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Trust Me: Cults, Extreme Belief, and Manipulation

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Trust Me is a weekly interview podcast about cults, extreme belief, and the fine line between devotion and delusion—told through firsthand accounts from the people who lived it. Hosted by two women who’ve been in cults themselves, Lola Blanc and Meagan Elizabeth, the show features survivors from groups like Heaven’s Gate, the Manson Family, NXIVM, OneTaste and more–sharing personal stories of how they got in, how they got out, and everything in between. Each week, they invite these guests alongside experts who can dive deep into seductive leaders, the darker aspects of organized religion, and the subtler shades of groupthink and the psychology of influence. Trust Me explores it all with unfiltered honesty, dark humor, and a lot of heart. This isn’t a sensationalized deep dive into cults—it’s a compassionate, first-person exploration of what it means to believe, to belong, and to break free. At the end of the day, wanting to believe in something bigger than yourself is one of the most human instincts there is.

Latest episodes

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Larena & Elyse Wynn - Montana Mormons, Sex at BYU, and the “Miracle" of Forgiveness

This week is part 1 with musicians, identical twins, and former Mormons turned dominatrixes Larena and Elyse Wynn, also known by their band name Mothermary. The girls sha

Sep 9
50 min

John Hunter - Manufacturing Mania in Self-Help Seminars

This week’s guest is psychology researcher and lecturer Dr. John Hunter, joining the show to talk about intensive self-help seminars–known as “large group awareness train

Sep 2
1 h 10 min

Laci Mosley – Scams vs. Cults, and the Many Forms of Fraud

This week, the girls are joined by Laci Mosley, comedian, actress, and host of the Scam Goddess podcast and TV show (and author of Scam Goddess the book), to talk about t

Aug 26
1 h 14 min

Michele McPhee – The Polygamist, the Criminal, and Their Multibillion-Dollar Scam

This week, Meagan and Lola sit down with Michelle McPhee, investigative reporter and host of podcast Kingdom of Fraud, to discuss how Jacob Kingston, a fundamentalist Mor

Aug 19
1 h 05 min

Anke Richter, Part 2 - Harem Culture, Leaving ISTA, and DeCult

This week is part 2 with Anke Richter, journalist, author of Cult Trip, former member of Tantric group ISTA, and founder and director of New Zealand’s cult conference DeC

Aug 12
43 min

Anke Richter, Part 1 - Ecstatic Dancing, Tantric Sex, and Joining ISTA

Today is part 1 with Anke Richter, journalist, author of Cult Trip, former member of Tantric group International School of Temple Arts, and founder and director of New Ze

Aug 5
59 min

Sophie Fergi, Part 2 - Living with Piper, Constant Control, and Being Shunned by the Squad

This week is part two with Sophie Fergi, former child influencer featured in the Netflix docuseries Bad Influence: The Dark Side of Kidfluencing. In this episode, she sha

Jul 29
1 h 00 min

Sophie Fergi, Part 1 - Kidfluencing, Joining the Squad, and the Dark Side of YouTube

This week is part one with Sophie Fergi, former child influencer who told her story in the Netflix docuseries Bad Influence: The Dark Side of Kidfluencing. In this episod

Jul 22
43 min

Jasper Hoffman, Part 2 - Undercover Therapy, Leaving the Mennonites, and the Aftermath

This week, the girls are back with Jasper Hoffman, writer, podcaster, and former Mennonite. In part two today, Jasper explains what the perfect Mennonite woman looked lik

Jul 15
50 min

Jasper Hoffman, Part 1 - From Atheists to Mennonites

This week, the girls are joined by Jasper Hoffman, writer, podcaster, and former Mennonite. In part one, she explains how her parents went from a being punk rock atheist

Jul 8
52 min

Dr. Christine Marie - Undercover in a Cult Town: Taking Down False Prophet Sam Bateman

This week, Lola’s mom Dr. Christine Marie (and the podcast’s very first guest!) comes back on the show to talk about moving to FLDS town Short Creek, how she and Lola’s s

Jul 1
1 h 21 min

Nikki G, Part 2 - The Seven Mountain Mandate, “Church Hurt,” and Why Cults Aren’t Just a White People Problem

In part two with Nikki G., she discusses more of the high-control groups she joined, the political project of the Seven Mountain Mandate that she was part of, the connect

Jun 24
1 h 01 min

Nikki G, Part 1 - Down the Rabbit Hole, Cult Hopping, and Surviving the Black Church

This week, Nikki G., host of Surviving the Black Church and survivor of FIVE different high-control groups, discusses joining the first church on her cult-hopping journey

Jun 17
49 min

Maria Bamford - 12 Step Programs, OCD, and How to Join Every Group

This week, Lola and Meagan are joined by comic, actor, and author of Sure I’ll Join Your Cult, Maria Bamford. The girls discuss Maria’s childhood OCD, intrusive thoughts,

Jun 10
1 h 29 min

Sarah Edmondson, Part 2 - DOS, Disillusionment, and Leaving Keith Raniere

This week is part 2 with Sarah Edmondson, NXIVM survivor, author, and host of A Little Bit Culty. The girls pick back up as Sarah goes deeper into the organization, event

Jun 3
49 min

Sarah Edmondson, Part 1 - Joining NXIVM, Meeting Keith Raniere, and Moving Up the Ranks

This week is part 1 with, at long last, Sarah Edmondson, NXIVM survivor, author, and host of A Little Bit Culty, a podcast and now book, co-hosted and authored with her h

May 20
51 min

Nomzia Bistline, Part 2 - Raided by the FBI, Life in Prison, and Breaking Free From Sam Bateman

In part 2 with Nomzia aka Nomz Bistline, from Netflix’s docuseries Trust Me: The False Prophet (with Lola’s mom), Nomz shares what it was like getting raided by the FBI,

May 13
1 h 05 min

Nomzia Bistline, Part 1 - The False Prophet: Growing Up FLDS & Marrying Sam Bateman

This week is part one with Nomzia “Nomz” Bistline, from the Netflix docuseries Trust Me: The False Prophet (with Lola’s mom, Christine!). Nomz joins the girls to talk abo

May 6
54 min

Lyndsey Burr - Producing America’s Next Top Model

Lyndsey Burr, longtime reality television producer who worked on America’s Next Top Model for years, joins the girls to talk about her experiences working on the now-cont

Apr 29
1 h 11 min

Matthew Remski, Part 2 - Cult Hopping, Disillusionment, and Root Causes of Cults

In part two with Matthew Remski (author and host of the Conspirituality podcast), Matthew shares how he cult hopped from his first guru to his second, the moment that dis

Apr 22
50 min

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I check this for updates every week. It’s a good podcast with interesting guests and fun hosts. I really also appreciate you speaking up about Gaza on your platform. Thank you.

LadyRavenway · Oct 2024

The ladies on this podcast provide the right level of inane chat, and deep and informed discussions. The folks they’ve interviewed have been stellar. The best part is that it is focused, with great questions, on the guest(s). I appreciate the hosts including their personal experiences and knowledge, offered for additional meaning not seeking recognition. Great show I highly recommend!

Memishel · Jul 2024

Show is insightful & funny. Questions are always poignant and they show the utmost respect to all guest & backgrounds. It’s taught me a lot. Appreciate your hard work & tackling necessary, uncomfortable conversations. 👏🏽💙

not my birthday · Jul 2024

*Update: I recommend you put your merch link at the end of each episode and on the show page. People want to support you and don’t know how!* I love the perspective the 2 hosts bring because they are former cult members of different cults. It’s fascinating learning about their cults and experiences throughout the episodes. I was a little turned off initially because of their voices and banter, but I’ve grown to love it. I know Lola speaks fast, but I really enjoy it. Maybe others could slow down the podcast in their settings? Also, you can also skip through the banter. They start with a segment “what’s the cultiest thing you’ve experienced this week”, have the interview, then do a segment on if Megan would join the cult or not. They have lots of guests with different specialities (experts) or experiences (former cult members). Sometimes the guest is both a former cult member and expert in cult recovery. I like the variety. Some experts seem more knowledgeable and trustworthy while others don’t. I think it’s brilliant that the hosts push back sometimes with the guests. It makes for a more honest and genuine conversation with a goal of knowledge versus marketing a certain personal or idea. Give it a chance! Listen to a few since they can vary greatly. Keep up the awesome work Lola and Megan. This is my favorite podcast right now and I’m learning SO much. It’s also helping me recover from a toxic relationship surprisingly. I just thought I had an interest in cults which is how I discovered the podcast. I wasn’t expecting it to be helpful in my personal life.

emily7c · Jun 2024

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