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We Love A Mess

by @bravobetch

Welcome to We Love A Mess by @bravobetchThe unfiltered Bravo group chat where we share everything we can’t always post on Instagram.We’re Kate and Lex, the duo behind @bravobetch on Instagram & TikTok, best friends of 20 years and Bravo fans since day one.We’ve been trying to start a podcast for five years and clearly like to take our sweet ass time, but we’re finally here.Expect silly takes, fun recaps, and all the Bravo gossip we can’t stop talking about.If you love Bravo as much as we do, you’re in the right place.Welcome to the mess! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Latest episodes

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Bravo Gossip, RHUGT & RHOC!

Bravo gossip, Bravo news, The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, and The Real Housewives of Orange County are ALL on the agenda this episode! We’re chatting about the c

Sep 16
42 min

RHUGT & RHOC!

Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip & Real Housewives of Orange County is what we're yappin about this episode. We’re talking about all our favorite moments, sharing our

Sep 11
33 min

Bravo Gossip, Next Gen NYC & RHONY!

Bravo Gossip, Next Gen NYC & The Real Housewives of New York City are all on the agenda this episode! We’re catching up on the latest Bravo news (spoiler alert: there’s n

Sep 11
50 min

Bravo Gossip, RHOC, RHUGT & Next Gen NYC!

Bravo Gossip, The Real Housewives of Orange County, Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, and Next Gen NYC are all on the agenda this episode! We’re catching up on the lat

Sep 4
52 min

RHOA Reunion Chat! - THE CORRECT EPISODE

The Real Housewives of Atlanta Reunion chat is finally here! We’re breaking down all the reunion drama, our favorite moments, and everything we need to talk about from th

Aug 31
37 min

Bravo Gossip, RHUGT & Next Gen NYC!

Bravo Gossip, Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, and Next Gen NYC are all on the agenda this episode! We’re catching up on the latest Bravo news, soaking up all the nos

Aug 28
45 min

Bravo Gossip, The Valley & Next Gen NYC!

Bravo Gossip, The Valley, and Next Gen NYC are all on the agenda this week after a little hiatus! We’re catching up on the latest Bravo news, breaking down all three part

Aug 21
1 h 06 min

Bravo Gossip, RHOC & RHOA!

Bravo Gossip, Real Housewives of Orange County, and Real Housewives of Atlanta are all on the agenda this week! We’re breaking down the latest Bravo news, discussing why

Aug 4
46 min

Bravo Gossip, Next Gen NYC, The Valley & In The City - Surviving Not Thriving

Bravo Gossip, Next Gen NYC, The Valley, and In the City are all on the agenda this week! After a couple of weeks off, we’re back to catch up on all the Bravo mess we miss

Jul 31
1 h 15 min

Peter Pocket Looking F*ck

Next Gen NYC, The Valley, and In the City are all on the agenda this episode! We’re breaking down the biggest moments and sharing our thoughts on everything that had us t

Jul 12
1 h 07 min

At Home Pelvic Exams

Bravo News, Love Island USA, and RHOC are all on the agenda this episode! We kick things off with the latest Bravo headlines before chatting a little about Love Island US

Jul 10
51 min

Piggybacking on that!

Annnnnd we’re back after a very brief hiatus! Episode 21 is finally here. ️   As always, we kick things off with the latest Bravo gossip and news before diving into our

Jun 30
1 h 10 min

F*CK A DUCK?!

Episode 20 is here! ️ As always, we kick things off with the latest Bravo gossip and news before diving into our RHORI and RHOA recaps. We also chatted a little about Lov

Jun 19
52 min

EMERGENCY EPISODE: SUMMER HOUSE THE AFTERMATH

Episode 19 is here ️ and it’s an EMERGENCY EPISODE! We watched Summer House: The Aftermath and immediately started recording after. We hope you enjoy listening to us yap

Jun 17
34 min

Ya Neva Know! RHORI & RHOA chat

Episode 18 is here! ️ As always, we kick things off with the latest Bravo gossip and news before diving into our RHORI and RHOA recaps.   Side note: No In The City, Sou

Jun 12
39 min

EMERGENCY EPISODE: SUMMER HOUSE REUNION PART 3

Episode 17 is here ️ and it’s an EMERGENCY EPISODE! We watched Part 3 of the Summer House reunion together and immediately started recording after. We hope you enjoy list

Jun 10
32 min

Lovable Airhead

Episode 16 is here ️ As always, we kick things off with the latest Bravo gossip and news before diving into In The City, The Valley, and Southern Hospitality.   Thank y

Jun 5
59 min

DESOCK! A little RHORI & RHOA yap

Episode 15 is here ️ As always, we kick things off with the latest Bravo gossip and news before diving into RHORI & RHOA recaps.   Quick disclaimer: Sorry for Katie's f

Jun 4
44 min

EMERGENCY EPISODE: SUMMER HOUSE REUNION PART 2

Episode 14 is here ️ and it’s an EMERGENCY EPISODE! We watched Part 2 of the Summer House reunion together and immediately started recording after. We hope you enjoy list

Jun 3
33 min

That Was Really Harsh Tai (Kyle)

Episode 13 is here ️ and whew… it’s a long one!   As always, we kick things off with the latest Bravo gossip and news before diving into recaps of this week’s episodes.

May 30
1 h 19 min

Chart trend

Position in the After Shows chart (US), last 90 days.

#24
all-time peak
7
days in the top 50 since Apr 2026

Chart positions

Where We Love A Mess ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Sep 18, 2026).

#187 NEW After Shows US

What listeners say

A curated, balanced selection of Apple Podcasts reviews.

I absolutely love the content, and their voices are great for podcasting. The sound needs a little bit of work - I have to turn it all the way up to hear them and then it is very jarring and almost painful whenever they laugh because it’s so aggressively loud compared to how quiet their speaking voices are. Again, overall the podcast is so refreshing and enjoyable to listen to!!! Update:sounds has improved so so much- y’all are doing great! I feel bad for even criticizing but so appreciate the improvement!!! (You don’t need a man for anything PSA!)

K45666787l · Jun 2026

Just like calling your friend to discuss the latest episode but if you and your friend were really funny. Love the real takes, “West is just Kyle 2.0” and their down to earth conversation. 5 stars!

jillchicago · Apr 2026

I’m obsessed with this podcast. Kate and Lex have such a natural chemistry- you can tell they’ve been best friends forever. Their voices are so easy to listen to, and they genuinely make me laugh out loud. It feels like you’re in a group chat with your funniest friends. Between this and their Instagram, they’ve become my go-to for all things Bravo. Highly recommend if you love good recaps and even better banter.

Yvette 👑 · Apr 2026

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