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Entrepreneurship · Jake Stahl | Executive Presence & High-Stakes Communication

Own The Room: How to Control Perception, Read the Room, and Win High Stakes Conversations

by Jake Stahl | Executive Presence & High-Stakes Communication

You don’t lose deals because you’re unprepared. You lose them because something shifts in the room — and you don’t catch it in time. Own The Room is a podcast about high-stakes communication, executive presence, and persuasion for founders, CEOs, executives, consultants, and sales leaders who operate in moments where perception matters more than logic. Hosted by Jake Stahl, a high-stakes communication strategist and expert in sales psychology, negotiation skills, and leadership communication, this show breaks down what’s really happening inside pitches, negotiations, presentations, and difficult business conversations. This podcast is for people who are already smart, prepared, and experienced — but keep losing moments they should be winning. Each episode helps you: Read body language and nonverbal signals in real timeControl perception and executive presence before you speakRecognize the exact moment a conversation turnsNavigate difficult conversations at work, pricing discussions, and objectionsReframe and recover inside negotiations and sales conversationsEliminate buyer’s remorse by answering the unspoken questionsCommunicate with authority in meetings, presentations, and high-value deals This is not a show about scripts, hacks, or motivation. It’s about influence, decision-making psychology, and precision under pressure. If you’re tired of being ignored, ghosted, or underestimated — despite being intelligent, prepared, and capable — Own The Room teaches you how to read the room, steer perception, and win high-stakes conversations with certainty.

Latest episodes

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The Blind Spot Every Leader Has and Doesn't Know It - David Carr

Most leaders think their biggest problem is getting people to do more. It's not. It's getting people to understand more — and most leaders are unknowingly standing in the

Oct 29
28 min

Why You Can't Stop Following Up (And How to Finally Stop Reaching for Send)

You told yourself the follow-up was about them. It wasn't. It was about the silence, and how badly you needed it to stop. Sending that message gave you relief, and the r

Oct 26
12 min

How to Follow Up Without Sounding Desperate: 5 Moves That Make Them Reach for You

The deal didn't die because they went quiet. It died because of what your follow-up said while they were quiet. "Just checking in" feels polite, but every one of those m

Oct 22
23 min

5 Ways to Stop Letting Other People Take Credit for Your Work

Someone else took the bow for your work, and you called your silence "being the bigger person." If it really didn't matter, you wouldn't still be replaying it. Staying q

Oct 19
12 min

How to Take Back Credit for Your Work Without Looking Petty

Someone just presented your work as their own, in front of the people who decide your future. If you stay quiet, the idea becomes theirs, and if you blurt out "that was m

Oct 15
20 min

How to Respond in the First Hour of a Crisis - Alyssa Burns

The call always comes at the worst possible time. 8 PM on a Thursday. "Can you get on the phone in the next ten minutes?" And in that first hour, before a single public w

Oct 12
37 min

5 Ways to Catch Your Ego Before It Corrects Someone in Front of the Room

You corrected them in front of everyone and called it honesty. The room saw something else. You could have fixed it in the hallway in ten seconds. Doing it in public bou

Oct 8
11 min

How to Correct Someone in Power Without Losing the Relationship

You were right, you said so in front of everyone, and it cost you the relationship. When someone with power is wrong in front of their people, your correction lands as a

Oct 5
19 min

How to Give Yourself Permission to Ask for More

You told yourself you ate the difference because you're a person of integrity. That wasn't integrity. That was fear. In this episode, Jake breaks down why honoring a num

Oct 1
12 min

5 Moves for Raising a Price or Salary You Already Set

You already gave them a number. Then the real cost turned out to be more, and instead of going back to ask, you just quietly ate the difference and called it being profes

Sep 28
22 min

Scalability vs. Growth: Most Owners Never Learn the Difference.

Your sales are flat. That feels safe. It isn't. If costs went up and revenue didn't, you didn't hold steady — you lost ground. Most business owners never see it that way

Sep 24
30 min

5 Signs You're Hiding a Problem Instead of Handling It

You told yourself you were sitting on it because you were handling it. That wasn't handling it. That was fear. Jake breaks down why the instinct to quietly fix a problem

Sep 22
12 min

How to Deliver Bad News to Your Boss Without It Landing on You

You didn't lose their trust when the deadline slipped. You lost it during the weeks you spent hoping it would fix itself before you said a word. Bad news doesn't damage

Sep 17
21 min

5 Ways to Catch a Panic Yes Before It Costs You the Client

You told yourself that yes was generosity. It wasn't. It was fear wearing flexibility's clothes. Jake breaks down the real reason you cave when a client pushes for a dis

Sep 14
12 min

How To Say No To A Client Without Losing Them

You said yes to keep the client. That yes is the exact reason they left. A discount, a rushed deadline, one more freebie — cave once and you don't earn loyalty, you set

Sep 10
21 min

The Laws of Negotiation Nobody Taught You - Ron Hubsher

You've been on the call for two minutes and you still don't know what the other person actually wants. Not what they're asking for... what they want. Those are almost ne

Sep 7
34 min

CLOSE THE DOOR: Stop Working on Your Pitch. Start Working on Your Presence.

You didn't lose them at the end. You lost them in the middle, in a moment so small you talked right through it. In this one, Jake takes you inside the exact second a con

Sep 3
10 min

Missed When You Lost It? 5 Moves to Catch a Deal Before It Turns.

You didn't lose the deal at the end. You lost it in a single second, right in the middle — and you kept talking straight through it. Jake and Jon dig into one of Jon's o

Aug 31
20 min

CLOSE THE DOOR: Five Ways to Walk Into a High Stakes Room Without Asking Permission to Be There.

You've done the preparation. The ideas are solid. The case is clear. And somehow you still walk out of that room feeling like nobody actually heard you. This episode is

Aug 27
12 min

Why People Don't Take You Seriously (It's Not Your Ideas)

You were the most prepared person in the room — and the least believed. It wasn't your ideas. You got read before you got heard. Jon Goehring and I rebuild a room he sho

Aug 24
27 min

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Where Own The Room: How to Control Perception, Read the Room, and Win High Stakes Conversations ranks today in each Apple Podcasts chart (US, Oct 31, 2026).

#192 ▼ 14 Entrepreneurship US

What listeners say

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Jake is an exceptional host. He doesn't waste time with small talk. He gets right down to business and asks deep significant questions, good questions, not just generalized ones that you hear on every podcast. I had the opportunity to be interviewed on Jake's podcast and it was honestly one of the best interviews I've had. He's an exceptional host and the content of this podcast is fantastic. Every episode has real meat on the bone. Thanks for a great experience Jake.

Rob.Stein · Jun 2026

Jake has amazing guests and I always walk away with actionable and clear strategies that can help me not only in my business, but my life!

Billm416 · Feb 2026

Jake is tremendous. Whether you are a solopreneur trying to scale up or an established business owner leading a team, Jake has great conversations that will help you take the next step. Not just tools and tactics, but the ways that leaders show up so that the results they want are inevitable.

jeffcef · Dec 2025

Jake doesn’t do fluffy marketing talk. He gets straight into how to build a predictable, modern lead gen engine without burning out your team or harassing your prospects. I really appreciate how he frames everything around buyer psychology and relevance, not gimmicks. The conversations are tight, practical, and focused on what’s working now. What stands out is that Jake asks the questions most hosts skip, so guests are nudged past the surface-level “we post on LinkedIn” and get into actual process, messaging, and measurement. If you care about higher quality conversations, better conversions, and moving away from spray-and-pray tactics, this podcast is worth subscribing to. Clear, smart, actionable. Add it to your rotation. — David Newman, author of Do It! Marketing and Market Eminence

doitmarketing · Nov 2025

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