Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 769: How Long Do I Wait for My Partner to Change?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner's anger continues to be an issue Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more

Episode 768: My Boyfriend of 3 Years Won't Introduce Me to His Mom

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her boyfriend is living a double life Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hour

Episode 767: Don't Just Stay Because It Feels Easier

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't make her break up stick Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: ju

Episode 766: What's Actually Under All My Relationship Anxiety?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is really anxious about the relationship escalator Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours,

Episode 765: Advice For a Newly Single Baby Gay Pollywog

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to explore their sexuality after a 7-year relationship Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly offi

Episode 764: We're Back Together But He Won’t Tell His Parents

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck between "relationships take work" and "the right person will make it feel easy" Join us on Patreon for an extra

Episode 763: Everything I’ve Wanted But I Don’t Feel Wanted

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner's timeline for physical intimacy is moving at a glacial pace Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, mo

Episode 762: Am I Therapy-Talking My Feelings Away?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired of using therapy speak with her brother Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, an

Episode 761: My Fiancé's Moving Out, My Girlfriend's Moving In

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose expansive new life blew up her old one Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!

Episode 760: Got Married, Got a Visa, Got Chlamydia

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to make her visa marriage with a cheating husband work Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly

Episode 759: Competing With My Husband's Phone For His Attention

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband spends literally 8 hours a day on his phone Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hour

Episode 758: Grief Changed Me, But My Partner Stayed the Same

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't understand the depth of her grief Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours,

Episode 757: Sorry, But You Actually Have To Feel Your Feelings

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Episode 756: Am I Burnt Out or Does My Coworker Just Suck?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose coworker is a bulldozer Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbr

Episode 755: The Lessons I Learned Too Late

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose break-up clock just restarted Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT:

Episode 754: How Do I Enjoy This Beautiful, Hard Life?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling some relationship whiplash after getting pregnant after a month of dating Join us on Patreon for an extra week

Episode 753: Why Is There No "Good Time" To Bring Up My Feelings?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is fighting with her partner about the smallest things Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hou

Episode 752: Learning the Language of What Happened

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if he can use the words abuse or assault to describe his experience If you're in the Albany area and want to s

Episode 751: Outgrowing My High School Friends

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose high school friends still treat her like a teenager If you're in the Albany area and want to support Upper Hudson Plann

Episode 750: Breaking Up With the Man Who Pressured Me Into Dating

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's been putting off breaking up with her boyfriend If you're in the Albany area and want to support Upper Hudson Planned P