The Erotic Realm

#149 The Intersex Experience: Gender, Desire & Life Beyond the Binary with Papa Bear

What if everything you've been taught about male and female bodies represents only part of the extraordinary diversity of human biology? In this episode I'm joined by Pa

#148 BDSM Fantasy vs Reality: The Heart of Dominance & Submission with Anton Fulmen

What happens when your BDSM fantasies of dominance, submission and absolute control meet the realities of human relationships? In this episode I'm joined by Anton Fulmen

#147 Beyond the Binary: Queer & Nonbinary BDSM Education with Dare Campbell

What if exploring BDSM as a queer, nonbinary person could transform your understanding of power, desire and erotic identity? In this episode I'm joined by Dare Campbell,

#146 The Art of Wax Play: Kink, Creativity & Male Vulnerability with DevilishBrew

What happens when discovering a kink doesn't just transform your sexuality, but unlocks creativity, vulnerability and parts of yourself you never knew existed? In this e

#145 The Shameless Erotic Self: Erotic Writing, Desire & Self-Discovery with Tash Doherty

What happens when the sexuality you've been taught to suppress becomes the very thing you need to explore to understand yourself? In this episode I'm joined by Tash Dohe

#144 Sex Magick & BDSM: Occultism, Ritual & Altered States with Sanhre Daffowt

Can sexual energy be used in magick? And could BDSM, ritual and altered states of consciousness be connected in ways we don't yet fully understand? In this episode I'm j

#143 The Dark Side of BDSM: Toxic Kink Culture, Power Dynamics & Consent with Ayzad.

What happens when the very communities built around consent, freedom and sexual exploration develop their own forms of toxicity, manipulation and abuse? In this episode

#142 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 2

Why does the human brain sometimes transform pain into sexual pleasure? And what can BDSM teach us about neuroscience, desire and consciousness? In this episode I'm join

#141 The Neuroscience of BDSM: Pain, Pleasure & the Kinky Brain with Hermes Solenzol Part 1

Why does the human brain sometimes transform pain into sexual pleasure? And what can BDSM teach us about neuroscience, desire and consciousness? In this episode I'm join

#140 Desire After 70: Sex, Sensuality and the Senior Woman with Andrea Feinberg

What happens when you rediscover sexual desire in your seventies, after decades without intimacy? In this episode I chat with Andrea Feinberg, also known as Brookiana, w

#139 The Sassy Switch: Dominance, Submission, Gender & Kink Confidence with Sassy

What happens when discovering your dominant side completely changes the way you understand your submissive one? In this episode of I'm joined by Sassy—Bethany Burgoyne—t

#138 What Your Doctor Wants You to Know About Sex: STIs, PrEP & Queer Sexual Health with Dr Leigh Barlow

What does a sexual-health doctor want you to know about sex? In this episode I'm joined by Dr Leigh Barlow to explore the things your doctor really wants you to understa

#137 Can You Keep Desire Alive? Female Desire, Sex & Long-Term Relationships with Caroline Hood

Does desire really die in long-term relationships — or are we misunderstanding what happens to it? In this episode I'm joined by sex therapist and clinical social worker

#136 When Your Master Dies: MJ's Girl on Love, Loss & 21-Years of M/s Relationship

What happens to your identity as a slave when the Master you've belonged to for 21 years dies? In this episode I'm joined by Kim — MJ's Girl, who shares the story of her

#135 The Psychology of Ownership: Total Power Exchange, Erotic Identity & the Desire to Own with RednBlack

What happens when the kink you're having is no longer the kink you actually want? In this episode I'm joined by RednBlack to explore the psychology of ownership, Total P

#134 The Psychology of Male Dominance: Justin on Power, Masculinity & Submission

Can a man learn to be Dominant — or is dominance something you either have or you don't? In this episode I'm joined by Justin, founder of The Dominance Academy, to explo

#133 The Psychology of Mismatched Desire: The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames on Sex & Relationships

What happens when you love each other — but you don't want the same things sexually? In this episode I'm joined by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, to explore the psyc

#132 Kink & Neurodivergence: BDSM, Mental Health & Consent with Auntie Vice

What's missing when the standard rules of kink assume everybody's brain works the same way? In this episode Auntie Vice returns to explore the intersection of BDSM, neur

#131 What Your Sexual Fantasies Reveal About You: Cat Savard on Kink, CNC & Desire

What do your sexual fantasies reveal about you? In this episode I'm joined by Cat Savard, founder of Good Ember, to explore the psychology and data behind our sexual fan

#130 Owning Your Kink: Living Authentically, Cults & Consent with Rain DeGrey

What happens when you stop hiding your kink and decide to fully own who you are? In this episode Rain DeGrey takes us from coming out of the kink closet and finding hers