Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 761: My Fiancé's Moving Out, My Girlfriend's Moving In

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose expansive new life blew up her old one Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!

Episode 760: Got Married, Got a Visa, Got Chlamydia

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to make her visa marriage with a cheating husband work Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly

Episode 759: Competing With My Husband's Phone For His Attention

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband spends literally 8 hours a day on his phone Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hour

Episode 758: Grief Changed Me, But My Partner Stayed the Same

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't understand the depth of her grief Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours,

Episode 757: Sorry, But You Actually Have To Feel Your Feelings

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Episode 756: Am I Burnt Out or Does My Coworker Just Suck?

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Episode 755: The Lessons I Learned Too Late

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose break-up clock just restarted Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT:

Episode 754: How Do I Enjoy This Beautiful, Hard Life?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling some relationship whiplash after getting pregnant after a month of dating Join us on Patreon for an extra week

Episode 753: Why Is There No "Good Time" To Bring Up My Feelings?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is fighting with her partner about the smallest things Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hou

Episode 752: Learning the Language of What Happened

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if he can use the words abuse or assault to describe his experience If you're in the Albany area and want to s

Episode 751: Outgrowing My High School Friends

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose high school friends still treat her like a teenager If you're in the Albany area and want to support Upper Hudson Plann

Episode 750: Breaking Up With the Man Who Pressured Me Into Dating

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's been putting off breaking up with her boyfriend If you're in the Albany area and want to support Upper Hudson Planned P

Episode 749: When Longterm Love Meets Crush Restlessness

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose frustrations with her relationship are leading to a wandering mind Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, mont

Episode 748: The Grief of Being Queer in a Cishet-Presenting Relationship

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Episode 747: My Boyfriend's OnlyFans Confession

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From the Patreon: Being Neutral About Our Changing Bodies

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to cope with getting older Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUB

Episode 746: Why Do Hard Truths Come at the End of the Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter form someone who want sot know what it's like to have a relationship with yourself Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly

Episode 745: My Partner Cuddles with Their Friends

Sam and Sierra answer a letter form someone who feels a jolt of jealousy when her partner cuddles with their friends Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, mont

Episode 744: How to Maintain No Contact

Sam and Sierra answer a letter form someone who wants to let her mind rest instead of thinking about her ex Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly offic

Episode 743: The Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose empathy for her ex is maybe making her too understanding Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office