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No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez

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Let’s be honest: marriage isn’t one-size-fits-all. It takes trust, resilience, reinvention, and serious effort, especially under public scrutiny. Fame doesn’t protect a relationship; it pressures it. Love alone isn’t enough. In No Safe Words, October “Tobie” Gonzalez and Tony Gonzalez, partners of 20 years, pull back the curtain on what it really takes. Part memoir, part comedy, part relationship revolution, the showfeatures raw, unfiltered conversations with high-profile couples about love, conflict, and growth in the modern world. It’s not a highlight reel. It’s the real stuff, messy and honest, so you feel a little less alone.

Latest episodes

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Marriage, Heartbreak and Grief with Kelsey Chittick

This week, we’re joined by our longtime friend Kelsey Chittick. We talk about how we first met — and who Tony was before Tobie came into the picture — before Kelsey opens

Oct 6
52 min

Couples Therapy, Parenting Hurdles, and ChatGPT Advice with The Peete’s

Holly Robinson Peete and Rodney Peete join Tobie and Tony this week to talk about how they’ve kept their marriage strong through all of life’s obstacles; and how therapy

Sep 29
59 min

Do We Expect Too Much From Our Partners, Death of a Pastor’s Wife, and Boarding School Drop-Off

Tony and Tobie are back together and kicking things off with a question that hits close to home: Do we expect too much from our partners? They dive into studies that chal

Sep 22
50 min

Blind Dates, Vacation Hanky-Panky, and Withstanding the Real Housewives Curse with Terry and Heather Dubrow

We’re joined by our friends Terry and Heather Dubrow, who open up about how they met on a blind date and Heather’s initial reluctance to settle down. They get candid abou

Sep 15
1 h 12 min

Empty Nesting, Scheduling Sex & Fighting Fair with Chris and Vanessa Spencer

Chris and Vanessa Spencer are in the house! They take us back to where it all started; a comedy club, Kevin Hart playing matchmaker, and a connection that turned into mor

Sep 8
52 min

Our Meet Cute, Dolly Parton’s Relationship Legacy and the Rules of Marriage | No Safe Words with October and Tony Gonzalez!

Let’s get into it! Tony and Tobie kick things off by letting you into their world; from their similarities and differences to the story of how they first met at Dennis

Sep 1
50 min

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Aug 25
1 min

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#75
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6
days in the top 100 since Sep 2026

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#132 ▲ 6 Relationships US

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