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Middle Men

by Brendan O'Hara

Middle Men is a podcast for men who don't fit neatly into society's straight or gay boxes. Maybe you live a publicly straight life, but privately you're not entirely straight. Maybe you're bi or only into guys, but don't fit neatly into the spaces designed for you. Maybe you don't have a label and don't want one. Middle Men was built for you — the guy in the middle. No labels required. No judgment. Just other guys who get it. I'm the host, Brendan O'Hara — I grew up straight, came out as gay, then landed in the middle. There was no podcast or community for guys like us, so I built it.

Chart trend

Position in the Relationships chart (US), last 90 days.

#105
all-time peak
23
days in the top 200 since Jul 2026

Latest episodes

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"My Wife Knew I Was Bisexual—But I Still Hid in Plain Sight" - Seth Duffy

Seth Duffy’s wife knew he was bisexual before they got married. But for years, Seth still felt like he had to bury part of himself — living publicly straight, privately q

Sep 9
1 h 29 min

Why Dating Apps Don’t Always Fix Loneliness | What We’re Really Searching For

Dating apps can give us more access to other people than ever before — so why do so many men still feel lonely Research on men who use dating and hookup apps suggests th

Aug 26
17 min

Why I never Felt Gay Enough — And What I Did About It

You can come out as gay and still feel like you don’t belong in the gay community. I know because I lived openly as a gay man for about 15 years—and still never felt ful

Aug 5
14 min

You Don't Have to Pick a Side | Sexuality Is a Spectrum

You've been told your whole life that you have to pick a side. Straight or gay. One or the other. You don't. Not anymore. Sexuality runs on a spectrum, and it can evolv

Jul 28
9 min

I Think I Might Be Bi. Now What? | What Nobody Tells You

If you've ever typed "am I bi" into a search bar at 1am and then deleted your search history afterward, this one's for you. You're not the only one. Not even close. In

Jul 21
7 min

I Lived Straight, Then Gay. Then I Landed in the Middle.

I lived a straight life. Then I lived a gay life. Both were real. Then I kept going and landed somewhere in the middle, and that feels right. But it's not without its cha

Jul 14
13 min

Middle Men: Season 1 Trailer

Middle Men is a podcast and community for men who don't fit neatly into society's straight or gay boxes. Maybe your life appears straight on the outside but isn't so str

Jul 5
1 min

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#198 NEW Relationships US

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