondonBateBro - that's his BateWorld profile if you want to hit him up. He's new to the bator lifestyle and it was a gr