Explore More Intimacy

S.2, Episode 1. Dry Orgasms, Anal Pleasure & Sexual Confidence

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: Why does my partner sometimes have an orgasm without ejaculating? We're curious about

Quick Question: Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex?

Kat and Alex look at a question from Explore More Intimacy: “I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong with me?” In this Quick

Episode 8. Delayed Ejaculation, Spanking & Long-Distance Intimacy

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wr

Quick Question: I Know She Likes Oral. How Can I Get Better?

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: I know she likes oral. How can I get better? In this Quick Question, we talk about taking the pres

Quick Question: What’s The Difference Between A Kink And A Fetish?

Kat and Alex answer a quick question from the Explore More Intimacy community: “What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?” A short, relaxed conversation about

Quick Question: Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Why can’t I orgasm with my partner? In this Quick Question, we talk about why pleasure can feel di

Episode 7. Oral Sex, Painful Sex & Changing Masturbation

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: I know she enjoys oral sex, but I’m not helping her reach orgasm. How can I get better

Quick Question: Lasting Longer

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Lasting longer — what techniques actually work? In this Quick Question, we talk about noticing whe

Episode 6. Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex? Fantasies & Losing Erections

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong wit

Episode 5. Body Confidence, Trying New Positions & Lasting Longer

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: How can I make her feel safe during sex when she’s worried about how she looks?We alwa

Quick Question: Should I Be Upset My Partner Watches Porn

Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Should I Be Upset My Partner Watches Porn? A relaxed, honest conversation about porn in relationsh

Quick Question: A Soft Penis Still Feels Pleasure

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: If his erection softens, does that mean something is wrong? In this Quick Question, we talk about

Episode 4. Kinks, Sex Too Soon & Low Libido

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?I’ve just started seeing someone I r

Quick Question: We Asked YOU — Would You Swallow?

Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Would you swallow? This time, we put the question to YOU — and the answers weren’t quite what we e

Quick Question: Nervous Every Time We Have Sex?

Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Episode 2 of Explore More Intimacy: Why do I feel nervous every time we have sex? A relaxed, honest conversation about se

Episode 3. Swallowing, Vibrators & Does Everyone Just Want Casual Hookups?

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: My boyfriend says I’m boring if I don’t swallow — am I?I want to bring a vibrator into

Quick Question: Does Penis Size Really Matter?

Kat and Alex revisit one of the most-listened-to questions from Explore More Intimacy: Does penis size really matter? A relaxed, honest conversation about confidence, p

Episode 2. Porn, Initiating Intimacy & Sexual Anxiety

Kat and Alex answer three more real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: Should I be worried that my boyfriend watches porn?I’m tired of always being the

BONUS Testosterone, Different Desires & Reigniting Intimacy

A bonus follow-on conversation with Kat and Alex, answering three more real questions around intimacy, desire and connection. In this episode, they explore: • Can you n

BONUS Performance Anxiety, Erections & Lasting Longer

A bonus conversation with Alex Gear on performance anxiety, confidence and what really happens when pressure gets in the way of pleasure. Before Kat and Alex started rec