Explore More Intimacy

Quick Question: Lasting Longer

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Lasting longer — what techniques actually work? In this Quick Question, we talk about noticing whe

Episode 6. Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex? Fantasies & Losing Erections

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong wit

Episode 5. Body Confidence, Trying New Positions & Lasting Longer

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: How can I make her feel safe during sex when she’s worried about how she looks?We alwa

Quick Question: Should I Be Upset My Partner Watches Porn

Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Should I Be Upset My Partner Watches Porn? A relaxed, honest conversation about porn in relationsh

Quick Question: A Soft Penis Still Feels Pleasure

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: If his erection softens, does that mean something is wrong? In this Quick Question, we talk about

Episode 4. Kinks, Sex Too Soon & Low Libido

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?I’ve just started seeing someone I r

Quick Question: We Asked YOU — Would You Swallow?

Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy: Would you swallow? This time, we put the question to YOU — and the answers weren’t quite what we e

Quick Question: Nervous Every Time We Have Sex?

Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Episode 2 of Explore More Intimacy: Why do I feel nervous every time we have sex? A relaxed, honest conversation about se

Episode 3. Swallowing, Vibrators & Does Everyone Just Want Casual Hookups?

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: My boyfriend says I’m boring if I don’t swallow — am I?I want to bring a vibrator into

Quick Question: Does Penis Size Really Matter?

Kat and Alex revisit one of the most-listened-to questions from Explore More Intimacy: Does penis size really matter? A relaxed, honest conversation about confidence, p

Episode 2. Porn, Initiating Intimacy & Sexual Anxiety

Kat and Alex answer three more real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: Should I be worried that my boyfriend watches porn?I’m tired of always being the

BONUS Testosterone, Different Desires & Reigniting Intimacy

A bonus follow-on conversation with Kat and Alex, answering three more real questions around intimacy, desire and connection. In this episode, they explore: • Can you n

BONUS Performance Anxiety, Erections & Lasting Longer

A bonus conversation with Alex Gear on performance anxiety, confidence and what really happens when pressure gets in the way of pleasure. Before Kat and Alex started rec

Episode 1. Does Penis Size Matter? Orgasms & Sexual Compatibility

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community: Does penis size really matter?Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?Do we actually need t