The Erotic Realm

#137 Can You Keep Desire Alive? Female Desire, Sex & Long-Term Relationships with Caroline Hood

Does desire really die in long-term relationships — or are we misunderstanding what happens to it? In this episode I'm joined by sex therapist and clinical social worker

#136 When Your Master Dies: MJ's Girl on Love, Loss & 21-Years of M/s Relationship

What happens to your identity as a slave when the Master you've belonged to for 21 years dies? In this episode I'm joined by Kim — MJ's Girl, who shares the story of her

#135 The Psychology of Ownership: Total Power Exchange, Erotic Identity & the Desire to Own with RednBlack

What happens when the kink you're having is no longer the kink you actually want? In this episode I'm joined by RednBlack to explore the psychology of ownership, Total P

#134 The Psychology of Male Dominance: Justin on Power, Masculinity & Submission

Can a man learn to be Dominant — or is dominance something you either have or you don't? In this episode I'm joined by Justin, founder of The Dominance Academy, to explo

#133 The Psychology of Mismatched Desire: The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames on Sex & Relationships

What happens when you love each other — but you don't want the same things sexually? In this episode I'm joined by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to explore the psyc

#132 Kink & Neurodivergence: BDSM, Mental Health & Consent with Auntie Vice

What's missing when the standard rules of kink assume everybody's brain works the same way? In this episode Auntie Vice returns to explore the intersection of BDSM, neur

#131 What Your Sexual Fantasies Reveal About You: Cat Savard on Kink, CNC & Desire

What do your sexual fantasies reveal about you? In this episode I'm joined by Cat Savard, founder of Good Ember, to explore the psychology and data behind our sexual fan

#130 Owning Your Kink: Living Authentically, Cults & Consent with Rain DeGrey

What happens when you stop hiding your kink and decide to fully own who you are? In this episode Rain DeGrey takes us from coming out of the kink closet and finding hers

#129 Desire and Your Body: Judith Swack on Shame, Trauma & Sexuality

What happens when there is a disconnect between what your mind and your body wants? In this episode I explore with Judith Swack, creator of Healing from the Body Level U

#128 Why Financial Domination Turns People On: Money, Power & Kink with Harley

Why can giving someone your money become an act of erotic surrender? In this episode I'm joined by Harley to explore the psychology of financial domination — better know

#127 The Psychology of Pony Play: Rapidash on Transformation, Submission & Pony Space

What happens when you don't just want to pretend to be a pony but you want to psychologically become one? In this episode I'm joined by Desmond, known in the kink commun

#126 365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure, Desire & the Psychology of Orgasm with Annette Benedetti

What happens when you commit to having an orgasm every single day for an entire year? In this episode we explore Annette's 365 Days of Orgasms journey — what began as an

#125 Erotic Jealousy, Non-Monogamy & Your Passport 2 Pleasure with Ally Iseman

Can jealousy become erotic—and can we have both security and novelty in our relationships? I'm joined by Ally Iseman from Passport to Pleasure, a certified relationship

#124 The Psychology of Sacred Kink: BDSM, Spirituality & Ritual with Melissa M. Wilcox

What if some BDSM experiences aren't simply erotic—but sacred? In this episode I explore with scholar Melissa M. Wilcox about the fascinating intersection of BDSM, spiri

#123 The Good Boy: Submission, Tantra & Latex with The Queensman

What if submission wasn't about weakness...but about finally feeling safe enough to be vulnerable? In this episode I sit down with The Queensman—a passionate submissive,

#122 The Art of Shibari: Marie Sauvage on Ritual, Presence, & Erotic Art

What if Shibari wasn't simply about rope—but about learning a new way to communicate? In this episode I chat with internationally recognised Shibari artist Marie Sauvage

#121 The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Jim Benson on Masculinity, Tantra & Erotic Confidence

Can men experience multiple orgasms - and if so, why aren't more people talking about it? In this episode I speak with men's sexuality coach Jim Benson to explore the ps

#120 Healing Your Erotic Self: Big Bear Hug on Trauma, Boundaries & Belonging

What happens when healing from trauma changes the way you understand your desires? In this episode I chat with with Big_Bear_Hug to explore the psychology of trauma, bou

#119 Building Orgasmic Wellness: The Platform Rethinking Sexual Health Care with Mike Corner

Why is finding the right help for a sexual concern still so difficult? In this episode I’m joined by Michael Corner, founder of Orgasmic Wellness, to explore the fragmen

#118 Inside the Mind of FetLife Founder John Baku

How do you build the world's largest BDSM community? In this episode I chat down with John Baku, the founder of FetLife, to explore the psychology behind one of the most