Reality-Based Leadership

124: When to Move From Coaching to Performance Management as a Leader

Many leaders struggle with knowing when it is time to coach and when the issues they are experiencing with a team member have drifted into a performance issue that calls

123: How We Could Book Series Part 3: Leadership Tools to Coach Your Team to Accountability

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122: How We Could Book Series Part 2 - Calling People Up to Clarify the Problem, Take Accountability and Build Alignment on Your Team

In this episode, Alex Dorr breaks down his favorite quotes and insights from Part 2 of How We Could. You'll learn practical ways to clean up your thinking, build real acc

121: How We Could Book Series Part 1: Love People Up - Sharing Favorite Insights and Quotes from My New Book

In this episode, Alex discusses his favorite quotes and insights from his new book, How We Could. He goes deeper into everything that influenced what he wrote about in Pa

120: Two Concerning Ways AI Is Increasing Drama on Teams

This episode explores two emerging ways AI is starting to double the amount of drama happening on teams. The challenge is that those who may be lower in accountability ca

119: Why Good Leadership Advice Drifts to Bad Leadership Behavior

In this episode, I explore a fascinating idea about near and far enemies and how it links to leadership and the tendency for even the best leadership tips, tools and advi

118: Healthy and Unhealthy Debate in Your Company - How to Know the Difference

When smart teams can wrestle with ideas and build on each other's input to get to the best ultimate solution, it is where companies thrive. When it is done well it is tru

117: Why Learned Helplessness Holds Teams Back and Is the Opposite of Accountability

What happens when your team stops trying - not because they can't, but because they've decided it won't matter anyway? Alex Dorr, CEO and host of the Reality-Based Leader

116: The Backstory of My New Book, How We Could, Releasing in September

We are officially 2.5 months out from the launch of my new leadership book How We Could. This book will transform how leaders handle drama in the workplace and ensure tha

115: What Would Great Look Like? One Question to Stop Drama in 10 Seconds or Less

Are you or your team stuck in frustration when things go wrong — blaming circumstances, venting, or spiraling instead of moving forward? In this episode of the Reality-

114: How to Stop Arguing With Reality and Keep Teams From Endless Frustration

Are you or your team stuck in frustration over things you can't control? Do small disruptions turn into outsized stress, blame, or wasted energy? In this episode of the

113: Why Great Teams Always Give Benefit of the Doubt

In this episode of the Reality Based Leadership Podcast, Alex Dorr shares the surprisingly simple technique that helped a stuck team finally break through: giving the ben

112: Why Great Leaders Lead First, Manage Second

Is your best employee secretly your biggest drain? Are your top performers spending more time policing their teammates than actually helping them? In this episode of th

111: Why Change Isn't Hard at Work (and How to Better Lead Through It)

Are your leaders apologizing for the very changes your business needs to survive? Are your teams using the word "change" like it's a four-letter word? In this episode o

110: Why Opinions No Longer Add Value at Work

In this episode, Alex Dorr tackles one of the most overlooked culture killers in leadership today: allowing opinions to replace expertise in team conversations…In this ep

109: Why Accountability Drives Results

In this episode, Alex Dorr simplifies one of the most misunderstood concepts in leadership: personal accountability. Far from being a buzzword or a blame tool, Alex refra

108: Suffering at Work is Optional

In this episode, Alex Dorr tackles a foundational mindset shift that can radically change how leaders experience work: suffering is optional—and often self-imposed. Throu

107: Stop Judging, Start Helping

In this episode, Alex Dorr zeroes in on one of the most powerful and transformative principles in leadership: "stop judging, start helping." If there were only one mindse

106: How to AI-Enhance Your Drama Ditching at Work

In this episode, Alex Dorr explores a forward-thinking leadership topic: how to use AI to enhance decision-making, reduce workplace drama, and unlock better solutions. Dr

105: Why High Performers are Hard to Lead (and How Great Leaders Handle It)

In this episode, Alex Dorr explores a nuanced leadership question: why can high performers be difficult to lead? Drawing from conversations sparked by viral social conten