The Erotic Realm

#143 The Dark Side of BDSM: Toxic Kink Culture, Power Dynamics & Consent with Ayzad.

What happens when the very communities built around consent, freedom and sexual exploration develop their own forms of toxicity, manipulation and abuse? In this episode

#142 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 2

Why does the human brain sometimes transform pain into sexual pleasure? And what can BDSM teach us about neuroscience, desire and consciousness? In this episode I'm join

#141 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 1

Why does the human brain sometimes transform pain into sexual pleasure? And what can BDSM teach us about neuroscience, desire and consciousness? In this episode I'm join

#140 Desire After 70: Sex, Sensuality and the Senior Woman with Andrea Feinberg

What happens when you rediscover sexual desire in your seventies, after decades without intimacy? In this episode I chat with Andrea Feinberg, also known as Brookiana, w

#139 The Sassy Switch: Dominance, Submission, Gender & Kink Confidence with Sassy

What happens when discovering your dominant side completely changes the way you understand your submissive one? In this episode of I'm joined by Sassy—Bethany Burgoyne—t

#138 What Your Doctor Wants You to Know About Sex: STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health with Dr Leigh Barlow

What does a sexual-health doctor want you to know about sex? In this episode I'm joined by Dr Leigh Barlow to explore the things your doctor really wants you to understa

#137 Can You Keep Desire Alive? Female Desire, Sex & Long-Term Relationships with Caroline Hood

Does desire really die in long-term relationships — or are we misunderstanding what happens to it? In this episode I'm joined by sex therapist and clinical social worker

#136 When Your Master Dies: MJ's Girl on Love, Loss & 21-Years of M/s Relationship

What happens to your identity as a slave when the Master you've belonged to for 21 years dies? In this episode I'm joined by Kim — MJ's Girl, who shares the story of her

#135 The Psychology of Ownership: Total Power Exchange, Erotic Identity & the Desire to Own with RednBlack

What happens when the kink you're having is no longer the kink you actually want? In this episode I'm joined by RednBlack to explore the psychology of ownership, Total P

#134 The Psychology of Male Dominance: Justin on Power, Masculinity & Submission

Can a man learn to be Dominant — or is dominance something you either have or you don't? In this episode I'm joined by Justin, founder of The Dominance Academy, to explo

#133 The Psychology of Mismatched Desire: The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames on Sex & Relationships

What happens when you love each other — but you don't want the same things sexually? In this episode I'm joined by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to explore the psyc

#132 Kink & Neurodivergence: BDSM, Mental Health & Consent with Auntie Vice

What's missing when the standard rules of kink assume everybody's brain works the same way? In this episode Auntie Vice returns to explore the intersection of BDSM, neur

#131 What Your Sexual Fantasies Reveal About You: Cat Savard on Kink, CNC & Desire

What do your sexual fantasies reveal about you? In this episode I'm joined by Cat Savard, founder of Good Ember, to explore the psychology and data behind our sexual fan

#130 Owning Your Kink: Living Authentically, Cults & Consent with Rain DeGrey

What happens when you stop hiding your kink and decide to fully own who you are? In this episode Rain DeGrey takes us from coming out of the kink closet and finding hers

#129 Desire and Your Body: Judith Swack on Shame, Trauma & Sexuality

What happens when there is a disconnect between what your mind and your body wants? In this episode I explore with Judith Swack, creator of Healing from the Body Level U

#128 Why Financial Domination Turns People On: Money, Power & Kink with Harley

Why can giving someone your money become an act of erotic surrender? In this episode I'm joined by Harley to explore the psychology of financial domination — better know

#127 The Psychology of Pony Play: Rapidash on Transformation, Submission & Pony Space

What happens when you don't just want to pretend to be a pony but you want to psychologically become one? In this episode I'm joined by Desmond, known in the kink commun

#126 365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure, Desire & the Psychology of Orgasm with Annette Benedetti

What happens when you commit to having an orgasm every single day for an entire year? In this episode we explore Annette's 365 Days of Orgasms journey — what began as an

#125 Erotic Jealousy, Non-Monogamy & Your Passport 2 Pleasure with Ally Iseman

Can jealousy become erotic—and can we have both security and novelty in our relationships? I'm joined by Ally Iseman from Passport to Pleasure, a certified relationship

#124 The Psychology of Sacred Kink: BDSM, Spirituality & Ritual with Melissa M. Wilcox

What if some BDSM experiences aren't simply erotic—but sacred? In this episode I explore with scholar Melissa M. Wilcox about the fascinating intersection of BDSM, spiri