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Dr. Elise Wuyts: When science meet kink (part 2)

Part Two of my conversation with psychiatrist and researcher Dr. Elise Wuyts gets a little more personal. We talk about how context can completely change the way our bra

Dr. Elise Wuyts: When science meet kink (part 1)

What actually happens in the body during BDSM? Why was it pathologized for so long, and how much of that thinking is still hiding inside modern psychiatry? In part one o

What the f.. is CNC?

How can non-consent be consensual? In this solo episode, I’m getting into CNC, consensual non-consent, and the fascinating psychology of choosing to give up choice. I l

BDSM is only about pain

I’m doing something a little different this week. Just me, my thoughts, and a little bit of nerdy science. For this solo episode, I wanted to talk about pain — and why i

Master Joshua: Sex work is God's work

I’ve been following Master Joshua for quite a while, and one of the reasons I wanted to talk to him is because he never gave me this mysterious Dominant vibe. Quite the o

Kathy: Let your freak flag fly

For almost 13 years, Kathy Kay has been asking strangers the questions most people would never dare to ask. She's the voice behind the Strictly Anonymous podcast and the

Elizabeth: It poisons your life - go seek help

I have a confession to make. I love nerdy conversations. Where you forget you're recording a podcast because you're too busy trying to understand why people are the way

Bruce: Are you actually enjoying it?

Bruce has been curious for as long as he can remember. Long before he built some of Australia's biggest BDSM venues, hosted kink parties, or introduced hundreds of peopl

Gula: The dance with power

Gula says that the body was her first language. And after this conversation, I understand exactly what she means. She moves through life like an artist, through sensati

Paul: The art of leading and surrender

Today's guest is someone whose work has deeply influenced the way I think about kink, BDSM, and human connection. Few years ago, I came across one of Paul's articles, and

Queenderella: One big sex experiment

In this episode, I talk to Queenderella - sex, intimacy and relationship educator, event and retreat organizer, and someone who has dedicated her life to creating spaces

S and M: What kink taught us about love

This conversation is with a couple whose relationship completely changed the way they think about communication, intimacy, and even love. We talk about what happened whe

Masha: BDSM is the test drive of trusting God

In this episode, Masha and I talk about growing up in Russia, being a "good girl," first crushes, first sex, fantasies, masturbation, validation, pleasure, love, and all

Kris: I tried being "normal" and then became a Pro Domme

In this episode, I sit down with Kris to talk about her journey from a conventional life as an architect to becoming a professional dominatrix, shibari practitioner, educ

Intro

Why do we judge things before we understand them? In this opening episode, I talk about the curiosity that led me to create this podcast and why conversations about sex,