Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

When Family Drama Is Hurting Your Marriage: Couples Therapy with Dave and Ashley Willis

What do you do when your family of origin is bringing difficult, dysfunctional, or even toxic behaviors into your marriage and family? Today, I sat down for an important

Surviving Infidelity: Couples Therapy with Carl and Laura Lentz

What do you do when your marriage undergoes a deep rupture that feels like it cannot be repaired? In today’s episode of Couples Therapy, I sat down with Carl and Laura Le

We’re Feeling Disconnected in Marriage: Couples Therapy with Rebecca and Wade

Connection is the heartbeat of a marriage, and without it, a couple can feel like their relationship is slowly dying. In today’s episode of Couples Therapy, we explore th

Your Parenting Style is Triggering Me: Couples Therapy with Landon and Lindsey

Parenting tension is often a marriage problem in disguise. Today on Couples Therapy, I’m joined by Landon and Lindsey who open up about the exact cycle that keeps blowing

Can We Heal After Separation? Couples Therapy with Meagan and Ryan

Is it possible to heal AFTER separation? This episode of Couples Therapy is a heartfelt session with Meagan and Ryan, who join Debra to unpack the roots of their separati

3 Conflict Hacks Every Couple Should Know! Couples Therapy with Levi and Sabrina

I am SO EXCITED that today my new book Relationship Skills officially releases into the world!! Because I believe that healthy relationships are not found, they’re built

Stop Putting Kids Before Marriage: Couples Therapy with Letty and Lenny

When kids take over the house, marriage can easily go to survival mode - and suddenly the relationship you love feels like one more chore on the to-do list. In this power

Is this Boundaries or Control? Couples Therapy with Curt and Lindsey

We’re BACK with the most popular series of the year: COUPLES THERAPY! And we hit the ground running in this heated episode with Curt and Lindsey.They’ve been dating for q

Singles Series: Redefining Spiritual Leadership (Meet Brittany)

Today we’re closing out our Singles Series with Brittany from deep east Texas! One of my favorite parts of getting to know Brittany was learning about her heart for God’s

Singles Series: I'm in a YES Season (Meet Paaton)

Today I'm chatting with Paaton from South Dakota, who's in a season where she's taking a personal challenge of saying YES to as many things as she can – to unexpected dat

Singles Series: In Vegas But Not of Vegas (Meet Rob)

Today I'm chatting with Rob, a single man from Las Vegas, who is here to let you know that the Vegas stereotype is not always what you expect. He's an entrepreneur that m

Singles Series: The “Not My Husband” List (Meet Leah)

Today on the podcast I’m introducing you to Leah from Arizona, an amazing single woman whose life has taken an unexpected turn as a health and wellness influencer over th

Singles Series: From Heartbreak to Healing (Meet Malachi)

The Singles Series continues with Malachi from Texas, who processes the journey of carrying past pain into relationships, and how it just bleeds into the next relationshi

Singles Series: I Love My People (Meet Lauren)

The Singles Series continues with Lauren from Indiana, who is learning to make the most of singleness, while she trusts God with her hopes for marriage. She just finished

Singles Series: Embracing Hard Conversations (Meet Devon)

The Singles Series continues with Devon from Florida, who has learned the value of leaning into the hard conversations instead of avoiding them. Devon is pastor, coach, a

Singles Series: I’m Learning Myself (Meet Amanda)

The Summer Lovin’ Singles Series continues today with Amanda from Florida! Amanda is in a season of “learning herself”. Her relationship with Jesus has been the solid roc

Singles Series: Faith Over Everything (Meet Pedro)

It’s time for Summer Lovin’! I’m so excited for the conversations we’ll be having over the next few months with both singles and married couples about the realities of na

Is This Burnout or Menopause?

Exhaustion. Fatigue. Lack of Motivation. Apathy. Overwhelm. How do you know if you’re burnt out – or if you’re just dealing with hormones? Because we know that sometimes

My Parents Show No Interest In Me

What do you do when you’re in a relationship with parents – who don’t seem to be interested in a relationship with you? What do you do if they seem avoidant, distant, or

I Don’t Know What’s Next For Me

What do you do when you’re in the middle of a season of transition – but you have no idea what’s coming up next? When you feel like you’re in the middle of point A and po