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You Will Please Me

by Dominatrix Eva Oh

Since 2011, Eva Oh has toyed with power for a living. 'You Will Please Me' is what she has learned as a Dominatrix, at the edges of human experience. Each episode is: one idea, one story from the dungeon, and the framework to use it. This is a podcast about power — and sex is where it shows up most honestly.

Latest episodes

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You Will Please Me (Short Introductory Episode)

Before the dungeon, there was Afghanistan. The Circus. Meditation. The UN. A search for something true. This is how I found it and why I'm bringing you in. Watch on YouT

Oct 13
8 min

The Final Episode of #teakink

After two years, over a hundred episodes, and a million listens - this is the final episode of the #teakink podcast. What began as a voice on a sofa became something much

Sep 9 2025
3 min

Latex in the Tropics: Mistress Wei on Singapore’s Kink Scene

Mistress Wei joins Eva Oh to talk latex in the tropics, sex parties in Singapore, and building a thriving kink career in one of Southeast Asia’s most discreet yet dynamic

Sep 2 2025
34 min

So, You Want to Date a Dominant Woman?

Dating a dominant woman isn’t about begging to be used - it’s about learning how to meet power with presence. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh unpacks the

Aug 27 2025
11 min

Flashback: Sex Work is Damn Hard Work

How I became a Dominatrix, what the job really involves, and the layered challenges we face: stigma, emotional labor, financial exclusion, and more. It’s the behind-the-s

Aug 19 2025
32 min

Sex Work and Stigma in Singapore: A Conversation with Project X

Vanessa Ho, director of Project X Singapore, joins Eva Oh to unpack the legal, medical, and social realities for sex workers in Singapore. They discuss everything from na

Aug 12 2025
35 min

Will Charmer: From Christian Cult to Australia’s Top Male Escort

From tradie to TikTok to top escort—Will Charmer joins Eva Oh to talk about his path into sex work, the emotional and spiritual layers of male escorting, and how being te

Aug 5 2025
46 min

What Kink Can Do?

Kink isn't just about getting off—though that's valid too. In this episode, I trace how kink first pulled me in and why it continues to matter. We explore kink as a pathw

Jul 29 2025
9 min

What Changes, What Doesn’t: Audrey Fatale on Femdom Through the Years

Dominatrix Audrey Fatale invites Eva Oh into her playspace for a conversation spanning 15 years of professional domination. They cover burnout, returning with purpose, an

Jul 22 2025
52 min

Mistress Tahlia: Power, "Pegging", and the House That Made Us

Before Eva Oh entered the scene, Mistress Tahlia was already a seasoned presence at Salon Kitty’s. Eva reconnects with her Senior Mistress to swap stories of hazing ritua

Jul 15 2025
56 min

Sex Work VS Marriage

Is marriage the pinnacle of success—or just more unpaid labor dressed up in paperwork? In this final Sex Work VS miniseries episode, I get personal about my own marriages

Jul 8 2025
15 min

Sex Work VS Relationships: Reciprocation or Remuneration

What’s the difference between being paid for your emotional labor and giving it away for free? In this episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work resha

Jul 1 2025
30 min

Sex Work VS Dating

Dating apps. New relationship energy. Getting paid for your time. In this first episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work reshaped my expectations of

Jun 24 2025
20 min

New Miniseries: Sex Work VS Dating, Relationships and Marriage

Welcome to a new miniseries exploring what sex work has taught me about dating, relationships, and marriage. I'm calling it Sex Work VS... Can you guess which is in the l

Jun 17 2025
2 min

Flashback: Would a Sex Worker Date You?

People often ask Eva Oh how her partners “handle” her job — but maybe the better question is: Would a sex worker date you? In this flashback episode of #teakink, Eva expl

Jun 10 2025
24 min

Kyron Kruger: Behind the Latex

In this episode of #teakink, Eva sits down with Kyron Kruger — performer, provocateur, and latex-drenched shapeshifter — to talk evolution, ambition, and the kink of it a

Jun 3 2025
33 min

Megan Prescott - From Child Actor to Sex Work Advocate, Shame, and Liberation

Megan Prescott joins Eva Oh on #teakink to discuss the complexities of growing up in the public eye, navigating OnlyFans, and confronting internalized shame. She shares h

May 27 2025
51 min

Aranja - Kink, Death, and Psychedelics Coaching

Eva Oh welcomes Aranja—kink, power, and psychedelics coach, trauma therapist, and death doula—to #teakink for a deep dive into the intersections of kink, psychedelics, an

May 20 2025
54 min

Becoming an AI Companion: Part III - Up in Flames?

In the third episode of this mini-series, Eva Oh shares how her journey into becoming an AI companion took a dramatic turn—going up in flames, quite literally. She dives

May 13 2025
9 min

Flashback - AI Companion Part II with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher

Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives.

May 6 2025
1 h 04 min

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#48
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#48 ▲ 13 Personal Journals US

What listeners say

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I’m really enjoying this podcast. Eva has an array of stories to share that all tap into the depth of humanity. I love that her insightful views are so optimistic and positive. She’s absolutely lovely. It was surprising at first to listen and hear her nervousness and shyness?, is that the correct word? She laughs very often over certain things, which is endearing. It’s wonderfully brave for Ava to share these vulnerable memories and outlooks. Looking forward to evolving along side this podcast. 💖

nick1234name5678required0 · Oct 2023

Exquisite and exhilarating to listen too. Love getting the inside and outs with out having to go and do the insides and outs per say 🤣! Always been curious about this line of work and I am grateful to listen and learn from such a Beautiful and conscientious soul. Thank you for lifting an bit of the veil. Also your voice is so fun to listen to…very sultry!

Sumnshine · Oct 2023

Eva Oh is an amazing host. With her years of experience, intelligence and eloquence she has delivered a 5 star podcast. She has a knack for engaging storytelling, keeps the conversation flowing, and asks thought-provoking questions. It's like having a fascinating conversation with a knowledgeable friend. I appreciate that #tea kink with Eva Oh consistently releases new episodes. It's a reliable source of inspiration, entertainment, and education in my weekly routine. Looking forward to the next one.

skidkm · Sep 2023

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