Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast

What Turns You On — And Why Your Partner Has No Idea

Most couples have been together for years and their partner still doesn't know exactly what turns them on. Not because they don't care. Because nobody ever gave either of

The Intimacy Playlist — Music, Mood, and What's Actually Playing in Our Bedroom

What's actually playing in the bedroom? Today Scott and Brittney answer that completely. In Episode 44, they share the full evolution of their intimacy music journey: fr

Dirty Talk 101 — Why It Works, What to Say, and How to Start Without Feeling Ridiculous

Most couples want to try dirty talk. Most couples never do because they don't know where to start and they're terrified of feeling ridiculous. In Episode 43, Scott and B

The Intimacy Reset — A 7-Day Plan for Couples Who Feel Stuck

Scott and Brittney are in a rut. Work, kids, life — all of it has been filling the space where intimacy used to live. And they're naming it publicly because they know the

The Couples Dare Game — 10 Dares to Do This Week

This week we're giving you homework. The good kind. In Episode 41, Scott and Brittney introduce the Couples Dare Game — ten dares designed to be completed over the cours

8 Things That Accidentally Kill the Mood And How to Recover Like a Pro

Real life doesn't pause for intimacy. The phone goes off. The wrong song comes on. Someone says something accidentally hilarious. The body decides right now is the moment

Our 12 Favorite Things — The Products We Actually Use and Why We Love Them

Looking for the best sex toys for couples? Wondering what intimacy products are actually worth buying and which ones collect dust in a drawer? In this episode, Scott and

Lube: The Beginner's Guide to the Most Underrated Tool in Your Intimacy Toolkit

It's in a lot of couples' nightstands. Almost nobody talks about it honestly. Today we fix that. In Episode 38, Scott and Brittney break down everything couples need to

Why Most People Are Bad in Bed And Don't Know It

Most people rate themselves as above average in bed. Statistically, that's impossible. And the gap between how people assess their own performance and what their partner

The 90-Day Relationship State of the Union — A Check-In Every Couple Should Be Doing

Most couples have annual physicals, quarterly financial reviews, and performance check-ins at work. Their relationship — the most important thing in their lives — gets ev

Hot Takes — Our Most Unpopular Opinions About Sex and Relationships

No frameworks. No research drops. No homework. Just opinions — and our most unpopular ones. In Episode 35, Scott and Brittney bring five genuine hot takes about sex and

The Three Dimensions of Sex — Which One Are You Actually Craving?

When couples say they want better sex, they're usually wanting three completely different things — and most of the time they don't realize they're in different conversati

Attachment Styles — And What They're Doing to Your Sex Life

Why do you feel anxious after really good sex? Why does your partner pull away right when things get close? Why does a dry spell feel like evidence that the relationship

Your Enneagram Type in Bed — What Each Number Actually Needs

You know your Enneagram number. But do you know what it's been quietly telling you about what you need in bed? Following the success of last week's Love Languages episod

The 5 Love Languages — But Make It Spicy

You know your love language. But do you know what it looks like in bed? In Episode 31, Scott and Brittney take Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages — one of the most widel

Would You Rather — The Couples Intimacy Edition

No research drops. No homework. Just a game — and a surprisingly revealing one. In Episode 30, Scott and Brittney play Would You Rather: Couples Intimacy Edition. Fiftee

The Female Orgasm — What Most Men Still Don't Understand

The orgasm gap is one of the most documented — and least honestly discussed — realities in sexual research. In heterosexual sex, men orgasm 95% of the time. Women? 65%. A

The Intimacy Bucket List — 10 Sexual Experiences Every Couple Should Try

We made our actual Intimacy Bucket List. Then we told you which ones we've done. In Episode 28, Scott and Brittney get personal with 10 sexual experiences every couple s

10 Intimacy Myths We Believed (And Had to Unlearn)

Where did you learn about sex and intimacy? Movies? Church? A locker room? A well-meaning friend who was just as clueless as you? Most of us absorbed our earliest belief

Anal Sex for Beginners — What Nobody Tells You But Everyone Wants to Know

One of the most searched, least honestly discussed topics in couples' intimacy — and we're going there. In this episode, Scott and Brittney tackle anal sex for beginners