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The Openlove101 Show

by John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we're here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

Latest episodes

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Inside Shrine: A Safe Space for Alternative Lifestyles

Step inside Shrine, the ultimate lifestyle club creating a safe space for alternative lifestyles! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Ever thought about ex

Sep 29
44 min

Can Straight Couples Go to Swinger Clubs?

John and Jackie address a common concern from heterosexual couples who are curious about swinger clubs but worry they won't fit in because of assumptions about bisexualit

Sep 22
3 min

Exploring Shrine: Unity in Swinging, Polyamory, and BDSM

Curious about swinging, polyamory, or exploring BDSM? Discover how Shrine brings unity to all these lifestyles under one roof! Ever thought about how trust, intimacy, and

Sep 15
44 min

Swinger Club Etiquette, Diversity, and the Importance of Consent

John and Jackie answer common questions about swinger clubs and the lifestyle, including why clubs may limit single men on certain nights, diversity within the community,

Sep 8
7 min

The Truth About Performance Anxiety and Intimacy

Struggling with performance anxiety or curious about intimacy in an open lifestyle? Let's explore it together! 😊   In this insightful chat, we dive deep into overcomi

Sep 1
48 min

The Biggest Misconception About Swingers

John and Jackie tackle one of the biggest misconceptions about the swinging lifestyle: that being a swinger means being sexually available to everyone. In reality, consen

Aug 25
5 min

Secrets to Open Relationships That Last ❤️

Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Wondering how trust, communication, and intimacy can deepen your connection? Let's explore it together! 😊 In this epi

Aug 18
35 min

Walking Through Fear: When Boundaries Help Us Grow

John and Jackie explore how couples can navigate fear and anxiety while growing together. While facing fears can eventually reduce anxiety, they emphasize that no one sho

Aug 11
4 min

Naughty in New Orleans: Our Weekend Experience

John and Jackie share their experience at Naughty in New Orleans (NIN), one of the largest lifestyle events in the world. They discuss the event's incredible growth, them

Aug 4
19 min

How Your Upbringing Shapes Your Views on Sex

In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie discuss how childhood experiences, family values, and cultural beliefs shape our attitudes toward sex and relationships. T

Jul 28
8 min

Acceptance, Vulnerability, and Building Healthier Relationships Pt. 2 ft. Samia Mounts

  In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie continue their conversation with Samia, exploring the importance of acceptance, emotional vulnerability, and honest co

Jul 21
27 min

Embracing Authenticity, Communication, and Non-Monogamy Pt. 1 ft. Samia Mounts

In this collaborative episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie are joined by Samia to discuss their journeys into consensual non-monogamy, the importance of honest communi

Jul 14
26 min

How Single Men Can Succeed at a Swinger Club

Summary In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie share five essential tips for single men attending a swinger club for the first time. They explain that success is

Jul 7
11 min

Radical Honesty, Therapy, and Building Stronger Relationships ft. Liv Love Pt. 2

In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie continue their conversation with Liv and Misha, exploring how radical honesty, therapy, and intentional communication tran

Jun 30
22 min

Building Intimacy Through Honesty: A Young Couple's Journey in the Swinging Lifestyle ft Liv & Misha

What if the key to a thriving relationship isn't found in traditional relationship advice, but in radical honesty, intentional communication, and the courage to explore b

Jun 23
23 min

Swingers Club Advice (23 Tips)

Today we have some swingers club advice to help you make your experience as fun and safe as possible. In fact, we have 23 specific tips for you! Open relationships can

Jun 17
25 min

What My Parents' Open Lifestyle Taught Me

In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie are joined by Jackie's daughter, Ashley, to discuss what it was like growing up with parents in a consensually non-monogam

Jun 9
31 min

Five Do's for a Great Time at a Swingers Club

In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie Melfi share their top recommendations for creating a positive, comfortable, and enjoyable experience at a swingers club. D

Jun 2
10 min

The Relaxed Energy of Swingers Clubs

n this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie Melfi reflect on a recent visit to a swingers club after returning from an extended vacation. What stood out to them most w

May 19
5 min

How the Lifestyle Transformed a 29-Year Marriage

In this powerful episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie Melfi sit down with Mr. and Mrs. Jones from the podcast WeGotaThing.com to discuss their journey from a tradition

May 12
42 min

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